#1
I just spent the whole weekend at my friends house with this girl that ive had a crush on forever. We were watchin a move on a bed together and we started yo kinda snuggle under the covers. So over the past three days we spend most of the time at his house jus hanging out and we eventually ened up kissing on his bed. I ask her to be my girlfriend and she actualyl says yes!! She tells my frinds she likes me and for once I think something good might actually happen to me. This whole time I'm thinking something has to go wrong, it always had before, so something terrible is bound to happen. I go to school today and see her and everything seems cool. I'm just starting to think this might actually work out and nothing bad is going to happen. So I go home today and get on AIM. Just wanted to talk to my new girlfriend for a little bit. And what do you know the first thing she says is Mattttttt, I dont think we should be going out together anymore. She then goes on to give this exlanation about how she would make a terrible girlfriend ad there is this other guy that she loves that she cant date and she would be unhappy all the time. She says she likes me of course, but she doesnt want to ruin our friendship.

So what the hell was the point of the whole weekend? Just to get my hopes up just enough so that they can me crushed some more? I dont know how the hell to feel because now our frinedship is probaly broken or at least scarred and I get to go back to feeling liek shit all the time. I dont know why I bothered writng this on here, but I couldnt think of anywhere else to talk about it and it feels a little better now that I've written it down.
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#4
hmm.


FUCKING GO TO THE FUCKING RELATIONSHIP THREAD!


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#6
Most High School relationships = shit.

Facts of life. Glad you feel better having

let it all out though. And hey, I'm sure she'll

realize how bad she messed up & regret

ending it with you. Girls are impossible to

understand sometimes.
#7
Murphey's Law man. It's a bitch.
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#8
ive had it happen to me man, it sucks but ull get over it in a few days, i know it sucks now but itll pass


but u really shouldve gone to the relationship thread
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cheers to that
#11
as long as that other guy isnt breaking any of the man laws then everything is cool.

same thing happend to me, it sucks, but man laws were trampled in my case. which led to about 2 days of furious drinking. which led to about a week of feeling like shit.
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umm i'm not gonna type big but relationship thread
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yeah that sucks...

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#15
feel your pain bro. sorry for you, but it is true that girls are some bizarre and complex yet beautiful creatures (sometimes).


BTW, just to cheer you up, someone once told me in a time of great sadness:

tomorrow the sun WILL still wake up no matter what. good luck and dont do stupid shit.


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#17
ohh reminds me of a jimi hendrix song that i listend to for quite a while - castles made of sand.

the lyrics go something like "and castles made of sand fall into the sea.... eventually"
which i take to mean that your problems will slip away with time.
and i find it to be true, just gotta give stuff time.

edit: thought of another one: "no matter how brown the shit gets, the rain will wash it away" i tried.
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you make a very valid point
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ohh reminds me of a jimi hendrix song that i listend to for quite a while - castles made of sand.

the lyrics go something like "and castles made of sand fall into the sea.... eventually"
which i take to mean that your problems will slip away with time.
and i find it to be true, just gotta give stuff time.

edit: thought of another one: "no matter how brown the shit gets, the rain will wash it away" i tried.


never thought of that, i always took castles made of sand to mean all good things must come to an end lol..i must be unfortunate
#22
Think of it this way.. IT could of been worse. You guys could of been going out for awhile and you actually got REALLY attached to her then she told you this. Trust me the quicker it happened the easier to get it over with. Girls are wierd when starting things out! Lots of girls are scared of relationships and push themselves out of it no matter how much they like the guy.. I sort of know how you feel.. except mines probably a tad worse.. My girlfriend who I've been going out with for three years and was planning on engaging within the next year or two (Im not a highschool kid by the way) randomly decided to leave me for another guy the day before valentines...Now THAT got me upset...If I can eventually get over this then I know that you can get over that.. Remember it takes experiences like this to become an experianced man in life.
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#23
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the lyrics go something like "and castles made of sand fall into the sea.... eventually"
which i take to mean that your problems will slip away with time.
and i find it to be true, just gotta give stuff time.


it could be kind of opposite to that too, cus if you think about it, having a castle would be awesome, but nothing lasts forever, hence it falling into the sea.

haha i dono, you're probably right i was just thinking about that
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I just spent the whole weekend at my friends house with this girl that ive had a crush on forever. We were watchin a move on a bed together and we started yo kinda snuggle under the covers. So over the past three days we spend most of the time at his house jus hanging out and we eventually ened up kissing on his bed. I ask her to be my girlfriend and she actualyl says yes!! She tells my frinds she likes me and for once I think something good might actually happen to me. This whole time I'm thinking something has to go wrong, it always had before, so something terrible is bound to happen. I go to school today and see her and everything seems cool. I'm just starting to think this might actually work out and nothing bad is going to happen. So I go home today and get on AIM. Just wanted to talk to my new girlfriend for a little bit. And what do you know the first thing she says is Mattttttt, I dont think we should be going out together anymore. She then goes on to give this exlanation about how she would make a terrible girlfriend ad there is this other guy that she loves that she cant date and she would be unhappy all the time. She says she likes me of course, but she doesnt want to ruin our friendship.

So what the hell was the point of the whole weekend? Just to get my hopes up just enough so that they can me crushed some more? I dont know how the hell to feel because now our frinedship is probaly broken or at least scarred and I get to go back to feeling liek shit all the time. I dont know why I bothered writng this on here, but I couldnt think of anywhere else to talk about it and it feels a little better now that I've written it down.



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#27
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Call her a bitch or a dirty ass ho. She'll prob'ly get mad like a bitch is s'posed to.

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And what do you know the first thing she says is Mattttttt, I dont think we should be going out together anymore.
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Watcha' gunna do?


Haha, boy, you got pwned.


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Maybe you're just feeling a bit waspy?
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#36
Dude i'm in a very similar situation to yours...
except we never even wound up going out.

but everything else... THE SAME!

SO basically my advice to you... is to try your hardest not to let her know that it bothers you. Be her friend! Try not to let it be wierd because a little wierdness will grow to a falling out, but if you keep making it effort to still be friends it'll eventually pass.

Let me know how this works out
#37
go get stoned out of your mind, drink a whole lot of alcohol and get lost for a week in the woods or desert, whichever is closer. then go find her and tell her what you went through after she broke your heart. and then she will have your babies and you will have spent a whole week stoned and drunk.


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#39
Tell her she wasted your weekend because she just ended shit and you could have did better things like drink beer with other girls.
#40
well ill see what happens i guess

maybe ill post another thread about how all this stuff turns out sometime or somthing

thx for the help though guys