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#1
It has to do with my penis...

I have had a girlfriend now for about 3 months and we started having sex at about 1 month and it was goin pretty good, I still worried about finishing too soon and stuff like that but it never affected me to much or anything. Recently I haven't been able to get it up really or hard enough to get it in or if I do get it up it goes limp in not too long. I don't have this problem at all when she's givin me head or jerkin me off so I don't know what it is.

I think that it is probably either of these:

1. I'm nervous about screwin up the sex and not bein good enough for her but she assures me I am but still that could be it.

2. I might just not get really turned on by sex but head and hand really does it for me (which they do...a lot)

If you have any ideas to fix this or what's goin on please please let me know...thanks.
#2
go see a doctor, he might prescribe viagra, that might work
or she might have given you aids
yep definately aids

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#3
Everyones going to say viagra you know that right?

But to help you i'd say when she sucking you off or jacking you off, just ram it in while its hard. That sorta thing.

Or don't wank for a few days before?
#4
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#6
...if ur using protection it could just be its too tight........if not.....u need viagra man
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Everyones going to say viagra you know that right?

But to help you i'd say when she sucking you off or jacking you off, just ram it in while its hard. That sorta thing.

Or don't wank for a few days before?

ya exactly, don't do anything for a while, so you have a lot of sex drive, or just ram it in her while it's hard
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#8
well even if i do get it hard or whatever it sucks to put on a condom cuz it totally takes way too long and by the time its outta the package and rolled on i'm already outta the mood and losin wood...if i can keep it hard when I'm gettin head or a handjob why would i need viagra?
#10
U don't need Viagra just nerves mate, try having a drink beforehand but anyway after a while it will stop.
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#12
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Everyones going to say viagra you know that right?



I was going to call him a homosexual but whatever,

Ts you need Viagra or to stop jacking off.
#13
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well even if i do get it hard or whatever it sucks to put on a condom cuz it totally takes way too long and by the time its outta the package and rolled on i'm already outta the mood and losin wood...


Amen to that brotha. Condoms = worst invention ever.
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#14
It's just anxiety. Not to worry. Just wait until you've been doing it for a while, then it will be much more comfortable and you'll have no problem at all.
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well even if i do get it hard or whatever it sucks to put on a condom cuz it totally takes way too long and by the time its outta the package and rolled on i'm already outta the mood and losin wood.?



I never really find that.

It takes like, a second.

Teach your girlfriend to put one on using her mouth.
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#18
wow, i would just like to say how loving and open the ultimate-guitar community is. if i ever stop being the bomb diggity in bed i know where to come for help. well done team!!!
#19
Quote by Griff_Kid
Everyones going to say viagra you know that right?

But to help you i'd say when she sucking you off or jacking you off, just ram it in while its hard. That sorta thing.

Or don't wank for a few days before?

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#23
[quote="'[x"]Huffy[x]']YOU WANT THAT MAN TO WALK AROUND WITH A LOADED GUN?!

its alright, it'll just mess up the carpet!
#24
maybe you just really dont like vagina?
lol nah your probably just nervous or something
nothing.
#25
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Amen to that brotha. Condoms = worst invention ever.


Lol but if not for the Condom, we'd have to be taking care of 10 million children ( Massive exaggeration ) But yeah you get my point.

Even if your afraid your not pleasing your GF, your enjoying the sex yourself aren't you?
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WOAH. Guitar website, not doctor' s office!

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#27
That's called anxiety or stress, call it whatever you will. This is totally normal, it happened to a LOT of guys, most of us just don't say it. Take some time until you feel ready for it. This is often caused by you thinking about "How will I be?" or "I wanna last long", or things like that. Just let the things go by themselves, eventually when you're ready it will just come naturally.
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#28
Considering how immature everyone says the pit is there are actually some good answers on here!

I agree it sounds like nerves. How about spending more time on foreplay?

Explore her body, go down on her, then it takes the emphasis off getting hard and ramming her silly.

Plus it'll help turn you on and when you see how much she's enjoying it you'll get a confidence boost and the pressure your putting on yourself will melt away....


...Hopefully

Anyway good luck, man.
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That's called anxiety or stress, call it whatever you will. This is totally normal, it happened to a LOT of guys, most of us just don't say it. Take some time until you feel ready for it. This is often caused by you thinking about "How will I be?" or "I wanna last long", or things like that. Just let the things go by themselves, eventually when you're ready it will just come naturally.



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#30
lol you can't get it up n00b
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#31
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why does the word 'snígger' get censored?
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#32
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why does the word 'snígger' get censored?
'cause "snigger" contains the word "nigger" in it, which is censored.

I think it's weird that snigger would get censored though o.O

And that firefox doesn't recognize it as a word. Hm.
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#33
All of this...

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I agree it sounds like nerves. How about spending more time on foreplay?

Explore her body, go down on her, then it takes the emphasis off getting hard and ramming her silly.

Plus it'll help turn you on and when you see how much she's enjoying it you'll get a confidence boost and the pressure your putting on yourself will melt away...

... is a good answer.

I had a lot of trouble with stuff like that with my first girlfriend - true, it could have been something to do with the fact that she was a silly, psychotic little bumwank who treated me like dirt, and was actually quite boring in bed - but nonetheless, it was because I was putting way too much pressure on myself and letting it build up. Now I've got a new, better, faster, more weddable* model, who understood and helped me relax. It still goes wrong from time to time, because that's just par for the course, but it's not the end of the world.

Like everyone else is saying, just take it easy and explain the situation to her. Sex is a two-way thing, not gratification for one person and performance anxiety for the other.


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#34
[quote="'[x"]Huffy[x]']Indeed.

..I don't think he knows that UG stands for Ultimate Guidance..
Yeah it's called a forum, people ask for help and other people give it to them... We don't always talk about guitars all the time in case you haven't noticed.
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Yeah it's called a forum, people ask for help and other people give it to them... We don't always talk about guitars all the time in case you haven't noticed.

+1.
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#36
Yeah,it could be because youre nervous,just dont think about that ****,just go for it!
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#38
J-J-J-JAM IT IN!!!!!!

Just tell her. Sex isn't the be all end all of sex. If you feel better getting head, ask for it.

Cliche tiem: If she really <3 you, she'll do it ^_^

Then you just have to find a better way of satisfying her.
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#40
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why does the word 'snígger' get censored?



Take the S away from snigger and you get:

snigger

Thats why it gets censored.
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