#1
My friend got me a date for the movies tonight without me even knowing about and he just now told me. I've never done this before and I really suck at talking to girls, so i was wondering if anyone could help me out on this. I'm just not sure what to talk about and there's always an awkward silence. I just dont want her to think I'm a boring person or anything because i get shy.
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#3
Simply treat her as though she's a male friend. That gets rid of my nerves and I never think "what should I say?"
#4
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It went well, I was nervous as hell, but when i got up there it kind of went away.
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#5
NEVER THINK ABOUT TRYING TO TALK OR BE FUNNY

that will just ruin everything. concentrate on having a good time.


even better, just imagine sweet success. if you think negatively, it shows, and you'll screw everything up.

edit: also, if you want to, you can also prepare yourself by how you can start a conversation
#6
if you 'try' to be a certain thing, ex:funny, or interesting. Don't. Dont think about what your going to say, its better that you have a natural flow, I am a part time comedian at a club, and trust me, if I analyzed every thign I was going to say, and made sure it would fit everyones humor statistics, it would be boring.
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#7
Buy her breath mines, ahaha.

No, seriously though...

Act like she's your normal friend,
"hey there"
"hey"
"how you doooin" (in Joey accent, friends obv.)


Actually, just forget the Joey part.

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#8
just who cares man have fun pay attention when she talks act like your interested remmember what she says. do what you would normally do but WHAT EVER YOU DO DON'T WORRY bout what she thinks its only one girl there aere millions literally in the world
#9
I shouldnt go for anything more than putting my around her in the movie theatre right... I'm just meeting her?
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#10
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I shouldnt go for anything more than putting my around her in the movie theatre right... I'm just meeting her?

Just do whatever you feel is right, maybe you hit it off so well you get a handjob first date, maybe you can't even put your arm round her cos shes so horrible and boring.
#11
Constantly make witty jokes involving Miss Congeniality and occasionaly Miss Congeniality 2.

Works like a charm. An indian charm. You know, the ones who make them snakes come up and dance.

"Did you know that its not actually the music from the flute thing, its the bright colour of it and movement?"

Try talking about that aswell. Quite interesting stuff.
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#12
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Simply treat her as though she's a male friend. That gets rid of my nerves and I never think "what should I say?"


Good advice.
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#13
well before i started going out with my g/f, i just talked to her like one of the guys. of course i treated her different obviously but talking, it was just the same old shit like with my friends.
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#14
Uh... You are going to a movie. You don't have to talk to her much. Enjoy the movie and complain about how boring it was afterwards.
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#15
just act completely normal. Dont try to play up, but dont be shy either.
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