Anyone else have the problem i have?

I'm too jealous. Not envious of certain people necessarily, but just...relationship wise.

There's a girl who i'm talking to who moved away to Denver. Well, we talk and all that and she apparently met a great guy, which i'm happy for. But it still makes my stomache hurt...just, thinking about it.

I know i have absolutely no right to tell her anything to do (even if we were dating i wouldnt tell her not to be around him) and i havent said anything more than i felt a little uneasy (we both like each other still so it's not a creepy obsession or something) and she said she understood, but it's still bothering me.

I think it's just the realization that long distance relationships can't work, no matter how open you are to them seeing other people while you arent dating. but, i'll see how it all pans out and make decisions when they come....i'm still jealous that i don't live near her though

and don't scream relationship thread, because this thread is about jealousy in relationships only and who here suffers from it and how i can get better.
I am such a jealous person, it really cripples my relationship sometimes. You just have to get over it sometimes and put some trust into her.
Jealousy sucks, but I personally have no reason to be jealous, I have a great life. Sure, I don't have a girlfriend, but I don't need one to be truly happy.

Besides, there's always porn.
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Jealousy sucks, but I personally have no reason to be jealous, I have a great life. Sure, I don't have a girlfriend, but I don't need one to be truly happy.

Besides, there's always porn.

well, i don't either. i can survive comfortably single for a long time.

it's just the feeling of getting played that drives it all, i was ****ed over immensely by a girl in HS and it's left me unable to trust anyone for the time being. i'll get over it, but it sucks right now.

but other than this, a looming future with no idea what i'm doing, and a mother who's overbearing...life is good.
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I don't have jealousy issues, its just that I can't trust anyone until I get to know them. But, I have trouble opening up to people, and I generally don't like people I don't know until I get to know them. It's a giant circular mess of problems.

same here, except i tend to think i can trust people before i actually can.

but we've all got our ****ing head problems, especially here.
Your just jealous because I've been chatting online with babes all day.
It's a long story, though, so I'll just say this: laxatives+metal do not mix.

Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger.
I get jealous somewhat easily, and feel threatened sometimes, but I just do my best to deal with that, and it works.
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Your just jealous because I've been chatting online with babes all day.

oh, you know it.
now tell me do you think it'd be alright
if i could just crash here tonight
cause you know im in no shape for driving
and anyway ive got no place to go

and you know it might not be that bad
you were the best i ever had
if i hadn't blown the whole thing years ago
i might not be alone!

well im just insecurein relationships, which in a way kid of makes me jealous, like if my girlfriend talks to another guy alot i star feeling depressed and wrried even tho i know she wouldnt cheat one me, i just dont really trust people that well.
I get a few jealous tinges. Theres this girl I know, really cute, and I got a bit of an emotional attachment to. Whenever we talk we hit it off, and its great, but there are so many other people going for her attention who she knows better and it pushes me out of the way. Hits me harder than it should, but ill get over it.
It also irks me how people parade the fact that theyre a "guitar god in the making" or devote their life to music but they do it for the popularity. I couldnt care less about the attention they get, but the way people think that theyre gods gift to the world after hearing them play the chords to "American Idiot" 10000 times.
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Thanks for the advice. I'm going to put it, along with your other advice, into a book, the pages of which I will then use to wipe my ass.
I don't know if this is jealousy or not.
i'm madly in love with my gf, we've been dating over a year and we have been best friends for a year beforehand. We legitimately love each other and plan on getting married after college. Sometimes I wonder what would happen if we break up and the thought of her with another man destroys me inside, just the thought. If it really happened idk what i would do
i play drums and guitar :
With my first serious/real relationship, we were both mad jealous and it really ruined it. In retrospect, I can't believe I was stupid enough to pull that shit. It was really our downfall, on both ends (ended a 2 and a half year relationship...)

However, now I'm not a jealous guy at all. Maybe it comes from the fact that anyone who's with me can't be jealous, as said 2+ year girl is currently my best friend and bassist of my band.
Jealousy sucks.

You can't ever control it and it only ruins things.


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CSguitarvocal is correct as usual, pepsi tastes much better out of a can.

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And CSguitarvocal for teh win.