BASICALLY, what exactly are those nappy type things elderly people wear cus they can't go to the toilet and drop turds while they sit called?

sounds weird, I kno, my mum told me that, but I need to kno the polite way of saying it.
Well you see, that Depends.

I'll have a bourbon.
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you kno. like the nappys older people who can't get to the toilet wear.

what are they called when trying to be polite?

ahh dammit, where's a doctor or nurse when you need 'em....
I can't find the word with the right ring to it without it sounding derogatory. This is a situation in life I thought I'd never be in man.