#1
im 17
and in quite a long term relationship, only been a year but we know it will be longer. i feel different more mature, ive kind of accepted in the next 3 years ill have to make serious decisions about work and stuff. and latly ive lost alot of my friends, infact most of them. its wierd cause everyone my age is into drinking drugs, sleeping with loads of people and just beeing very social.
im happy with what i am but i wish i could be more like other people.
am i plain abnormal or just boring?
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#2
You know a lot of people lie about all this "sleeping with loads of people" and doing lots of drugs, etc.
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#3
i dont see anything wrong with you. if anything your doing better than everyone else. you don't need drugs n to sleep around. and lets face it, the sex gets a hell of a lot better when your in a longterm relationship. sleeping around is just the same old thing with different people.
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#5
Dude your not weird. You don't have to do drugs or drink or anything to feel cool. Be yourself and have fun! I wish there were more people that were mature like you and know you can be happy without harming yourself or others.
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#6
Mate, if you're happy, you're happy.

I've been with the same girl since I was 15 (I'm 20 now) and I've never regretted it. Ever.
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#7
I have a girlfriend but I am quite social, I have friends, I do drugs (weed, hash) I only don't sleep with everyone that walks on 2 legs and has boobs
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#10
weird is spelled "W-E-I-R-D"
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#11
its lke everything happend to me a few years early, like i started smoking n smoking alot of pot when i was around 14 aswell as drinking but i just grown out of it in the last year, ive just become to do it in moderation. itd still be nicve to have a more social part in my life, then again thats more my lacking confidence. at least i get to spend alot of time writing music which is my main passion. so it all works out. no bad no good i guess
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#12
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its lke everything happend to me a few years early, like i started smoking n smoking alot of pot when i was around 14 aswell as drinking but i just grown out of it in the last year, ive just become to do it in moderation. itd still be nicve to have a more social part in my life, then again thats more my lacking confidence. at least i get to spend alot of time writing music which is my main passion. so it all works out. no bad no good i guess

You just need to find friends that don't drink and smoke. I never smoke or drink but 3 years ago I hung out with people that did, and we had nothing in common. We stopped being friends and hanging out and now I have friends that more like me.
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#13
if you're happy that's all that matters
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#15
Sounds like me...i'm 17, im a relationship which is nearing a year, dont drink or smoke. Just be happy! its who you are so dont feel ashamed by it!! be cool being yourself!
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Sounds like me...i'm 17, im a relationship which is nearing a year, dont drink or smoke. Just be happy! its who you are so dont feel ashamed by it!! be cool being yourself!


thanks man that made me feel a hell of alot better.
after all whats the point trying to be someone you not
drink drive, smoke fly.


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#17
dude you sound a lot like me, and im guessing from your avatar that your a system of a down fan. listen to the song 36, i think its off their steal this albulm albulm. that song never fails to get me back on track when i have thoughts like the ones your talking about.
#18
Ya, you're normal. There will always be a desire to be someone else, for any person. Covet and lust is normal. Besides, doinga bunch of drugs and sleeping with everyone isn't always a good thing.

But do whatever makes you happy. That's all that matters.
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I have a girlfriend but I am quite social, I have friends, I do drugs (weed, hash) I only don't sleep with everyone that walks on 2 legs and has boobs


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dude you sound a lot like me, and im guessing from your avatar that your a system of a down fan. listen to the song 36, i think its off their steal this albulm albulm. that song never fails to get me back on track when i have thoughts like the ones your talking about.
36 f*king owns. Imma listen to it now.
#23
I smoke marijuana, but I don't drink (I drink alcohol, I just don't get drink to get the point of stupid like a lot of kid my age), simply because I don't really like being drunk, but whatever is your choice, its your choice and NOBODY has the right to critisize it.
#25
Long Term relationship? AND you're 17 too?

Jesus christ man, you're waaaaaaay too young to have a gf.

Tell you what. Check out this place: The Tom Leykis Show. I used to be like you. I was into the whole "meaningful relationships" thing, and now I'm a devout Leykis 101 student. Just take a listen, if just once, do it on thursdays, its when he explains what you're missing out on.

But hey, ignore my tip if you want. I highly recommend you take a listen sometime, but it's your life.
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#28
i feel the same way i grew apart from all my friends cuzz they do drugs and stuff now im hopping going in to high school ill find some friends like me. i hope i git a girlfriend too
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im 17
and in quite a long term relationship, only been a year but we know it will be longer. i feel different more mature, ive kind of accepted in the next 3 years ill have to make serious decisions about work and stuff. and latly ive lost alot of my friends, infact most of them. its wierd cause everyone my age is into drinking drugs, sleeping with loads of people and just beeing very social.
im happy with what i am but i wish i could be more like other people.
am i plain abnormal or just boring?


A point id like to make about long term relationships at a young age. You learn alot of things at this age that shape you, thats why we are suposed to sleep around and drink ect (not drugs) so you live learn and move on. All the guys i know in long term relationships have lost their personalitly adn drive to socialise they all become extentions of their couple its sad. Then as a friend you are a surplus to requirement becasue they have soemone who gives them everything they want. Do you know how alone that makes you feel if you don't have that person to sleep next too, when they walk along arguing pettily about something.

I would never for the life of me want to be in that situation.
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A point id like to make about long term relationships at a young age. You learn alot of things at this age that shape you, thats why we are suposed to sleep around and drink ect (not drugs) so you live learn and move on. All the guys i know in long term relationships have lost their personalitly adn drive to socialise they all become extentions of their couple its sad. Then as a friend you are a surplus to requirement becasue they have soemone who gives them everything they want. Do you know how alone that makes you feel if you don't have that person to sleep next too, when they walk along arguing pettily about something.

I would never for the life of me want to be in that situation.

^ that wasn't cool.


dude, keep goin, socialize a lil more maybe with the right people.

Don't do drugs.

Don't drink too much.

Be yourself.

Don't forget that you are you not somebody else, yourself.
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#32
the same thing has happened to me in the past year ive matured a lot and i have only 2 friends now and im way more serious about life now and i dont just run around doing everything for fun anymore i make serious decisions now
#33
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^ that wasn't cool.


dude, keep goin, socialize a lil more maybe with the right people.

Don't do drugs.

Don't drink too much.

Be yourself.

Don't forget that you are you not somebody else, yourself.


You talking about me? i'm confused i was only remarking on people i know,