#1
Please. I need your patience, finish the story just for the sake of it.

Well it all started three weeks ago. It was prior to our senior science mid-year exams. I had a thing for a girl in my physics class, since grade 10. But I never had the chance to talk to her because we were so different. Anyways, our teacher handed out the practice tests so they can help us review. We were told that we could photocopy them in the library. We decided to go to the library together to make copies. At that point my feelings wasn't that strong for her because it had been a long time.

However I was anxious and felt a bit awkward. It wasn't a long way to the library, she was worried about the exam. In fact she's not that good in Physics. But I'm not saying that she's not smart, actually she had taken Biology 11 in grade 10 and also in this year she has Chemistry 12. Perhaps Physics doesn't make sense to her but she's smart and hardworking.

Back to the story. We found ourselves in the library and the machine was free and worked fine. We had $1.20, just enough to make two copies. When I placed the original copy in the machine and began to push coins in the slot, she suddenly insisted to scan those tests for me at her home. Then she asked for my email. As I said, we weren't close at all, we just happened to be in the same class. Her words were basically like this: I can scan the test at home and send it to you. Do you have an email? I was puzzled, I didn't understand why she would do that. I just said: We are here already, let's just make copies. I didn't even know what I was saying because I was still confused really much. Then she went "oh" and sat down. I can still vividly remember what happened in the library.

I went home after Physics, it is the last block and it was a Friday. I went home and thought about the library incident, and I knew maybe she meant something else. Or she could use the scanning thing as an excuse so she could get my email. Then I told myself that I'm thinking too much. But I couldn't stop thinking and what if she actually meant that? I was such a dumbass. I could've said: We can make copies here but you may have my email. Or something like that. I blamed myself for being stupid and brain-dead.

After the weekend it was our mid-year exam. It was a Thursday Both of us saw each other outside of the classroom, we couldn't get in because the previous class hadn't finished yet. So we just chatted. Then my friend comes by and he asked me if I was ready for the exam, I said: Yeah of course. Before he could say anything she said: Of course he's ready, he's Luke. I couldn't forget how sincere her words were. I got a little uncomfortable with her praises. Because I didn't want her to think that I'm better. I remembered she said that I'm smart. And 2 weeks before that, when we were doing relativity, she said that as well.

After we finished the exam, we talked about it and she didn't do too well. I just told her that she has Biology and Chemistry, she didn't need physics anyways. I don't know if that would make her feel better or not.

On the next Monday, something happened again. It was two days before Valentine's Day. After my class, I was walking to G-Section. She was walking behind me but I didn't know at that time. Then she tapped me on my shoulders with her notebook and asked me where I was going. I just replied that I'm going home. Obviously she was trying to start a conversation and I knew that I should keep it up. When I almost started to speak, my friend began to bug me. I think he was trying to be playful but I wasn't sure. All I remember was he was pushing me into the walls. It didn't necessarily hurt but I was annoyed. I told him to stop that but he didn't. I was like: Hey, what the fu<k! Then he finally stopped, but she was gone.

I had to talk to her on the next day, but I didn't see her anywhere in the school. On Valentine's Day, I gave up after I saw the rose in her hand with a red coloured heart-shaped note paper with words written on it. It couldn't be anything else, and I probably knew who gave her that. Maybe he's her boyfriend but they didn't look like a couple. I ended up getting drunk in the park at night.

If she hadn't done those things to me, I wouldn't have a such strong feeling for her. I cursed myself for being so stupid and everything went wrong. I was deeply disgusted by myself, it was horrible. Now I've been through all this, it aroused my feelings for her.

Then I noticed that maybe she's single because she never spend her lunch time with any guy. And when she's with him, he never does anything a boyfriend would usually do. And she was still friendly to me in class, we still talk and it wasn't that bad.

Sometimes when I saw her in the hallway, she avoided my eye contact, i didn't even get a chance to say hi. But I put more effort and now whenever I see her she greets me. It may sound pathetic to you but that's how it is. It's my experience.

Now I don't know what to do. It confuses me, and it's torturing. I want to grow up. Is she in my fate? I really like her. I can't help it.
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#2
dude...grow a sac and talk to her about it...shes prolly thinkin the same thing
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#4
girls.............
not worth gettin drunk man.... lol, just kidding.

idk, im not dr love...
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#5
Wow. I've been through that. If all that happened just this month, then you've got hope. Just say "hey" to her in the hallway if you're not busy talking to somebody. And try to keep the thought in your head to listen to her and keep a conversation going.

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#6
ya just talk to her , if you don't talk you don't know how she feels and she won't know how you feel , then you'll never reach a solution or a resolution.

talk to her asap, try and get your feelings across as well as you can and ask her or let her tell you how she feels about everything
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#7
lol ....im going to go all Dr phil on u ....how does that make u feel?
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#8
It's funny because the title says love but your username is Infatuation.
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#9
Ask her out dude, don't give up the chance! You'll regret it if you don't ask her out!
#10
Tell her if she won't go out with her your kill her and rape her But seriously, ask her out, if she says no, big deal. or just ask if she has a boyfriend, that seems obvious to me
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#11
relationship thread buddy...

and you better hurry the hell up and talk to her before someone else does... i say she likes you...
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#12
let me tell you one thing
girls are wierd alien species.. they dont make any sense and get upset over small things.. i guess the only advice i can give you is to keep trying.. good luck.. i want to hear what happens.. I got really into that story.
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#13
I think you're in love man, maybe you should consider proposing....
#14
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god i wish someone felt like that about me...

i'll do it if u really have a hellraiser guitar...

Anyway...

threadstarter...i don't mean to be an ass or anything, but from what i read, there isn't any prove to think taht she has something for u. sorry man, but that's just pretty normal with any girl or guy. seems like just a friend and that's it. but hey, try something...be a bit direct, just ask her out, it's the best thing you could do. trust me, just go and try it.

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i know u should put urself out there cuz i should've done that this year (last semester actually)...some girl i really like. i liked her a lot but she had a bf, then she broke up with him and i was gonna wait like a week or two to ask her out, but then she went back with him. she then dumped him, and this semester she started going out with some other dude..thing is we started talking a lot and i decided to just let her know i like(d) her. she said she liked me too when we met but simply gave up on me cuz she thought i didn't actually like her that way. now it's a bit weird for both of us...she has a bf but confesed to me she likes me a lot and she knows i like her too...she won't leave her bf though, and i don't want to force her to.

moral of story: have some guts and let her know, don't end up like me.
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#15
If she likes you in the ways you say she does she won't go hook up with someone else. And if she would, well..

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dude...grow a sac and talk to her about it...shes prolly thinkin the same thing
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#17
ask her out! and dont be disappointed if she says no. chicks are weird. but ask her out!
#18
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I'm sorry to hear that man, copies used to be 10 cents at my old highschool.

Oh, as for the girl thing. Just be straight with her. Life's too short for all this bullshitting around. If you sit on your hands and wait too long, the boat she sets sail. I've done nothing a few times and then ended up regretting it later.
#19
Man i really feel for you, but theres always hope, I've had the same situation as you, but i got over it, like you say something and a while later you think you could of said something 1796 times better...

For what some have said above is your best bet.

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#21
What. The. Fuck.
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#22
Awwh.

Why not just ask for her email, and try and talk to her? I mean, it's not that big a thing to ask for somebodies email.

Chat with her, you'll find out if she has a boyfriend or not.

Build up some trust, and see what happens. Good luck.
#24
i was half-expecting all that to say 'and then we had sex and the condom broke'...

but seriously, just ask her out, similar things have happened to me in the past and you dont want to feel like you missed a chance again. even if she says no (and it sounds to me like there's a good chance she won't) it'll help you get over it instead of wondering what couldve been.
#25
been through the same situation a couple of times. Never had the guts to day anything (I'm not really the talkative type) Just at least talk to her so she doesnt forget you're around. if you get along well, you won't even have to say much to get a conversation going. And then just ask her out. Even if she says no, at least you'll know. It's horrible to regret not talking to her when you thought you had a chance.
#26
alright dude, a lot of these people are saying that they wish they would have done this or that in a previous situation. i have had the same experience. take our advice and at least talk to this chick, ask for her phone number, or her email. make some attempt so she knows you are interested. offer to help her with physics or something. anything. if you don't, you will regret it. take a chance.
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#27
if none of those had happened, i wouldn't develop such a strong feeling for her. but now it's there and i'll have to deal with it. =[
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#28
Ask her for her e-mail anyway, people do it all the time. Speak to her, see what's going on...ask her out, meh,
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#29
Dude just tell her. Fuck it, tell her everything you said here. Just do it, that's pretty much always the answer in situations like this, and guys never have the balls to. Best of luck man, really.
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