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#1
well first off i know how much of a stupid idea this may turn out to be(being as this is the pit ) but i need some help and want some third opinions from just anyone really. so heres my story.

about a year ago almost, me and my best friends drifted apart. the majority that is, i still have about 2 best friends with whom i see frequently. the others that i used to hang out with pretty much drifted off, i stopped calling them, they stopped calling me. for a time i felt sorta lonely, not having anyone around except for random friends (not really actual friends but more defined as buddies) to hang around with every so often got kinda depressing. so anywho i kept busy with my band, looked for a job, found a nice girl with whom im still in a relationship with now and love, but anyway moving on. i thought i was good to go. well in the summer i hung out with my old friends just once, which i was glad about cause i sorta was looking forward to maybe rekindling my old friendship with them. it was just a small party and i broguht my gf, with whom my so called "friends" played a nasty prank on without me knowing. even though inside this infuriated me, something happened that to this day i still cant forgive myself for, i didnt even stand up to them for it. i played it off as a joke at the time, even though i could obviously tell my gf had been hurt by this sick joke my "friends" had played. so i cut off ties again with them.

nowadays if i see them its nothing more than just a simple hi. i hang around with bandmates and my gf often, but there is something that has been the most reocurring thought in the last month. even with my gf and things, i feel lonely on a friend basis. of course a partner and everything is amazing to have,but i feel there are very few people other than her i can talk with about stuff and do things with. bottom line is im lonely and need some help. what can i do at this point? im in grade 11 and at this social point in my life is kinda difficult to begin making a whole new circle of friends while still in highschool.

well that was a long rant, sorry i just needed to vent somewhere. can anyone help? i need options here, im very confused at the moment. just ask if any clarification is needed
#3
What prank did they play on her?


Try making friends with your girlfriend's friends. Worked out fine for me.
#4
Quote by Rush Fan 06
well first off i know how much of a stupid idea this may turn out to be(being as this is the pit ) but i need some help and want some third opinions from just anyone really. so heres my story.

about a year ago almost, me and my best friends drifted apart. the majority that is, i still have about 2 best friends with whom i see frequently. the others that i used to hang out with pretty much drifted off, i stopped calling them, they stopped calling me. for a time i felt sorta lonely, not having anyone around except for random friends (not really actual friends but more defined as buddies) to hang around with every so often got kinda depressing. so anywho i kept busy with my band, looked for a job, found a nice girl with whom im still in a relationship with now and love, but anyway moving on. i thought i was good to go. well in the summer i hung out with my old friends just once, which i was glad about cause i sorta was looking forward to maybe rekindling my old friendship with them. it was just a small party and i broguht my gf, with whom my so called "friends" played a nasty prank on without me knowing. even though inside this infuriated me, something happened that to this day i still cant forgive myself for, i didnt even stand up to them for it. i played it off as a joke at the time, even though i could obviously tell my gf had been hurt by this sick joke my "friends" had played. so i cut off ties again with them.

nowadays if i see them its nothing more than just a simple hi. i hang around with bandmates and my gf often, but there is something that has been the most reocurring thought in the last month. even with my gf and things, i feel lonely on a friend basis. of course a partner and everything is amazing to have,but i feel there are very few people other than her i can talk with about stuff and do things with. bottom line is im lonely and need some help. what can i do at this point? im in grade 11 and at this social point in my life is kinda difficult to begin making a whole new circle of friends while still in highschool.

well that was a long rant, sorry i just needed to vent somewhere. can anyone help? i need options here, im very confused at the moment. just ask if any clarification is needed



it sounds like you are the guy they talk about behind everyones back. I feel your pain dude i have been in that position. You need to be cooler than them..if you are not looking like you fit in (or you smell) or you are talking crap all the time these things can isolate you.
#6
i dunno. you'd probably have to elaborate on that prank if you really want someone to understand.


but in the meantime, I'm Justin!
#7
Err....become friends with your band mates maybe?

If you find it hard to make friends just like that, try to join a club or two meet people with similar interests.
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#8
well if you could give an insight as to what the prank was, then i would be able to say if they were wrong or not
#9
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This guy wants to be your friend, plus he's a lumberjack. Thats pretty cool!
#10
You gotta tell the prank.

and also, hang out with your bandmates doood.

EDIT: oh and one more thing about this "prank"................pics or it didnt happen
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#11
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#12
the prank was a bad one, something that you just dont do to a lady cause theres something called decency, which they obviously dont have.

i wont elaborate any more on it cause knowing half the pit, they dont know decency either.
#13
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yes, yes it is
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the prank was a bad one, something that you just dont do to a lady cause theres something called decency, which they obviously dont have.

i wont elaborate any more on it cause knowing half the pit, they dont know decency either.



oh come on, pwease
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#15
I know exactly where you are at. My Junior year, I basically got rid of almost all of my old friends, and made a whole new group of friends. It wasn't easy, but I'm glad that I did it, because I'm a much better person for it.
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Quote by Rush Fan 06
the prank was a bad one, something that you just dont do to a lady cause theres something called decency, which they obviously dont have.

i wont elaborate any more on it cause knowing half the pit, they dont know decency either.

Yet you come to us for advice.

You don't need to go into any detail just state what they did, but no one's gonna make you. If you don't want to though that's understandable.

Anywho hi i'm Zp4.
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Quote by Rush Fan 06
the prank was a bad one, something that you just dont do to a lady cause theres something called decency, which they obviously dont have.

i wont elaborate any more on it cause knowing half the pit, they dont know decency either.

Then why post something like this in the first place?
#18
I've gone through similar things in my life. I started to drift from certain friends I had at the beginning of high school. After a while I got into a committed relationship and I made some new friends. You probably should have stuck up for her, but stuff like that happens, and it's not the end of the world.

Be a social person, and just have a good attitude. By 11th grade, people catch on to nice behavior and a good outlook on life, and will want to befriend you.
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Quote by ROCK=ZEPPELIN
I've gone through similar things in my life. I started to drift from certain friends I had at the beginning of high school. After a while I got into a committed relationship and I made some new friends. You probably should have stuck up for her, but stuff like that happens, and it's not the end of the world.

Be a social person, and just have a good attitude. By 11th grade, people catch on to nice behavior and a good outlook on life, and will want to befriend you.

It's a little different for him. He's Canadian. Haven't you seen that show Degrassi? All Canadians are scandalous as hell.
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#20
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Then why post something like this in the first place?


i dont get why what the prank was is so important

it has no direct coalation to what im asking, it was just there to tell why i decided to break it off for good with my old friends.
#22
yeah seriously what was this prank that you speak of it sounds pretty interesting

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#23
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I know exactly where you are at. My Junior year, I basically got rid of almost all of my old friends, and made a whole new group of friends. It wasn't easy, but I'm glad that I did it, because I'm a much better person for it.

i agree...my band is the best group of friends i have ever had...


and i want to hear this prank...also pics or shinanagins
#24
Quote by Rush Fan 06
i dont get why what the prank was is so important

it has no direct coalation to what im asking, it was just there to tell why i decided to break it off for good with my old friends.


well then we can determine whether you made the right move or not, considering the whole reason you stopped talking to your friends was centered around this prank.
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well then we can determine whether you made the right move or not, considering the whole reason you stopped talking to your friends was centered around this prank.


But this tool said that the prank "has no direct correlation" on the matter.
#26
you should tell the prank so that you can get it off your chest and feel better about it
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#27
to tell you the truth man...you really don't need friends..you have to rely on yourself...yea you can have buddies but your getting alot older...your going into the real world soon... and friends can't save you from the new experiences your about to drift into...friends..believe it or not .actually do drift away after high school..you find yourself not needing them..don't go looking for them ...i can tell you that much....somedays your gonna feel like that little loner kid who used to hang out by himself at lunch and sit in the hallways waiting for class to start...but you'll find yourself stronger.... you don't need friends in this life.....stay with your gf .make a family start new..i only have like 2 friends...or welll buddies..but they have their own lives and i do too...friends aren't always gonna be their for each other....you really have to look out for your own in this world...and trust me..you will find that out the hard way....well i hope i helped a little....if you wanna add me on myspace go for it...
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#28
how would it not have a direct correlation to the matter if it was the reason he won't talk to his friends
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But this tool said that the prank "has no direct correlation" on the matter.


yea, but then he also says......

Quote by feedthenight
i played it off as a joke at the time, even though i could obviously tell my gf had been hurt by this sick joke my "friends" had played. so i cut off ties again with them.


so he's contradicted himself....does the prank mean nothing? or did it make you stop talking to them?? and if it did, what in the name of joe pesci was it?!
#30
He really needs to tell us what the prank was.
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#31
I swear I will pistol whip the next person that says shinanagins.
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I swear I will pistol whip the next person that says shinanagins.


hey whats the name of that place with the breadsticks and the goofy **** all over the walls?
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hey whats the name of that place with the breadsticks and the goofy **** all over the walls?


Oh, that's called Italy.
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#38
does the prank involve waffles,because if it does you should forgive them cause waffles are good
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#40
tell us the prank!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please! ill give you a kiss...
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