#2
you dont use congas with sticks i hope you know
gear

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#3
Yeah bro, you'll damage those heads rather quickly. And I don't know much of drums to tell you what that would cost.

You could be an interesting drummer if you wanted to start a band or something, but you'd have to learn a strange drum style.
Nikolas