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#1
kinda long story

here we go:

So yesterday after working a 7 hour shift of washing dishes i go home and take a shower etc. and i get this text from my friend (who is a girl) and she wants to hang out. Well, to be honest, i didnt really want to so i told her i was sick.

Later i go to friends house to hang out he is a co-worker so he was tired too. we just did some normal stuff, ate subway, played some halo 3, went to the market. the usual.

well today at school the girl that wanted to hang with me told me she knows that i went out last night and she saw me and blah blah blah. all this bitchy shit. so i just kinda blew it off.

Tonight after work i come home and i get another text from her that says all this stuff about lying to friends and she doesnt think we should hang out anymore. i told her that sometimes i just dont want to be with her, just like anyone with a friend they hang out with a lot. she said why did you lie. i told her that everyone lies, and i gave her an example of when she did THE EXACT SAME THING TO SOMEONE when they called her.

she said it wasnt the same thing, and that she doesnt know if we are still cool...

she's been my friend for like 10 years.
wtf is her deal?
or is it me?
help please
#2
Don't lie to your good friends.

You brought it upon yourself.
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Try posting this in the relationship thread.
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#6
You did lie...but she is acting like...while...an unreasonable bitch
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#7
but what im saying is that everyone lies

i told her that so she would not be upset

its better than saying

"you know, sometimes you really annoy me and tonight i dont want to deal with your bull****"

no, i tried to make everyone happy and i got fucked
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Don't lie to your good friends.

You brought it upon yourself.



exactly.

if it is your friend, you shouldnt have to lie. just tell her you dont feel like hanging out. if she really is your friend, she would be ok with that.
#9
If I had to take a side I would say it was your fault. You should have told her you had a long shift, not that you were sick, or that you planned to hand with your co-worker. BUt it's not a big deal. And, you still could tell her that you had planned to hand with your co-worker.

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#10
That's not true, you didn't try to make her happy.

I'd say give it a little time to cool down, then let her know you are sincerely sorry, she should come around, if not just let it be.
#11
yeah. just tell her you were tired next time. she'll understand. don't sweat it, you guys will be cool again sometime soon, just talk to her about it.
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You live up to your title. You are a big dick. But really, you should have said that you were going to your friends house/already had plans.
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just tap her, and everything will resolve itself.
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You live up to your title. You are a big dick. But really, you should have said that you were going to your friends house/already had plans.



Hmmm. Maybe we're being harsh on the guy. What if he didn't have plans when he responded to her, but later, his friend called him up. Nonetheless, he still shouldn't have lied to her.


Btw, if thats the case, don't tell her it was like that. You'll be f*cked. Tell her that you had previous engagements. and you lied because you didn't want to make her feel as if you cared more about your [guy] friend than her.
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#17
She may have blown it out of proportion but you probably shouldn't have lied in the first place.
#19
You're a dick.

(Hey that's what you nick says )

But with all seriousness, I think it would've been better if you had been honest.

I mean sometimes I don't hang want to hang out with certain friends and I'm honest to them. Although I've had some people that aren't honest with me, and I just tell them to **** off afterwards.
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#20
Dude, just tell her that you meant no harm with the lie, and you would never lie if you thought it would hurt her. You only lied to make her feel good, instead of saying "No, b**** I don't want to hang out with you!"
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#21
it must be different for me...

if someone told me a lie and i found out about it, i wouldnt really care, just brush my shoulders off...

it seems to me she is taking this too far?
#22
if you talk to her, and things get bad, just use my classic breakup line.


i'm gonna be honest with you. for once. i'm not gonna say that i don't care. the truth is, it really hurts to see you go like this, but i hope that all the time we spent together meant something to you, cuz it meant a hell of a lot to me. just because we don't spend as much time together as we used to, doesn't mean i don't care about you. just cuz i never called you as much as before, i still loved you the same. etc etc.


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#23
You probly shouldn't have lied but on the other side of the coin if she did the same thing she has no right to judge.
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it must be different for me...

if someone told me a lie and i found out about it, i wouldnt really care, just brush my shoulders off...

it seems to me she is taking this too far?



she is overreacting man. but thats women for you. doesn't matter though, all that matters to them is what the feel. and what matters to you is if you value her as a friend or not.
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You probly shouldn't have lied but on the other side of the coin if she did the same thing she has no right to judge.


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#26
Sounds like she's on her period.

And no, that's not a joke.

Friends do that kind of **** to each other all the time, is she's really your friend and has been for that long, she'll get over it.

I mean...unless you just like REALLY milked it and made it sound like you where dying or something...

But dude, that is kind of lame...it's one thing to just lie, but you could have EASLY said I've just been working for 7 hours and am bum**** tired.
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#27
You know, I had a friend who overreacted with things like that all the time too. Sounds like the same girl TBH, but it's probably not. Anyway, she'll get over it but if you DO lie, don't leave the house lol.
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Hey guitarguy17 I know this isn't the time or place....but can I join the "I am a Dick" club ?
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By the way...how tall/big are you?

Just asking...because your title probably belongs to someone else...
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Sounds like she's on her period.

And no, that's not a joke.

Friends do that kind of **** to each other all the time, is she's really your friend and has been for that long, she'll get over it.

I mean...unless you just like REALLY milked it and made it sound like you where dying or something...

But dude, that is kind of lame...it's one thing to just lie, but you could have EASLY said I've just been working for 7 hours and am bum**** tired.

but even if i had said that i was tired she would have seen me later that night, the same way she or one of her friends (still dont know) did when i told her i was sick...it would have been the same ordeal
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NO

i dont live in beaverton either, so i doubt it is the same girl
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but even if i had said that i was tired she would have seen me later that night, the same way she or one of her friends (still dont know) did when i told her i was sick...it would have been the same ordeal


Not really, could have just told her that you guys decided to hang after work, even though you where tired.

Either way, just go with the flow...it'll work out one way or the other.
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Something called PM. You're a total dick for posting here. End of this discussion, but not guitar17's.

things will work out man, just talk to her.
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#36
Guess you shouldn't have lied. But whatever, **** happens. And never try to call women on hypocrisy haha... never works. As in you told her she did the same thing to someone else, never works. Meh, unless she's just normally a real bitch she'll get over it quickly I'm sure. If you're indeed sorry say you're sorry and that you were tired is all and there isn't anything else you should do after that I think.
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NO

i dont live in beaverton either, so i doubt it is the same girl
Yeah... she was back in Utah/Nevada anyway. Just saying i know exactly how it is.
#39
Dude, I think everybody is going over the edge on this one. You lied, everybody lies, and most people lie about lying (lieing?), it's life. I think the problem here is you suck at lying. The worst lie to tell someone if you want to blow them off is that you're sick. It leaves you so you can't do anything else. Why not just say (like someone else already stated) that you already have plans? Even if you don't, it shouldn't be too hard to lie your way around that one...
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Yeah sounds like you brought it upon yourself to me.

You should've told her you already had plans.


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