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#1
Do they work?, everyone keeps telling me they dont but somehow i think different. anyone have something to say other than they work or they dont work??
#2
um, yeah why wouldnt they?
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#3
What!? Is this ignorance I'm hearing? Ahhhh God my ears!

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#4
....yes, they work.

I think you need to get out more.
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#5
it's just every time i have a guy friend something happens and it ends up evolving into more than a friendship, then when it's all said and done i feel like i've lost someone who could have been a good friend...
#6
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it's just every time i have a guy friend something happens and it ends up evolving into more than a friendship, then when it's all said and done i feel like i've lost someone who could have been a good friend...



Just don't let it get that far. It's not hard to do, but I do know the awkwardness of the situation you speak of.
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#7
there's a girl i just met last semester who i always considered to be a friend, which was strange because i didn't know that was possible. but now i'm startin to get a crush on her. i'm so confused.
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#8
they work. Of cousre they work!

I myself am a dude. and 95% of my friends are girls. I've only got like 4 guy friends!

(and im not gay)
#9
Ofcourse they work, unless you're a sexmonger.
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#10
well right now i have someone whos an awesome friend. a guy. nd i dont wanna lose that. all my friends(the female ones) keep telling me its not gunna work. i just thought i'd get some other oponions..
#13
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well right now i have someone whos an awesome friend. a guy. nd i dont wanna lose that. all my friends(the female ones) keep telling me its not gunna work. i just thought i'd get some other oponions..



its wonderful that you trust your friends
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#14
i have multiple female friends although i basically love one of them but she doesnt see me in that way..it sucks
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#16
i would trust him with my life and more but i dont want it to evolve into something other than a friendship because if somehting happens ... i've just lost another friend,
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#19
I go to a school where the female to male ratio is 21 to 1, so the majority of my friends are female. I don't have feelings more than friends for any of them, but if you do, it's meant to be that way. I'm a strong believer in fate, everything happens for a reason, so if you have feelings for a guy friend, it's supposed to happen like that. I'm sure there will be at least a few guys who you won't have feelings for.
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#20
yea the problem is if i dont have feelings for the guy then the guy has feelings for me...or at least it always seems to work out like that...and thats just not a good friendship...or at least it's not to me...
#21
Sometimes relationships like that can bring about a whole lot of awkwardness i.e. crushes, that sort of thing. Being friends can actually be beneficial. My ex-girlfriend and I were friends long before we started going out, and it really helped us out because we had known each other well beforehand. Now that we've broken up, we're still friends.

That's not to say that we don't still feel for each other (or at least I do)...
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#22
They work, but it's hard if they're really hot or really fugly.
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#24
just need to hint each time that nothing much is gonna happen other than being friends...it always works..unless you're very cheeky with each and everyone of your guy friends..then that will be your fault..
#25
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Hexactly which I think most of the pit is, so it might not work too well for them.
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#26
I have a crush on my best friend I just thought its best not to say anything and just let her like people and not get jealous I just don't want to ruin a good friendship.
#27
Two of my very best friends are girls.
I mean its a little one sided somtimes but it works out really nicley.


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#28
Of course, my best friend (the best friend I've ever had) is a girl. We did used to go out, for about three months, but then we broke up, although nothing has changed in our friendship. I love her to bits and am so grateful to have a friend like her.
#29
Yeah, why wouldn't they? My best friend is my ex and we get along fine. Once we said that we could never be more than friends, it's quite easy to have nothing happen.
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#30
a good layer of fat helps prevent best friends from turning into special friends. it's always worked for me.
#31
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i would trust him with my life and more but i dont want it to evolve into something other than a friendship because if somehting happens ... i've just lost another friend,



how can you trust him with more than your life? you relaxed and confident he will go through with your funeral proceedings nice and peachy?


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I have a crush on my best friend I just thought its best not to say anything and just let her like people and not get jealous I just don't want to ruin a good friendship.


tell her.


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a good layer of fat helps prevent best friends from turning into special friends. it's always worked for me.



exactly what i was thinking, if you dont want him to start going you like a rabbit, then start packin on the pounds, its a win win situation, you get to eat candy and no relationship happens. Well done. Although i must warn you that this will effect not just that rabbit, but all the rabbits. If i were a rabbit, i wouldnt like a big fat rabbit, as they are unnatractive and tire easily.
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#32
About 80% of my friends are female, my best friend is a female, meh, why wouldn't it? The only case i can think of it not working is if you're a horny little retard who can't keep his hands off every girl he sees.
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#33
every relationship has to end for a reason ... usually(not always) they end for bad ones. if that happens. what i just say oh well i've just lost someone who used to be my best friend but oh well ... sry i just can't do that. but i feel if i at least dont try the relationship i will never know...then theres that old expression"good friends make great lovers", but there's NO way that tru in every case.


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#34
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as for "rocker69"...it's an expression. get over it.



are you angry at me cos i used the whole rabbit scenario?
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#35
nah i aint angry.

it was the whole...."i'd trust him with more than my life"...u replied with, whats he gunna do be all peachy with the funeral plans ro somethin like that.
#36
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nah i aint angry.

it was the whole...."i'd trust him with more than my life"...u replied with, whats he gunna do be all peachy with the funeral plans ro somethin like that.





i was being a smartass

i understand, i have a freind like that.
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#39
but see the problem is. i dont want to lose this friend. i dont get close to many people and we're really close. so idk.
#40
a little self control is all it takes. don't even trip about it. stay friends. there is nothing saying you have to be anything more than that if you don't want to be.
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