I remember the video, and remember liking the song, but I can't think of it for the life of me.

I was the late 90's I think, the song was about a boy seeing his father abusing his mother and would hide in his room. I thought the lead singer had dyed blonde hair, which made me think of fuel, but I still can't think of it...can someone else help?
Singer/Songwriter and Guitarist.
maybe everclear wonderful, i have not seen the video but the song is kind of about that and he has blonde hair??? let me know!!