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im 23 graduating college. have a wonderful girl that would do anything for me? so should i propose? I have always liked the single life but think its time for a change
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It's a decision only you can make. I'm fairly certain that the opinions of a bunch of perverted teenagers aren't a good deciding factor on whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.
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im 23 graduating college. have a wonderful girl that would do anything for me? so should i propose? I have always liked the single life but think its time for a change
Why's this a question? I don't know if you have a girlfriend
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im 23 graduating college. have a wonderful girl that would do anything for me? so should i propose? I have always liked the single life but think its time for a change

But would you do everything for her?
If you truly love her, go for it!
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You deciding on a decision that will COMPLETELY change your life...

and you're asking the Pit?

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Of course she would do anything for you, she's a woman.


I really don't have much advice in a situation like this, but I do think it's strange I've been seeing serious threads like this made by people in their 20s in the pit (not strange in a bad way). I'm also surprised at some of the serious answers people have. I think that when you're ready to get married, you'll know it. It's nothing the Pit can tell you.
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im 17, not mature or old enough to get married, but i can make the conclusion that if you can support her financially and you feel in your gut it's right...go for it.
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im 23 graduating college. have a wonderful girl that would do anything for me? so should i propose? I have always liked the single life but think its time for a change


How long have you been together?

How dedicated are you to her?

How dedicated is she to you?

Are you ready to only have one girl the rest of your life?

Are both of you ready to settle?

Are you both willing to compromise for eachother?

Are you financially able to have this wedding?


and the big one.

Do you two love each other?


Ask yourself all of them, answer honestly... ask an ass ton more questions. If she's dedicated she won't be going anywhere, don't rush into something you're not going to be ready for.
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#18
Think about the future, what you and her want, and how it's going to work, talk to her about in depth, consider everything said from her side and yours, does she really want to get married?

Think it all over very hard after then make a decision without the pits influence.

I'm 20 myself and I've been dating a girl for 5 years, and I often think about doing the same thing after I graduate, but I dunno, it's a huge step, requires some truly deep thought.
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Noone can really answer that but you man.
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yes. invite me to the wedding and i will play jerry c's canon rock for you.

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#24
Whether you decide to or not, good luck.


BUt if you do.....then you better do something really cool and unique like put it in something that'll surprise her, girls like that...i think
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im 23 graduating college. have a wonderful girl that would do anything for me? so should i propose? I have always liked the single life but think its time for a change


Um... yes? That's a weird question to ask.
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#27
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It's a decision only you can make. I'm fairly certain that the opinions of a bunch of perverted teenagers aren't a good deciding factor on whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.

Well said.
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#29
Normally I'd say anyone who comes to the pit looking for advice on one of the biggest decisions they'll ever make is not sensible enough to raise a family...

...but anyway, it's up to you. Is she the right person? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her? Do you want her to raise your kids? Is now the right time? Are you financial stable enough to have a family/marriage?

Finally, good luck.
#30
married at 23?

only if she's pregnant man,

only if she's pregnant.
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That's actually a good idea. Though I'd say go for it. But just make absolutely sure that you and her are both ready. No use proposing if you're moving house or you're both in loads of debt. If in doubt, wait a while. No harm in biding your time, eh?
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#32
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Actually, if you have to ask... you'll never know!

Dam i was going to say that...

Sure get hitched if you want, but once you do it theres no going back.
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#33
Seriously dont do it if you asking the pit for adivce. You know to well my friend.
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#34
Your asking a internet forum if you should propose.......Just think about that for a second.......
#35
If this doesn't work out then you can later blame "THE PIT" , a place for all your questions.
#36
if shes horny,yes.



and,if you have to ask us total strangers,den i would have to say no...sorry dude,you are not going to the next round..
#37
Im in a similar situation, my missus is abroad and wont be back until March, she's wonderful and were great together, im planning on proposing when she returns.
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Im in a similar situation, my missus is abroad and wont be back until March, she's wonderful and were great together, im planning on proposing when she returns.

*Thinks of possible awkward situation*
You: You're finally back!
Both: I have something to say to you
Both: Same time then
You: Will you marry me? Gf: I met someone else....

Begin awkward situation.

I'm not dissing your relationship, it's just what came into my head. I don't even know you.
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#39
just pay £20 to get your names changed to the same surname and then everyone will think your married
saves like £7000 or something

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im 23 graduating college. have a wonderful girl that would do anything for me? so should i propose? I have always liked the single life but think its time for a change



yea, i dont know how much help a forum full of 13-14 year olds is going to do for you, it is up to you.

i am 30 though. i am also married.

i met my wife in college (at 18). we got engaged at about your age, but we stayed engaged for a couple of years before we actually got married.

we have been married for 5 years + and it is working out great.

obviously, it depends on the people though....
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