Poll: should age get in the way of love?
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View poll results: should age get in the way of love?
yes
23 77%
no
7 23%
Voters: 30.
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#1
ive got a 13 year old girlfriend. im 18 years old. whats the big deal besides it being illegal without parent consent. i dont know if anyone else on UG has a younger gf...4+ years apart but honestly, its not that bad.

older people are 5+ years apart a LOT of the times.

so what do you think? age is just a number when it comes to love? do you think that age matters?
#2
to a degree, yes.
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#3
I find it disgusting yes its only 4 years but adolescent years differ from adult years. Its like an 8th grader dating a 4th grader jsut isnt right
#4
yeah, but when youre talking 13 and 18 i dont think its cool.

there is a huge difference in maturity. i mean seriously.

i mean something like 23 and 28 or 33 and 38 isnt bad, but 13 and 18 is pretty messed up.


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#5
hmm...cause she 13.....13 let me say it again 13 if she had an older brother you would of had your ass kicked by now
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#6
Yes, like in Michael Jackson's case.

Michael: No, age shouldn't get in the way of love

Underage kid: <shudders>
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#7
well considering that your 18, you probably want sex from her. Considering she's 13, even though she may agree to it, it is taking advantage of her (being honest). There is such a mental and emotional difference between a girl whos 13, 15, 17, 19. Any girl can attest to that fact.
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#8
My gf just went 15 this weekend. Im 17. 2 and half years. tbh i think your abit wrong. its too young for me but if your not doing anything illegal its fine cause its love tht matters. just dont go to jail haha
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I disagree with what you are doing.
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#12
im really happy with her...and as long as im happy...age doesnt mean a thing

then again...this is my opinion. and as much as i love my opinion, i honestly respect every one's opinion
#14
It makes a big difference between a pre-pubescent teenager and a fully grown man!
It's a common trait of paedophiles to feel they are doing nothing wrong. I suggest you seek help, IE a bullet in the head!
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#15
It's not right, since the mental state and development between a 13 year old and a 18 year old just differ to much from eachother. If you would only be 35 and she 30... now that would be a whole different case.
#16
Thirteen and eighteen is pretty bad. The age gaps tend to be more acceptable as you get older, because when you're younger you lack a lot of judgment and experience. I think, to a certain degree, age does matter; mostly at younger ages. But, it's a matter of individuals.
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#17
you're sick...

but i'm just curious: would you introduce her to your parents?
#19
I think it's wrong.

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#20
i think during teenage years, age DOES make a difference cuz the maturity level is completely different and life experience is much different. i do agree that later in life age isnt so important...but for now i think it is
#21
Your poll is very restricting.
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#22
Nah. I used to be in the same situation as you. He was amazing for me. He never forced me to do anything with him. It's possible that she just thinks that dating an older guy is exciting. But if there's really.. something between you two, I think it's alright.

Remember: if she acts mature, doesn't mean she is mature. Teenage girls can pretend to be whatever they want. I know that, because I happen to be a teenage girl. So don't use that as an excuse.
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you are so sick! seriously man! what do you want with that girl? can you even get it in, isn't it way to tight?


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#24
Well after both people are pass the age of 18 and have matured emotionally then any age range is appropriate. But you are pretty much an adult and she is still just a child. Think about how much you mentally develop over those 4 teenage years. You develop a lot, and she still has a lot to learn before dating someone who is an adult.
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What about her? I would have thought the happiness of the person you're with is more important


Yeah, you'd think the 13 year old effectively being molested would have something to say about it.
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im really happy with her...and as long as im happy...age doesnt mean a thing

then again...this is my opinion. and as much as i love my opinion, i honestly respect every one's opinion


I'm glad you're handelling this in a somewhat mature way, but understand that though you are happy, its not really healthy for her. I had a friend who was 21 and was dating a 15 year old. Granted, he had the maturity of a 16 year old boy, he was happy but he knew it was wrong and had to end it. She was pretty torn apart by the whole thing.

Do her parents know/agree with this relationship? What about your parents?

I know its not the most important factor, but understand that they have concerns for a reason, not cause they are bored.
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#28
When you are both adults then I don't think it matters, but in your case it's pretty bad.
You should think about this better and stop making excuses with threads like this.
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#29
seriously? 13? Can you not get a girl your own damn age? Jesus Christ!

In no ways is that sarcastic. I mean it.
Maybe you're on the same mental level. But that's seriously ****ed up man.
What the hell do you parents think? For that matter what do HER parents thin?!

You **** her, don't piss her parents off. Cause you'll be in jail quicker than a ham sandwich down Momma Cass' throat!
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#30
what do your friends think? seriously man if you was my friend i would take you to some hores, but than again i live in holland...
#31
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Dude, get someone your own age oO;

Age reflects life experience, no way she's had enough to have a relationship with someone as old as you. I mean, dude. Keep it in your pants, at least.


i know, im not out to **** her. i love her far too much to mess things up and go and do that.
#32
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you're sick...

but i'm just curious: would you introduce her to your parents?



yess. and shes happy too!
#33
It's wrong, you're an adult she isn't she doesn't have the emotional maturity to deal with it.
#34
i just find it weird that you have a 13 year old girlfiend and you're 18. just my opinion.
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#35
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i know, im not out to **** her. i love her far too much to mess things up and go and do that.

Like anyone that age knows what love is! She sure as hell doesn't.
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#36
Let's see, you're 18 almost, or already an adult.

She is 13.
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#37
I hope you made this thread just to expose the sickos out there, 13 and 18 is wrong mate.

edit: can we get this guy banned for being a dirty bastard?
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#38
You're seriously sick, thats just fucked up
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#40
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What about her? I would have thought the happiness of the person you're with is more important


youre cool


as for you threadstarter, really dude you should seek therapy.
i mean your first mistake was dating a 13 yo, your biggest mistake was telling the pit.

this is gonna end up on the "greatest UG moments" thread soon, really as some1 already pointed out; its normal for pedophiles to feel theres nothing wrong with it, so really seek out some help........not a bullet to either one of your heads


have you ever had a gf your age?
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