#1
so, my ex gf has been depressed ever since i broke up with her (didnt feel the love anymore, she became too emo) and now she is telling me the only thing to make her feel better is to cut. btw, she is emo. she has cut before, but she quit about a year ago. now i am trying to find an argument against her so she will see how stupid cutting is and i can talk her out of it....

ug?
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comments?
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#2
give me her number...i'll phone-sex her up for a bit...she'll forget all about the pain

normally i'd say she just wants attention but you said she did it before so that might not be the case
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#3
Say she is stupid and deserves to die, and that she should cut deeper than she has ever gone before because she is a worthless piece of ****.
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Say she is stupid and deserves to die, and that she should cut deeper than she has ever gone before because she is a worthless piece of ****.

**** off douche....i'm being serious
#5
Tell her you are a worthless piece of crap and there are much better guys to go out with than you.
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#6
i've dealt with this **** before btw...

perhaps you could tell her that if she continues to do it that you want talk to her anymore...

you'd have to stick with that threat though
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#7
^tried that, she says nothing is good in her life. i told her she only wants to see the bad things. now i'm naming off good things to her (to no avail, unfortunately)
#8
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**** off douche....i'm being serious



you're aware this is UG aren't you? We've all had the serious part of our brains removed.
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^tried that, she says nothing is good in her life. i told her she only wants to see the bad things. now i'm naming off good things to her (to no avail, unfortunately)


obviously it was a dry threat as you are still talking to her
#11
dont talk to her anymore. shes not your problem
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#12
seriously, tell her that if she's going to do that bull**** that you wont talk to her anymore...it worked for me

she obviously cares about you and i'm sure she at least wants to continue to have you to talk to
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#13
she says she is madly in love with me and is tryin her hardest to get back with me...but the thing is, i dont love her back....girls are so confusing....where is a girl ug'er when you need her?
#14
you shouldn't be associating with someone who is this ignorant. Does she live in a third-world country? Is she dying from lack of food, water, or shelter? Does she have to go through true, living hell yet there is nothing she can do about it? Tell her to grow the **** up and realize that there are plenty of people worse off than she has it
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she says she is madly in love with me and is tryin her hardest to get back with me...but the thing is, i dont love her back....girls are so confusing....where is a girl ug'er when you need her?
there are none...

if this is just some pathetic ploy for her to try and guilt you into getting back with her than call her on her bluff
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#16
Cuting is a social stigma, not a problem...if she's just looking for attention then call her on it. If she's open about her cutting odds are she's just looking for attention, tell her if she doesn't stop being so dramatic then she's going to end up friendless and alone, because nobody's going to put up with it for long. If she's genuinly self destructive then tell someone that can get her profecional help.
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#17
yeah....i am kinda leaning toward the 'she is gonna say and do all these things so i will feel sorry for her and get back with her' idea
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yeah....i am kinda leaning toward the 'she is gonna say and do all these things so i will feel sorry for her and get back with her' idea
tell her straight up that you aren't going to get back with her because you feel bad that she's doing this stuff (assuming that's true)
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#19
Personally, id tell her straight up that you dont love her anymore, but offer the be her friend and give her support. Dont just leave her in the ****ter like that in my opinion.
#20
Tell her parents
as mean as it sounds
it is possibly your best option
because what if she is serious
and cuts
and dies
because of you "never talking to her again"
and of course if she isn't serious
she'll just drop it and be like
****, just kidding!
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#21
Remind her how selfish it would be if she died and all her loved ones had to go through all the **** of her death.....
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#22
yeah, i did do that one time when she was suicidal....she said they will get over it. i lol'd at the stupidity of that one.
#23
remember to tell her it's down the road, not across!
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yeah, i did do that one time when she was suicidal....she said they will get over it. i lol'd at the stupidity of that one.
that proves it...she's an attention *****...just don't let her guilt you into getting back with her...the worst she might do is scratch a few marks into her fore-arms to make you think she's not kinding

unless you see something that actually looks like it could be dangerous to her (physical) health don't take her seriously

i still think you should try threatening her by telling her you wont talk to her anymore as it worked for me when i had to deal with this crap but it's up to you

hope it all works out
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#26
Tell her that the more she cuts, the less chance there is of you getting back with her, since you find it so unnecessary and harmful.
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i still think you should try threatening her by telling her you wont talk to her anymore as it worked for me when i had to deal with this crap but it's up to you
hope it all works out


A agree with this idea.
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#28
Heh, I love it how emos talk about 'cutting' like it's some hardcore drug.

"Oh yeah, I quit cutting three weeks ago and haven't looked back since"
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#30
tell her that you dumped her because she cut herself so then she'll stop.
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