#2
you need electric guitar strings

get .09s or .10s (usually denoted as "medium" or "light")

all the brands or decent but there are difference between them, but its personal preference really. Try D'Addario, Ernie Ball, GHS, DR, Dean Markley, etc....
#3
i like ernie ball
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Just a little "Spanish Sastle Magic"