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#1
A half hour ago on msn, some friend of my gf told me that there is a possibility that my gf is cheating on me. I'm absolutely going insane. I even reloaded my ****ing .38 cause i'm really losing it.

I've seen the guy she has been hanging with before. And i know he has feelings for her. That's the worst part. I know my gf and that guy are going to some bar tomorrow with some of their friends. And i know this is my chance to find out what's going on.

But yet i feel guilty. Just for thinking this, and everything ****ing hurts atm .

Help ?
#8
Get rid of the gun. No chick, especially one who cheats, is worth the trouble. Dump her and move on.
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#9
Quote by Deliriumbassist
well, if you have actually reloaded a .38, I recommend you shut it in a box or summat and give the key to someone you know. But it is perfectly possible that this guy could be... a friend of hers?

+1. He doesn't get "access" just because he's got feelings for her. He's probably in her "Just friends"-zone, which sucks for him, good for you. Besides, if you snap on him or her, it may be game over for you.
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#10
Yea man, calm down. Even if she is cheating on you, which she might not be, is it really worth going to jail for life for? I agree with Deliriumbassist
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#11
Okay..so a friend tells you she might be cheating on you...but why do u concider it a possiblity? You don't trust you gr? If so, then the deeper problem isn't her cheating on you, but the lack of trust between you.

Put the gun down...nothing like this is worth the trouble. If she really is cheating on you, dump her. If not, then talk about it.
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#12
Get rid of the gun. Seriously man, you can't throw your whole life away (Be it suicide or going to jail) over a cheater.

Dump her. I've been cheated on by both the girlfriends I've had, and twice by one of them. It makes you feel like shit and it's destined to happen again if you dont dump her. It's not worth the pain.
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#15
Guns won't solve anything my friend

You need to find out whats going on, if she cheated on you then get rid of her

edit: Not in the murdering sense that is...
#16
Agreed ^
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#17
Quote by Liberation
Get rid of the gun. Seriously man, you can't throw your whole life away (Be it suicide or going to jail) over a cheater.

Dump her. I've been cheated on by both the girlfriends I've had, and twice by one of them. It makes you feel like shit and it's destined to happen again if you dont dump her. It's not worth the pain.



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#18
Quote by Moggan13
Great..Another school massacre...Just what we all f*cking need!!



Blame it on the death metal.
#19
This might sound silly, but why dont you go with them to the bar? Just stay in between them and see how they react.
People are stupid; given proper motivation, almost anyone will believe almost anything. They will believe a lie because they want to believe it’s true, or because they are afraid it might be true
#20
What's the point in having a loaded gun and not shooting someone? I say rampage!


I don't actually want you to do that though. I'd feel guilty later.
#22
Grow the **** up and start acting your age. Guns dont solve anything.
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#24
I simply own the gun because im an Elite marksman in Belgium. I also hunt in my free time in the Black Forest in Germany and such.

I also own a Steyr Elite (sniper rifle) and some other handguns.

I wasn't planning on shooting myself nor my gf, only the other guy.
#25
You're overreacting. If this girl is slaggy enough to cheat on you, don't waste the effort of even using the gun in the first place.

Go to the bar with them and see what's happening with her and this guy. Remember it's only a possibility, not fact.
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Quote by ImSheddingSkin
I simply own the gun because im an Elite marksman in Belgium. I also hunt in my free time in the Black Forest in Germany and such.

I also own a Steyr Elite (sniper rifle) and some other handguns.

I wasn't planning on shooting myself nor my gf, only the other guy.



Dude...Do you listen to death-metal? If so, we have a School-Shooting on the cards....
#28
Quote by ImSheddingSkin
I wasn't planning on shooting myself nor my gf, only the other guy.


Because it would be entirely his fault?

Dude, killing anyone is just...bad
#29
The gun won't solve anything, man. Wait until you hear the full story from someone else and then take decisive action. I know how it feels to see someone you care about or have feelings for give attention to someone else that you don't like or whatever. It sucks. But, please, work things out with your girlfriend before you even start thinking like an idiot.
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#30
My girlfriend of over 2 years cheated on me a couple weeks ago.

I felt like beating her and the other guys skulls in with baseball bats.

Then again, being with a girl for over 2 years is a pretty big chunk of life... and I actually KNEW she cheated on me, and not just a kiss or something, but she ****ed him.

Now that I think about it, I probably should have beaten their skulls in.

But I didn't, and neither should you.
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#31
first think u need to do is calm down
listen to music always works for me or guitar
once ur calm u can think straight
do u know how long its been going on?
has she semed distracted by something latly?
talk to her and pay attention to her answers
once and only once ur postivly sure she is cheating on u then confront it w/ her
if she is just dump her
if she is doing this to then shes not worth it
you can do so much bettr then someone who is just gonna go and cheat on you
#32
Life goes on... That's my theory... But if you love her, believe her..
Btw. How the lyrics from Bon Jovi go : " If you don't love me, lie to me, cause' baby you're the one thing I believe"... Man that sometimes makes so much sense
I'm in love with my GF but hey mate... There's so much *****s ( sorry... girls ) out there,
so one is surely waiting for a new bf. Enjoy
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#35
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Punch both of em in the face.


Then dump + move on.

YEA! ****ing drop kick the mutherr ****er
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#36
If you kill yourself, kill them first, otherwise you've wasted everyones time. Mmmkay?

Seriously though, I can't pretend to understand the situation you're in, but I'm really sorry man. That's some painful shit. I was in a situation that is vaguely similar, and while I went through 2 years of Hell, I recently snapped out of it, and feel better than ever. Just give it time, man. Good luck.
#37
Quote by GiantRaven
Because it would be entirely his fault?

Dude, killing anyone is just...bad


That's a lie. If the dude is a terrorist, or hitler reincarnate, shoot him. If not, hes not worth it and neither is she.
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#38
Quote by GiantRaven
That a very naive way of thinking

Leaves you well open to exploitation



(Didn't mean everything....)
Yep, you're right, but what advice to give him beside that?
I don't think he's so crazy to commit murder... That would be sick...
You see that he's deep down and depressed...
The best advice is and always will be -> Life Goes on.
and that's it... Btw. If that guy touches your GF, punch him a couple of times,
maybe you'll get rid of the anger... Dunno, I'm kinda lazy for advices, I only felt once in love with my GF, and I'm still with her
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#40
Quote by Reapersoul
Blame it on the death metal.



I was thinking more along the lines of rap... But seriously, don't shoot anybody, especially yourself.
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