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#1
His best friend is absolutely gay. I don't think he's aware of it, of course, and neither is my little brother (he's slightly retarded anyways), but the kid is just everything that would define gay. He talks like a girl and has that feminine way of pitching his voice - I'm sure you know what I mean. He's the kind of guy that says "omigod" even though we're in f-ing Norway. And now my little brother has started saying it too. Seriously, too. Not to mention the kid is always clinging on to him and kisses him on the cheek when he beats a boss in one of his gameboy games... I try not to care and I try not to think about whether all the sleep-overs he has at this friend of his, but it's getting more and more to me. Not that I'm worried about him growing up to become gay, but his friend might just put pressure on him to play with him, and his friend is quite the dominant one in their friendship, too. Don't get me wrong, I've nothing about gays, but I think that most of you will agree that kids shouldn't be... "brought up" to be gay.

What should do? I'd punch him in the face but my parents seem to be so thrilled about my brother having a friend at all they don't seem to care. They're all obsessed with taking care as to making sure he doesn't watch the wrong movies and we don't swear in front of him and all kinds of stuff, but still they refuse to think that other people can be the far worst influences.

Edited for clarification.
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Last edited by Raziel2p at Aug 19, 2007,
#2
In his room. Put porn everywhere and man jokes etc.
Can't remember the word for those jokes
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Sit him down in front of hours of STRAIGHT porn!

And treat yourself while your there
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In his room. Put porn everywhere and man jokes etc.
Can't remember the word for those jokes

And risk his friend finding it? And them starting to... together? ...

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#8
Get him a skateboard, make him listen to punk and metal, get him into extreme sports.
Get him more need for speed and gears of war like games to play.

He's too young for porn and adult stuff... so not the best idea to expose him to all that stuff...

Put him in some extreme sports club. He'll meet other kids who are less gay. That'll make him more of a man.
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... Not to mention the kid is always clinging on to him and kisses him on the cheek when he beats a boss in one of his gameboy games...


#12
sounds pretty gay id say teach him to play guitar then bitches will like him problem solved
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#13
dude if hes only like 12 its not like he's definite about his sexuality
some guys are quite feminate but are still straight
girls like that
so it could be quite the opposite and he'll get more girlfriends than you
or if he does turn gay
so what
its not like hes got a life-threatening disease or anything
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Quote by af_the_fragile
Get him a skateboard, make him listen to punk and metal, get him into extreme sports.
Get him more need for speed and gears of war like games to play.

He's too young for porn and adult stuff... so not the best idea to expose him to all that stuff...

Put him in some extreme sports club. He'll meet other kids who are less gay. That'll make him more of a man.



+1

and/or just tell him about it. if hes 12 he should understand the concept. hell, when i was 8 people used "gay" as an insult.
#16
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And risk his friend finding it? And them starting to... together? ...




Rofl haha
#17
if you're brother's straight, having a gay best friend won't change him at all

likewise if he's gay

the outside influences don't really matter
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Your not gay unless you like the same sex. You could be flamboyant as you want and still like women. Hey, he could be a scene kid.

And girls kiss each other on the cheek, although we wish they are gay, they're not.

And why would you say Oh-My-God in norway, don't you speak norwegian or something over there?
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Make him watch really violent movies with screaming chicks and tough guys

don't you think he's gonna think:

hmm hunky, cool guy and loserchicks

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#20
dude if hes only like 12 its not like he's definite about his sexuality
some guys are quite feminate but are still straight
girls like that
so it could be quite the opposite and he'll get more girlfriends than you
or if he does turn gay
so what
its not like hes got a life-threatening disease or anything

I know, I know, but he's still my little brother, and while I don't think he's defining his sexuality by being together with his friend, I think it's making him, as you say, more feminine. And I'm still his big brother, so I'm afraid when I see that he might turn out to be any kind of douche when he gets a bit older - emo would be the worst case.

Get him a skateboard, make him listen to punk and metal, get him into extreme sports.
Get him more need for speed and gears of war like games to play.

He's too young for porn and adult stuff... so not the best idea to expose him to all that stuff...

Put him in some extreme sports club. He'll meet other kids who are less gay. That'll make him more of a man.

That wouldn't work. To him, extreme sports is taking his bicycle and going to his friends house. He does nothing but play gameboy, playstation and watch videos of games he's never even heard of on youtube.
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#21
Are you serious? You can't come to the final conclusion that someone's homosexual at the age of 12. A lot of people aren't even in puberty at the age of 12 and if they are, their hormones are probably spurting in his body and he's probably just excessivly sexually curious or whatever.

And so fucking what if he's gay? That makes him what.. a bad person? And you obviously have somthing against gay people if you compare them to suicide bombers.

I seriously hope you're kidding.
#22
Common guys he is not to young for porn! He is 12!

Tell your brother he's gonna turn gay if he continious like this, tell him to get a girlfriend
#23
he might just grow out of it
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Are you serious? You can't come to the final conclusion that someone's homosexual at the age of 12. A lot of people aren't even in puberty at the age of 12 and if they are, their hormones are probably spurting in his body and he's probably just excessivly sexually curious or whatever.

And so fucking what if he's gay? That makes him what.. a bad person? And you obviously have somthing against gay people if you compare them to suicide bombers.

I seriously hope you're kidding.

#25
Oh and keep him away from emo music....

if he's not gay, that'll definitely turn him gay!!!

So no MCR, FOB, Panic!, Senses Fail, Hawthrone Heights, Simple Plan for him!!!

Get him some Hatebreed, Minor Threat, Black Flag, Slayer CDs...

And if you wanna make him the manliest of man, get him ManOWar CDs!!!!
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Your not gay unless you like the same sex. You could be flamboyant as you want and still like women. Hey, he could be a scene kid.

And girls kiss each other on the cheek, although we wish they are gay, they're not.

And why would you say Oh-My-God in norway, don't you speak norwegian or something over there?

Our language is suffering from what you would probably call anglification. There's all kind of english words and phrases used ("so?", "as if") - but still, saying "ohmygod" is something that's only used by two kind of people - stupid girls and meterosexual guys.

Are you serious? You can't come to the final conclusion that someone's homosexual at the age of 12. A lot of people aren't even in puberty at the age of 12 and if they are, their hormones are probably spurting in his body and he's probably just excessivly sexually curious or whatever.

And so ****ing what if he's gay? That makes him what.. a bad person? And you obviously have somthing against gay people if you compare them to suicide bombers.

I seriously hope you're kidding.

I might have misphrased myself here... I don't think he's turning homosexual, I just think he's acting more and more like one.
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#28
Quote by Nemesis117
dude if hes only like 12 its not like he's definite about his sexuality
some guys are quite feminate but are still straight
girls like that
so it could be quite the opposite and he'll get more girlfriends than you
or if he does turn gay
so what
its not like hes got a life-threatening disease or anything

Dude what the
hell
is with the way
you type?
It is
really
annoying and hard to read.

To TS, if it really worries you, take the said advice above. Give him a game like Gears Of War or something.
#29
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Oh and keep him away from emo music....

if he's not gay, that'll definitely turn him gay!!!

So no MCR, FOB, Panic!, Senses Fail, Hawthrone Heights, Simple Plan for him!!!

Get him some Hatebreed, Minor Threat, Black Flag, Slayer CDs...

And if you wanna make him the manliest of man, get him ManOWar CDs!!!!
Good plan, but no manowar concerts

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#30
Wow, did you just compare gays to terrorists and prostitutes?

If he's gay, he's gay, you can't change it, you'll just have to deal with it, I don't see how supposedly "manly" things will turn him/make sure he stays straight.
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#31
Anally rape him. Make it as painful as possible so he will never want to be gay ever...

Or, you could just grow up a bit. Seriously, he is 12. You cant determine someones sexuality at the age of 12, since he is still maturing into adulthood... And so what if he does turn out gay its not like being gay is a bad thing. Its natural (it serves as a way of population control...)... Anyway, you should be worrying about bigger things like him getting into drugs and alcohol too young....

Edit:

And what kind of older brother punches their younger sibling for being a bit different...?
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#32
this thread fails on so many levels (excepting european son's response)
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#33
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Anally rape him. Make it as painful as possible so he will never want to be gay ever...

Or, you could just grow up a bit. Seriously, he is 12. You cant determine someones sexuality at the age of 12, since he is still maturing into adulthood... And so what if he does turn out gay its not like being gay is a bad thing. Its natural (it serves as a way of population control...)... Anyway, you should be worrying about bigger things like him getting into drugs and alcohol too young....

Edit:

And what kind of older brother punches their younger sibling for being a bit different...?

As I said, I'm not worried about his sexuality, but I'm worried about what other people will think it is. And I was talking about my brother's friend. It'd probably make more sense if you knew more about how he acted. He's god damn annoying :@
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#34
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That wouldn't work. To him, extreme sports is taking his bicycle and going to his friends house. He does nothing but play gameboy, playstation and watch videos of games he's never even heard of on youtube.


Huh, well, if you make him watch some cool x-games videos, teach him how to skateboard, put him in some extreme sports club like mountain biking, bmx, climbing.. He might start to like in a while and make some new friends there who are less gay.

He needs to make more friends and do more boyish things. Get him a more boyish game like gears of war or need for speed (gay people ususlly are not into cars) to play on his playstation.

Like if you really wanna make him straight, you can try putting him in a group with more boyish kids and soon he'll mix in with them and become more boyish.

What effects teenage kids the most is their peers. They end up becoming like the people they hang out with. If hes hanging out with a bunch of girls and gayish guy, he'll end up acting all gay. If he hangs around with some boyish punk rockers, all his gayness will be gone soon!
#35
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I might have misphrased myself here... I don't think he's turning homosexual, I just think he's acting more and more like one.

And...? I don't see what's the problem here. He's your brother, accept him for who he is.
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And...? I don't see what's the problem here. He's your brother, accept him for who he is.

+1

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#37
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As I said, I'm not worried about his sexuality, but I'm worried about what other people will think it is. And I was talking about my brother's friend. It'd probably make more sense if you knew more about how he acted. He's god damn annoying :@


I think you are over reacting but as you said, I dont really know what his friend is like...

When they are grown up (16 years old) and they are still like this then worry, but right now they are just kids, they know nothing of all of this.
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#38
maybe you should ask a friend (a girl of course!) of yours to make him really horny , that's gonna change his mind.
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Quote by Raziel2p
As I said, I'm not worried about his sexuality, but I'm worried about what other people will think it is. And I was talking about my brother's friend. It'd probably make more sense if you knew more about how he acted. He's god damn annoying :@

Who the hell cares what everybody else thinks, anyway? If that's all you care about, than you must be a terribly weak and insecure person.
Last edited by European Son at Aug 19, 2007,
#40
lets be honest, homesexuality isnt normal. Is accepted, but still isnt normal. the goverment thinks this, as straight marrige is 16, whereas gay marrige is 18. If he wants to be gay when hes 18, let him, but otherwise talk to him.
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