#1
So there are five of us who live in my house. I like my roommates fine, except that one of them is a slob and uses my stuff, but other than that I like them all. Unfortunately one of our roommates has a constant house guest. She's not his girlfriend, just a girl who's a friend, and she annoys the living shit out of me, constantly.

She's loud and obnoxious, inconsiderate, she always makes herself part of someone else's business, and SHE IS ALWAYS HERE. I swear, if I could be in my own house as much as she is in my house, I would be much happier. I'm about to start charging her rent. Our house is always open if someone wants to sleep on the couch or something, but not every night.

How do I tell this girl she's worn out her welcome?

This morning I nearly lost it. I was snoozing (not quite awake, not quite asleep) and then I was jerked from my sleep by her laughing, then initiating a wrestling match outside my door with my roommate, yelling the entire time. I walked out, said "Will you two please shut the hell up? I'm trying to sleep." Got about 10 minutes of relative quiet before it was broken again.

I just want to blow up and be like "GO HOME! You don't live here! These cats don't belong to you, these dishes don't belong to you, and unless you pay rent, I don't want you to be making yourself at home and acting like you do."
#2
Hmm i see your problem. Talk to the room mate whos her friend and tell him to do something about it.
#3
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Hmm i see your problem. Talk to the room mate whos her friend and tell him to do something about it.


Dats ur best bet, or just tell her to ****' the hell of, its ur home, she cant jus invade like that!
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WRONG.

The only reason it exists is because drugs get people fucked up, and people love getting fucked up.

#4
You just have to bite the bullet, confront her, and tell her to go. I've had to do this several times ever since I've been living on my own. I'm cool with my roomates having friends over if they need a place to stay, but if you wear out your welcome, I'll literally pick you up and toss you out.

My roomates friend had been staying at our house for about two months. He was paying rent, so I never cared. But he was always buying pot, which is a bad idea since his job barely allowed him to afford pot and rent. And he was extremely aggressive and violent to people. So one day, I grab my camera bag to go film some shit, and alas, the camera is not inside. I went up to the room he was staying in, snooped around, and actually found the reciet from where he had sold my 500 dollar camera. That would explain all of the pot.

When he came home, I grabbed him by the back of the shirt, tossed him out the front door, gave him a swift punch in the stomach, showed him the reciet and demanded my money back.

I have yet to recieve it. Juts confront her. You'll be amazed at how easy it is once you do it.
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#5
How about annexing her to the roomate setup you guys have with the rent directly removed from her paychecks without telling her? the above would also work.
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#7
Ya man, If She's not paying rent then kick her. If your friend comes at you trying to defend her, then tell him he needs to pay her rent too, or else. Life is hard and sometimes people who are your friends are not really your friends. I think that's cool that people can come and crash, but I agree. Living there is too much. She's mooching off you and your buddies and it's wrong. Either get some money from her, or kick her to the curb. I would talk to your friend first though and honestly try to resolve it with him. Maybe he can confront her instead of you. Since she's his friend and everything. Later.
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You just have to bite the bullet, confront her, and tell her to go. I've had to do this several times ever since I've been living on my own. I'm cool with my roomates having friends over if they need a place to stay, but if you wear out your welcome, I'll literally pick you up and toss you out.

My roomates friend had been staying at our house for about two months. He was paying rent, so I never cared. But he was always buying pot, which is a bad idea since his job barely allowed him to afford pot and rent. And he was extremely aggressive and violent to people. So one day, I grab my camera bag to go film some shit, and alas, the camera is not inside. I went up to the room he was staying in, snooped around, and actually found the reciet from where he had sold my 500 dollar camera. That would explain all of the pot.

When he came home, I grabbed him by the back of the shirt, tossed him out the front door, gave him a swift punch in the stomach, showed him the reciet and demanded my money back.

I have yet to recieve it. Juts confront her. You'll be amazed at how easy it is once you do it.


Dude, that sucks. I will NEVER trust a druggie again. What a ****.

To the TS, try fighting fire with fire... if your friend won't get rid of her, just really get on her nerves.
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lock her in the boot of your car and push it off a cliff

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#10
Sorry but if someone does drugs and things like that and doesn't have genuines issues they are complete wastes of ****ing space.

Plus thread starter I feel you should confront either her or your room mate about it.

Thing is if you do it in the wrong order one will run to the other, might try and turn everyone against you and make things difficult for you.
#11
I think it would be better to confront your housemate, and get him to sort it out. Going straight to her is a but much - it's your housemates fault that she's round there as much as it's hers.

You can do it quietly and responsibly by talking to your housemate, or you can make a massive thing out of it by going straight to her which will inevitably turn sour.
#12
yea if you go straight to her, she'll run to your roommate and be like 'he's being a dick and says all the sudden that i have to just go! i don't know why he's doing this!' and your roommate will turn against you. then every reason you have for her to leave will be retorted by her with your roommate at her side, and she'll make you look like an ass.
#14
Get her pregnant, then drop kick her in the gut 8 months later.

You bet your sweet ass you'll never see her again!
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