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#1
in my hour of need i beseach the infinate wisdom of the pit for help
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this spring i went to my junior prom, with a friend, and i saved my flower that goes in my jacket (dont ask why, im a sentimental sob) anyway, now im dating the girl ive loved for over a year, (again dont laugh) and i was wondering.. should i give the dried flower thingy to her? as like a symbol of how id wished it was her i was with that night? not some girl thats practically my sister? is it too over the top? or what?
we've only been going out for almost 2 months but guys.. i honestly LOVE her
and i know.. relationship thread but dont report me!
i just didnt feel like using it today.. it annoys me sometimes
and please.. dont flame me too much.. unless its funny flaming that i can sig
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#2
Nothing says love like a shriveled-up flower from a date with another girl.
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hell no. get her a 11 roses and a plastic rose. tell her you will love her until each and every rose dies.

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#7
well first im broke and cant afford pretty flowers.. plus im waiting a.... long time to have sex with her.. shes.. different
also like i said.. its more of a symbol.. shes into that sorta thing.. shes one of those 'if my parents would let me id be wiccan (SP?) girls'
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hell no. get her a 11 roses and a plastic rose. tell her you will love her until each and every rose dies.

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thats so lame


get her ONE rose
theyrel ike 4 bucks/
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give her a new flower and say that.

thats an idea.. instead of 11 like whatsisface said up there.. my mom has a rose bush i could snitch one or two from..
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hell no. get her a 11 roses and a plastic rose. tell her you will love her until each and every rose dies.

sex insues


That comment was just pure of win nice one dude (and happy b-day :P)
#14
The thing with the dried up rose is sweet, she would love that, but don't give it to her, just show it to her and say what it stands for.
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#15
lol. don't give her a ****ty ass old piece of crap. if you give her flowers, give her new ones that don't suck. i realize the symbolism you intend to imply, but she probably won't. so don't give her a dried up old flower.
#16
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its like shes into all the rituals and **** but its awesome.. we lay under the clouds and she'll tell me what some group of clouds means to her in a prophetic sense and ill say 'those mean it'll rain sometime in the next 500 years' :P
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The thing with the dried up rose is sweet, she would love that, but don't give it to her, just show it to her and say what it stands for.

why not give it to her? i dont have any real use.. exept to be able to say 'yeah, i really did go to prom yall' :P
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thats so lame


get her ONE rose
theyrel ike 4 bucks/

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#19
I'd make up something even more romantic and give her that.

You: "This is the wooden leg of my infamous pirate great-grandfather, it's also a telescope."
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Just tell her you love her actually, it works and its free, unlikely after 2 months, but if you believe you are there's no talking you out of it.
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#23
well for me it hasnt been 2 months.. the first time i saw her i said to myself 'damn shes hot' the second time i talked to her i said 'damn shes really sweet and awesome' a year later im totally in love
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#24
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in my hour of need i beseach the infinate wisdom of the pit for help
we've only been going out for almost 2 months but guys.. i honestly LOVE her
and i know.. relationship thread but dont report me!


I'm sorry, but I HIGHLY doubt that it's love. Although, hearing people my own age say they are in love makes me laugh all over. Honestly, I've seen only one couple that was truly in love at this age, and they don't go around saying "I'm in love, for sure." You're probably in like/lust. The "this girl is different" is usually a sure sign that she's more like your past girlfriends than your past girlfriends were (makes no sense, I know).

My advice, do like someone else suggested, give her a new rose. Giving her the one you had at prom throws up a red flag. Namely, why does he still have that flower, does he like her, does he like me, does he even care about me? Which leads onto stuff like, he won't ever like me, I need to break-up NOW. Girls get finnicky about that stuff.
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#25
cause its kinna creepy
giving her a flower
that she would have no use for at all either
just tell her about it and show her and blah blah blah
and then whens shes not looking through a sack over her tie her up and steal away into the night!
...unless its daylight... then don't do that
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I'm sorry, but I HIGHLY doubt that it's love. Although, hearing people my own age say they are in love makes me laugh all over. Honestly, I've seen only one couple that was truly in love at this age, and they don't go around saying "I'm in love, for sure." You're probably in like/lust. The "this girl is different" is usually a sure sign that she's more like your past girlfriends than your past girlfriends were (makes no sense, I know).

My advice, do like someone else suggested, give her a new rose. Giving her the one you had at prom throws up a red flag. Namely, why does he still have that flower, does he like her, does he like me, does he even care about me? Which leads onto stuff like, he won't ever like me, I need to break-up NOW. Girls get finnicky about that stuff.

true.. aight fine a new one it is.. ok one last gayass question and yall can flame all you want
do colors matter? i mean i can get a new one for free by bummin it offa my moms rose bush (not nice i know but im broke) and i think the ones she has are pink/white
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#29
Naw, color doesn't matter, it's the message conveyed that does. A new one says what you intend, the old one won't. A guy would understand, a girl usually won't, at least, not when she's dating you, plain and simple.
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one other thing AngusX.. i dont know much about love but ive never felt the way i do now.. and ive been in a lot of emotional ****.. she makes me wanna run down the streets singing at the top of my lungs, she makes me wish i was a better guy and that i could do more for her, i love her so much.. sometimes ill just be sittin there thinkin about her and ill cry im so happy.. everytime i say goodbye it tears a hole in my heart that cant be filled till i see her again
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#31
Yeah, it's your first taste. It's most likely not love, it could be, I'd have to see it myself to form my opinion. In the end, it's my opinion, what I think of as people being in love may be different. It really matters how you feel. I just know many people that convince themselves they are in love, or get their first REAL relationship, and immediately think their feelings are love.

Either way, congrats on a good relationship, and good luck with the flowers. Just keep your head on straight, don't go crazy.
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#32
crazii isnt good.. no.. ill be careful.. and thanks man.. happy hunting.. ok closing the thread now
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#33
I'm a female and I wouldn't like to receive a dead flower...sorry. Maybe she would like it :S
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I'm sorry, but I HIGHLY doubt that it's love. Although, hearing people my own age say they are in love makes me laugh all over. Honestly, I've seen only one couple that was truly in love at this age, and they don't go around saying "I'm in love, for sure." You're probably in like/lust. The "this girl is different" is usually a sure sign that she's more like your past girlfriends than your past girlfriends were (makes no sense, I know).

My advice, do like someone else suggested, give her a new rose. Giving her the one you had at prom throws up a red flag. Namely, why does he still have that flower, does he like her, does he like me, does he even care about me? Which leads onto stuff like, he won't ever like me, I need to break-up NOW. Girls get finnicky about that stuff.


theres also an epidemic of teenagers going around saying that no one there age can be mature enough to be in love like they themselves are trying to prove mature thought

age has nothing to do with it, i told the girl im with i loved her during the 2-3 month we were dating and we've now been together for almost a year and a half, most of that being long distance which only proves how close we are.

anyways...to TS, don't worry so much about what kind of flowers or the meaning behind them. give her flowers when she LEASTS expects it for no reason what so ever other than you just wanna make her happy. i gave my girl a flower that i picked while walking to her house just because i saw it on the side of the rose, and she still has the damn thing.
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#35
Just don't admit to being in love with her just yet. You should do your best to avoid making her uncomfortable in any way shape or form.

If I was you. I'd just simply walk up to you, crack some jokes to make her laugh for a few minutes and then be like "So what are you doing this friday?"

Try it, It costs nothing but a good sense of humor.
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Just don't admit to being in love with her just yet. You should do your best to avoid making her uncomfortable in any way shape or form.

If I was you. I'd just simply walk up to you, crack some jokes to make her laugh for a few minutes and then be like "So what are you doing this friday?"

Try it, It costs nothing but a good sense of humor.


but, there already dating? why does he need to break the ice with his girlfriend?
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#38
Give her the dead, dried up flower and say "Honey, I got you a gift. This represents our relationship in about a month. I love you."

And then set the flower on fire when she's holding it. You know, to show the burning passion that the first month or two has, leading to the innevitable ashes it leaves in the near future.

But good luck in your relationship mate!!
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dont get her any rose, jus play her a song on ur guitar or somthing


It would be SO much cooler if he played her a song on the rose, instead of on the guitar.
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