#1
So here's a question for you, especially if you're a girl. I'm in a relationship thats about to enter its 8th month but I don't want it to. My gf and I are at different universities with completely different schedules and different people around us. It's not the same anymore. What is the least harmful way to end it? If it were you, how would you want the other person to do it?
#2
Tell her that the long distance relationship isn't working out and that you don't feel the same about her if you're not together all the time.
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#4
k, I'm a chick so first off, DON'T LIE. ****ers I hate it when they do that ((that means none of that "oh we'll be really good friends" BS))

just tell her. "hey, I need to talk to you" then go into detail about how you think it's not working out and how you think you should see other people etc. that's the least harmful way to do it; and she'll prolly only get hurt if she's mega attatched ((boy do I know >.<)
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#5
Lie to her! It's okay to lie to women. They're not people like us.
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#6
Don't pussyfoot around it. You want it done, there's no use in making it easier, either way it's going to end, regardless of whether or not you're a little bitch about it.
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#7
If she's really attached, just be mean about it.

I tried to break up with a girl that was really attached like 5 times over the course of last year, but she just cried, then I felt bad, then we ended up staying together and I was miserable. I feel your pain. Long distance relationships suck. Just hold your ground if she tries to keep you together because if you fold like I did, you'll end up being miserable
#8
if you throw in that you feel like its turning into a long-distance relationship, she might understnad
#9
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#10
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k, I'm a chick so first off, DON'T LIE. ****ers I hate it when they do that ((that means none of that "oh we'll be really good friends" BS))

just tell her. "hey, I need to talk to you" then go into detail about how you think it's not working out and how you think you should see other people etc. that's the least harmful way to do it; and she'll prolly only get hurt if she's mega attatched ((boy do I know >.<)


Yeah man, don't lie, a lie is usualy worse than the truth....plus it's easier to pull of telling the truth.
#11
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Yeah man, don't lie, a lie is usualy worse than the truth....plus it's easier to pull of telling the truth.

Plus she won't talk shyt to all da otha bytchez bout you amirite?
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#12
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Lie to her! It's okay to lie to women. They're not people like us.


lol true, i mean hell they lie to us

but seriously, just tell her the long distance just isnt workin, be straight up with her dude, if she cant take that, then she probly wouldnt have gone to another college right?
#13
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If she's really attached, just be mean about it.

I tried to break up with a girl that was really attached like 5 times over the course of last year, but she just cried, then I felt bad, then we ended up staying together and I was miserable. I feel your pain. Long distance relationships suck. Just hold your ground if she tries to keep you together because if you fold like I did, you'll end up being miserable


well don't be a total prick about it, but don't go back to her either. that will just stir up mixed emotions and useless drama.
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#15
When you break up with her, man up and do it in person. Don't be a p***y and break up with her via phone call, text message, e-mail, etc.; It makes you look bad. Tell her how you feel about the current state of the relationship and how you think this would make it easier on both of you.
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#16
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When you break up with her, man up and do it in person. Don't be a p***y and break up with her via phone call, text message, e-mail, etc.; It makes you look bad. Tell her how you feel about the current state of the relationship and how you think this would make it easier on both of you.


+1

I remember this one pussy I was dating.. the **** didn't even have the balls to break up with me to my face, he had his friend do it for him. and his friend told me he was cheating on me the whole time... WTF
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#17
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When you break up with her, man up and do it in person. Don't be a p***y and break up with her via phone call, text message, e-mail, etc.; It makes you look bad. Tell her how you feel about the current state of the relationship and how you think this would make it easier on both of you.


they go to seperate colleges so it might be a little difficult to do it face to face. video chat maybe?
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well don't be a total prick about it, but don't go back to her either. that will just stir up mixed emotions and useless drama.


Well yeah, I shouldn't have used the word "mean."

I'm a sucker for a girl crying... so I'm pretty weak in that sense.. and this relationship dragged on for over a year until I finally ended it a couple of weeks ago and told her the other day there was pretty much no chance of us ever getting back together..

She put up an away message that was essentially a suicide note. I had to call her parents and her school to get people over there to help her and make sure she was safe.

Moral of the story: Break it off immediately. Don't let it drag on longer than it should because it'll just end up in you being miserable and her getting hurt a lot more later
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#19
Break up with her during sex, and see how long you can stay on her.
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#20
you need to break up with her honestly & genuinely. I'm a girl... hence the 'bitch' in the name... but yeah the longer you leave it, the harder it will be...

does she know how you feel about it? it always hurts more when the guy doesn't tell you what he's been feeling for ages. ask her how she feels about it. thats probably the best way to go.
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#21
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you need to break up with her honestly & genuinely. I'm a girl... hence the 'bitch' in the name... but yeah the longer you leave it, the harder it will be...

does she know how you feel about it? it always hurts more when the guy doesn't tell you what he's been feeling for ages. ask her how she feels about it. thats probably the best way to go.

I could have sworn you had a penis.

Anyhoo.. I have nothing to contribute to this thread, aside from suggesting that you fake your own death.
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#22
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Lie to her! It's okay to lie to women. They're not people like us.




Anyway, I'd just be honest with her. Really, it should be an easier break-up because of the long-distance; she'll understand that you don't feel the same way because you don't see each other in person often anymore. At least I hope she'll understand.