im trying to learn alot of song between here and bout 2months and want ti get theses solos perfectly down but my brain isnt fast enough to process the tabs and the music and play at the same time basically having trouble learnig some riffs

does anyone know of any type of software i can take an mp3 an put a part of a song in and loop that part down and also be able to slow it down
Well, you can do that with Windows Media Player or try http://audacity.sourceforge.net/ . I personally hate WMP, but if you want to do it in there, you can use Audacity (the link) to crop the part you want and then play it in Windows Media Player.

Then go to View>Playback Options in the menu at the top. Then scroll through them and you'll see a spot where you can slow it down to 50%, 60%, 70%, 80%, or 90% without the pitches changing.
You can also do this with Amazing Slow Downer or Guitar and Drum Trainer. Both not free unfortunately.