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#1
Okay, this might be the worst place to ask for advise, but I'm desperate.

So, my sister (14) met a guy who is 3 years older than her and now they have been
together for 7 months. And they are arguing all the time. Seriously, every night
she's screaming to her phone and so on...

Now my sister wants to leave this son of a *****, but he said to her, that if she leaves
him, he's gonna kill himself. And this kid is serious. He once cut himself - to hospital.

So, any advise?
#2
Let him kill himself. His problem.
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#4
try the police, or a doctor.
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#5
Your sister's name is Rianne?
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#7
let him die...

anyone who is stuipid enough to think about killing themselves probably shoud....
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#8
you people are so irresponsible.
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#9
Let the son of a ho die.

(And call him a paedo before he does )


Viola?


Call him a musicofile or something.
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#10
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Your sister's name is Rianne?


Last I checked, no. It's Viola
#11
Let him bleed. If shes 14 and hes 17, then he deserves to
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#12
If he is cool, talk to him, if he is a douche, break up with him.
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#14
.........you had to see this coming, 3/4 of the pits gonna say "let the wanker die"


i say talk to the police, i mean the guys almost technically a pedo
#15
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Let him kill himself. His problem.

+1 i know alot of guys who say that, and you know what they deserve? a bird to shit on they're head for lying.

#16
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Last I checked, no. It's Viola


I just know a girl with a very similar situation, nevermind then.

Send him to a shrink.
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#17
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.........you had to see this coming, 3/4 of the pits gonna say "let the wanker die"


i say talk to the police, i mean the guys almost technically a pedo


Well, see the start of my message... But yeah, I think I'll try the police or something
else professional
#18
kill him and you don't have to regret it.
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#19
i more yer and hes a paedo (sp?) so they'll hafta break up anyways
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#20
Seeing as I'm one of the few with empahty here I say have an intervention! If that fails, take his ass to a mental asylum.
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#21
She should tell his parents ..
as stupid as it sounds

He probably wouldnt do it anyway..
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#23
I hate people that say they are going to kill themself just so someone will keep dating them..I mean wth..would you rather have someone dating you bc you like each other..or them dating you bc they feel bad?..Call the cops..
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#24
This guy is obviously seriously mentaly ill, suicide threats are a diagnostic criteria for some of them. Im not sure which area it puts this guy, I would say borderline physcosis maybe, I once knew one of those who used suicide threats. But Im not sure what u can do then. Ur obviously not dealing with a rational person. Authorities might be the best thing. Theyre trained to handle these people.
#25
He's only wanting attention, she should dump him and then to hell with him. If somebody uses their life as a chip to keep somebody with them, I've no sympathy if they want to cut themselves.
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#27
He's obviously extremely depressed and maybe your sister represents the only good thing in his life. Does his parents know about his talk? Try speaking to them about the situation. Also, try speaking directly to the guy. Let him know that you feel he should get some help(in the form of therapy or medicine). Your sister should not leave him right now--I'd advise waiting until he is a bit more stable.
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#28
Let the guy kill himself.

And tell your sister to stick to someone her age.
#29
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He's obviously extremely depressed and maybe your sister represents the only good thing in his life. Does his parents know about his talk? Try speaking to them about the situation. Also, try speaking directly to the guy. Let him know that you feel he should get some help(in the form of therapy or medicine). Your sister should not leave him right now--I'd advise waiting until he is a bit more stable.


Yeah, I forgot to mention: I really don't know anything about his father but his mother
is a mentally ill woman. And yeh, this might just be the reason of this whole mess.
And my sister got him to take some medicine, but it only made him depressed, or so
he claimed.
#30
What you do is tell his parents, teacher, or the police that he's threatened to off himself, and they'll take whatever measures to prevent that. Then your sister isn't handcuffed to some jerk, the guy isn't dead, and everybody's happy.
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#31
i guarantee he is and pussy and won't do anything... and if he does then, just do what i always do when a problem arises... KILL EVERYONE INVOLVED... and then drink some hot tea, while reveling in your success
#33
So...your "sister" eh?

Well you your sister should just dump the guy, let em kill himself. I gaurantee he wont even do anything besides cry
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#34
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So...your "sister" eh?

Well you your sister should just dump the guy, let em kill himself. I gaurantee he wont even do anything besides cry


omg... I really didn't see this coming. Even in here. Someone calling me a homosexual as
an answer
#35
Quote by Guitarist132
So...your "sister" eh?

Well you your sister should just dump the guy, let em kill himself. I gaurantee he wont even do anything besides cry


nice work, detective... teehee (my little schoolgirl in her brand new, school-provided skirt laugh)
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Seriously, every night she's screaming to her phone and so on...


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Let him kill himself. His problem.

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#38
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Yeah, I forgot to mention: I really don't know anything about his father but his mother
is a mentally ill woman. And yeh, this might just be the reason of this whole mess.
And my sister got him to take some medicine, but it only made him depressed, or so
he claimed.


Does he still go to school? If so, try talking to a counselor there. Maybe the counselor can reach out to him.

He may have taken the wrong kind of medicine. Depression/bipolar disorder(which he may have) is a very tricky thing to treat. For many people, the first medicine won't work. He should be examined closely by a doctor and referred to a psychologist who can figure out the best way of treating this guy.
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#39
hes obviously nuts....tell your sister tht she needs to get the hell away from him and find somone who is not only sane...but will not argue.....if he sliced and diced on his wrist then your sister is not to blame for waht happens to himif and when she calls it off wit him...

your sis should not take to heart that he said hed kill himself....he is definitly desperate....dont let your sis give in to that....well thats what i think...hope it helps.
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