girl says something... dude knows shes lying, comes to pit for answers FTW!

#1
So I posted this in the relationship forum, but after waiting an hour too long I decided to post it here...

Quote by djjazzyjim
ok so basically this girl has been wanting to go out with me for a while now... like since spring. thing is she's been so childish about it, etc. shes pretty hot, but anyway to the rant...

over the past 6 - 7 months ive heard from multiple sources that she likes me, (even her best friend said that i was all she talked about for a while) but tonight she tells me that "back then she only new my name." and just different things like she only kinda knew who i was and didnt like me.

shes still acting like she doesnt know if she likes me or not... i mean she might just be too proud or something to just come out and say something like that but, when someone is telling you one thing and you know otherwise... it just doesnt really feel right.


p.s. she was trying to get me on webcam tonight too bad my computer doesnt do it :-;(

thoughts?
#2
She wants your rod. Give it to her.
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#3
kk. put as simply as possible, I don't know any girl where I'm from that asks a guy out. Yes she may llike you , but may also be waiting for you to make a move which is probably why she is acting childish. It's kinda like being modest (I think that's the right word) I suppose

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#4
Just come out and ask her, hey do you like me? Because if not then I need to get any false sense of relationship we have going on here. Simple as that.
#6
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kk. put as simply as possible, I don't know any girl where I'm from that asks a guy out. Yes she may llike you , but may also be waiting for you to make a move which is probably why she is acting childish. It's kinda like being modest (I think that's the right word) I suppose

-Dr. Phil .. . out


ydah i understand the girls not asking guys out thing.. but this girl is like almost completely denying she likes me when her body language and what she's said to other people says otherwise.
#7
ask her out bra. you have nothing to lose. then,

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#8
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She wants your rod. Give it to her.

This man knows all, she obviously wants to go fishing with you.
#9
Quote by djjazzyjim
ydah i understand the girls not asking guys out thing.. but this girl is like almost completely denying she likes me when her body language and what she's said to other people says otherwise.


Someones playing hard to get?
#10
Here's where I probably seem weird. I and a girl like each other, and we both know it. But we've both talked and would prefer to be good friends for a while before thinking about dating at all. It seems to mean more like that, or is that just me?
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#11
I say go for it. Even if she says no, that's the worst she can do. it's not like a kick to the balls. or, just ask her if she wants to hang out. imo It is the same thing as asking her out, but it makes it seem a little less quick
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#12
ask your friends
its really sad that people on ug come to ask these kinda questions to strangers on the net
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#13
If she's that queer about things you'll probably end up hating her..
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#14
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ask your friends
its really sad that people on ug come to ask these kinda questions to strangers on the net


yeah...... soo ummmmm.. want some candy? j/k
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#15
all women are evil youre best staying away from em.
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#16
Quote by djjazzyjim
ydah i understand the girls not asking guys out thing.. but this girl is like almost completely denying she likes me when her body language and what she's said to other people says otherwise.


Alright here is what you do

Talk to her at a party or a hangout or something.

Then when you think it's right ask her if she would like to kiss you...

just ask her

If her answer is as follows respond with

Yes (which is unlikely): respond by making a move

Maybe (mostly going to happen): respond by saying "well lets find out" or something
along that nature

No- then respond by saying "I didn't say you could kiss me, you just look like you had something on your mind"


Win/win situation
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#17
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This man knows all, she obviously wants to go fishing with you.


Let's go fishing, and we can try each others' rods.
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#19
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Let's go fishing, and we can try each others' rods.

Yes, and we'll have ourselves a jolly time, eh?
#20
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Alright here is what you do

Talk to her at a party or a hangout or something.

Then when you think it's right ask her if she would like to kiss you...

just ask her

If her answer is as follows respond with

Yes (which is unlikely): respond by making a move

Maybe (mostly going to happen): respond by saying "well lets find out" or something
along that nature

No- then respond by saying "I didn't say you could kiss me, you just look like you had something on your mind"


Win/win situation

No one wants to be asked if they can be kissed. They just want it done... My God.

I propose you just kiss her, and if she bitch slaps you, you know she's got no interest. Then you can fist fight her, and push her face in the dirt, and laugh at her because you've over powered her. Or at least, that's what a lot of people in the Pit would say is a reasonable response.. According to that one thread the other day. But only if she hits you first.

Or, if she lets you kiss her, you can pull out the Xenomorph/Yautja kisses I've been giving tips on lately.

That is a true win/win.
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#21
hey man, i lost my virginty on webcam,

u gotta get one!!!!
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#22
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hey man, i lost my virginty on webcam,

u gotta get one!!!!

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Quote by vintage x metal
I love you =] I can't say I was very fond of you when we first started talking because you trolled the hell out of my threads, but after talking to you here I've grown very attached to you.

Yeah, write to my fanclub about it, honey.
#23
Quote by Jack Off Jill
No one wants to be asked if they can be kissed. They just want it done... My God.

I propose you just kiss her, and if she bitch slaps you, you know she's got no interest. Then you can fist fight her, and push her face in the dirt, and laugh at her because you've over powered her. Or at least, that's what a lot of people in the Pit would say is a reasonable response.. According to that one thread the other day. But only if she hits you first.

Or, if she lets you kiss her, you can pull out the Xenomorph/Yautja kisses I've been giving tips on lately.

That is a true win/win.


no dude seriously

I've done it once...

I never use it- but it can never fail

because if she says no- theres only one thing you have to say


I mean i generally just do it..soo. i dnno
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#24
Quote by TDKshorty
no dude seriously

I've done it once...

I never use it- but it can never fail

because if she says no- theres only one thing you have to say


I mean i generally just do it..soo. i dnno

...Then why don't you just text message it to her out of fear for the opposite sex?
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Yeah, write to my fanclub about it, honey.
#25
Quote by Jack Off Jill
...Then why don't you just text message it to her out of fear for the opposite sex?


It's not for fear

but think about it

if you ask and she says no all you have to say is "i didnt say you could kiss me"

I know that's not the standard but it works.

There is little to no embarrassment compared to if you just make a move and she turns the cheek or does the "lets just be friends" speech

I've got all of this figured out
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#26
Quote by TDKshorty
It's not for fear

but think about it

if you ask and she says no all you have to say is "i didnt say you could kiss me"

I know that's not the standard but it works.

There is little to no embarrassment compared to if you just make a move and she turns the cheek or does the "lets just be friends" speech

I've got all of this figured out

Been shot down a lot then, eh?
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I love you =] I can't say I was very fond of you when we first started talking because you trolled the hell out of my threads, but after talking to you here I've grown very attached to you.

Yeah, write to my fanclub about it, honey.
#27
Quote by Jack Off Jill
Been shot down a lot then, eh?

I used too

alot; but I wasn't cool or social or anything

I wasn't really brought up to be a "man"

So I went out and studied and interacted and taught myself how to be one.


That way is just easier for guys to act if they're having anxiety about it, or fear or if it's their first time sarging or something

I don't do that anymore I just try and build up the sexual comfort level and then she's the one really want to do stuff so it goes from there
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