#1
I've seen tons of threads on this issue. How young is too young? What age should be right to be legal? How big is too much of a gap in age? Let's discuss some of these questions, among others. Anything that has to do with age in relationships can go here. If you know or are a part of this kind of relationship, we can help you with your decision. My stance is two years is the max. I'm 16, and 14 is as low as I will go. But say I'm 18, and I meet a 15 year old, is it wrong? Why exactly would it be wrong? Don't say "It just is." Many people just thing "OMGz a three year age difference!" If the 15 year old looks and acts 20, no one will say anything unless you tell them her age. For example, my 15 year old cousin married a 26 year old guy (In Georgia, a pregnant girl can marry without parents' consent). If you saw them in the store and did not know them, you would say she was 18 and he was in his early 20's. Judging by looks, you would see nothing wrong with them. I personally did not agree with this, because I did not like the guy when I met him. Sure enough, the kid is born, and he disappears for 6 months. But here lies the problem when a girl is just too young.. Being a naive 16 year old mother, she went back with him when he returned. My opinion is that if she is mature, a few years age gap doesn't mean much. I'd say that a girl who is 14-16 should not go over three years, and a guy shouldn't go under three with a girl under 18. There are so many sides to looking at this, whether it's legality, maturity, development, or religious/cultural beliefs, but I'm too tired to discuss my ideas right now. Plus, no one wants to read anything this long anyways. So discuss your opinions, respond to mine, or share some stories.
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I say no more than 2 years for teens. A teenager (minor) and 19 year old (legal adult), 17 and 19, is bad.

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that is my opinion. But here where I live minor + adult = illegal
#5
i say within 2 and a half years.
thats pretty much where most of my friends are anyway, so if i happen to crush on one of them... yeah, but follow the 2-year law once you hit 18 here.
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#6
old enough to pee is old enough for me!!!!

but seriously, i think 2 years is generally a good gap. any more...well...she better be special, then. especially as teenagers, there can be a huge gap of maturity over 3 years. i mean seriously, a senior and a freshman. the difference in just experience alone (not just physical, i mean emotional as well) is huge....usually
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I meant threads on individual questions, not general discussion on the issue. This thread was meant to be an "Only" thread.
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Interesting. Being a girl myself, I actually prefer older guys (ew, not OLD old, but like a few years older). 19 is my limit, if you're older I don't give a damn how cute/hot you are or you may think you are, I'm not interested. Otherwise the emotional diff. is just too much, even though I consider myself pretty mature (physically and mentally) for my age. But yeah, that's just my opinion.
#9
I personally don't go for girls more than 2 years younger than me. My parents are 7 years apart though.
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#11
The older people get, the closer people get.

A 7 and 13 yr old are obviously mentally, physically, emotionally, etc different right?

But a 37 and a 43 yr old are pretty much the same.
#12
What level age gap is okay when you are older? I mean just because an 18 year old girl is legal doesn't mean it should be right for her to date a 70 year old. There has to be a limit at some point.
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