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#1
Well, I got into this argument with a girl I've been friends with since Second Grade. Supposedly we were best friends, though I tend to disagree with that. ANYWAYS, she always put me in the front, I was always number one. Recently, she's been forgetting me, taking my friends, dressing like my friends, and talking like us.

She knows nothing of what we like, she's just a poser. She tries to act like she understands what we talk about when we talk about music. I finally got tired of it and told her to just shut the fuck up.

She left, only to come back later trying to insult me. She called me about everything she could, because I told her she was a poser who always changes to get what she wants. Then, I just told her: "Look, you need to go. Nobody here likes you because you are copying us. You're being a poser." She was pissed, of course.

After, she started talking about my family and how much shit I am. So, I told her I'm tired of being friends.

Am I wrong to end a friendship because she is copying me? My parents have never liked her, they believed she was a sociopath; I now see where they are coming from. So, help from the Pit?

I already tried to rape her, kill her, kill and rape her mom, rub icy hot on it, and barrel roll.
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#2
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#4
You forgot the obvious fix for a situation like this, headbut her. There is a 50% this will knock the stupid out of her and you can be friends again.
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#5
isnt copying the most sincere form of flattery? if she wants to get in that clique can you really say she cant? i personally think its a dick thing to do
#8
Ok...


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#9
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You sound very young.


I'm 14.
So yea, pretty young.
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#11
You aren't "wrong" but you went about it in a terrible way....

You come off sounding like a jerk, and thats from YOUR side of the story. I'm not trying to say you are a jerk but the way you went about telling someone you have been friends with a long time to "**** off" just because they wanted to be more like you.
#12
part of the problem

Being 14 you feel like you have to be the ultimate rebel. shes just trying to get closer to you and your friends
you and her both need to grow up about it
maybe she wants to be like you guys but doesn't know how?
#13
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You both are acting like little bitches.

-SD


+1You probably be friends in another week anyway. Who cares if she dresses like someone? Jeez.
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#14
I would say not to let her copying you and your cool friends get in the way of your relationship, which is more important in the long run, trust me. Aside from that, perhaps it would be best to turn the "she" into "me", you more than likely are imitating your friends and what is fashionable/hip today just as much as she.
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You probably be friends in another week anyway. Who cares if she dresses like someone? Jeez.


Well, she changes every time she finds some new person to occupy her time with.
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#16
you both sound like a bunch of tits.

get real. maybe she truly likes all of that stuff. maybe she just wants to fit in. maybe you and your friends seem uninviting, so she feels the need to conform to your ways to gain the friendship that she so badly desires.

sounds like you are being a bit of an ass. but if she really is faking all of that, she has a problem too.
#17
am i poser for wearing abercrombie and fitch? and i listen to metal? and pop punk? no im not
she just wants to fit in with your friends
#19
Get over it. Maybe she really wants you to like her as aperson and is insecure, so she tried liking what you like. Give her a chance at least. Talking down at her for it only makes her feel worse
I can understand her being annoyed but you dont have to be a dick about it. You dont really sound like you like her 'just the way she is', so what do you expect her to do?


If you really dont wanna be friends, at least apologize for calling her a poser. She'll probably apologize for saying **** about your family, and you guys can grow apart without hostility.
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#20
Divide by 0!.

To answer your question, it was really puerile for you to dump her because of that. Nobody's perfect, you have to make compromises.
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#21
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Well, she changes every time she finds some new person to occupy her time with.


Maybe it's not that. Maybe she's trying to be like and impress that person.......
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#22
from your profile you seem like an idiot. do you even know what those x's around your name mean and where it came from?
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#23
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isnt copying the most sincere form of flattery? if she wants to get in that clique can you really say she cant? i personally think its a dick thing to do

Those were my first thoughts.

We are only people on the internet though. We don't truly know the relationship you had with this person, only what you have told us.

If you want to rekindle the friendship, you can apologize, say what how you felt about her changes calmly, and ask why. This can go in a million and one directions, but just choose the least hostile approach. Be frank, but understanding. Just make it as comfortable as possible.
#24
Quote by pmeg568c
from your profile you seem like an idiot. do you even know what those x's around your name mean and where it came from?


If I'm correct it either came from the early stages of hardcore punk or straight edge. I don't claim to know what they mean, just the current meanings because I was young and stupid when I registered.

Edit:

Here is a comment she left earlier today:

Cameron h..
Cameron has my hearttt.<3


Jan 27, 2008 2:57 PM
Shut up fagg
emo emo emo emo emoemo emo go cry emo emo emo
HAhahahahahahaahhaha
emo emo emo emo/homo

hahahaha whatever and no one likes you
you have no reason to be so concieted all the time
it's funny seeing you get all RAWR on meeeeeeeeeeeeeee! :]
**** suckerrrr mother ****er
whatever do your researhh
no Im not annoying your stupid **** you in the asshole or rape your momma **** is annoying as ****!
Im crazy & outgoing & fun to be around.
Thats why people love me cause Im not a fake asshole like yourself.
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Half of what she said I had no clue why. I haven't spoken to her since 10 this morning.
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#26
oh sh*t dude i thought the TS was a girl and they were having like a bitch fight or something
im totally confused now, but if you told a girl to f*ck off that's pretty bad.
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#27
arent we all "posers" to some extent? origianallity is dead pretty much

fck spelling
#28
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If I'm correct it either came from the early stages of hardcore punk or straight edge. I don't claim to know what they mean, just the current meanings because I was young and stupid when I registered.





You're no longer young???
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If I'm correct it either came from the early stages of hardcore punk or straight edge. I don't claim to know what they mean, just the current meanings because I was young and stupid when I registered.


you still are young and stupid your like 14 i believe. and your trying to act all tough and brootal? your not special because you say dumb **** like that. join the millions of other scene bean americans riding the trends. also you listen to really ****ty bands.

i can see why this girl would argue with you. you are quite the poser yourself
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#30
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You're no longer young???


Younger =P
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#31
Quote by pmeg568c
you still are young and stupid your like 14 i believe. and your trying to act all tough and brootal? your not special because you say dumb **** like that. join the millions of other scene bean americans riding the trends. also you listen to really ****ty bands.

i can see why this girl would argue with you.


lololol i agree but didn't wanna sound like an arse
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#32
Quote by SilentDeftone
You both are acting like little bitches.


+1000000000

Aren't friends supposed to be....you know......friends?

How are you gunna say that you're not going to be friends with anyone anymore because they're being "too much like you"? If that's the way she wants to make herself, let her. Seems to me like conversations with her would be more fun because now you can talk to her about **** you actually like. am I wrong?
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#33
Yeah, you're wrong. You're a ****ing idiot and a douchebag. You're as much of a "poser" as she is, unless you think you know more about music or whatever the **** you think you talk about and are the first person to don whatever dated fashion you think is hip. **** you and everyone else that has ever called someone a poser. The fact that you have friends at all bemuses me.

Upon looking at your profile, I was less than shocked to find out that you are the sceniest mother ****ing scene kid around. You think you're original? Where the **** did you find the balls to acuse anyone else of being a poser? Absolutely ****ing ridiculous. I could find 200 UG profiles of kids that look exactly like you; are they all "posing" you as well? Don't hide being the fact that you're 14, I was 14 once and I wasn't such a ****ing stuck up little bastard.
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#34
Quote by pmeg568c
you still are young and stupid your like 14 i believe. and your trying to act all tough and brootal? your not special because you say dumb **** like that. join the millions of other scene bean americans riding the trends. also you listen to really ****ty bands.

i can see why this girl would argue with you. you are quite the poser yourself


I never claimed to be special, br00t4l, tough, or original.
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#36
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I never claimed to be special, br00t4l, tough, or original.

your pro says you're broot4l
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#37
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You're no longer young???

9 months is a long time during the teenage stage.

But this man, this unquestionable gift from the heavens, is an exception.
This thread is evidence to support my claim.
#38
Quote by xFeatherx
I never claimed to be special, br00t4l, tough, or original.

No, but you claim to be the Poser Police.

Focus on yourself, not other people.

-SD
#39
TS, we're all posers to something
get over it
she wants to be like you
apologize and explain you were a douche
maybe you'll get blown
#40
TS is a poser. that pretty much sums it up.

you think you have suddenly become enlightened and mature in less than a year? you basically admitted you were a poser in March '07...


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