This is the wrong forum, sorry. Go into the newbie forum, where there's a thread to introduce yourself. But welcome anyway, if you ever have any trouble drop me a PM and I'll try to help you out.
The will to neither strive nor cry,
The power to feel with others give.
Calm, calm me more; nor let me die
Before I have begun to live.

-Matthew Arnold

Arguments are to be avoided; they are always vulgar and often convincing.