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#1
so i'm 16, and I've been going out with a girl for 3 years. We had sex (condom used, failed) and now she's pregnant. She's giving the baby up for adoption and now her parents forbid her from seeing me. But we are really in love and we want to spend the rest of our lives together. Her parents are really overprotective and they always make sure they know where she's going and they somehow always find out if she lied. And we go to different schools so we dont even see each other then.

What should we do?
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#4
Sounds like your girlfriend has watched a bit too much Juno...
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#5
Three words.

YOU ****ED UP

Congratulations. Now suck it up and accept the consequences of your/her actions. How would you react if some punk kid got your future daughter pregnant at the ripe age of 16? I think you would be ****ting bricks. Not bitching about how her parents are "overprotective".

IncuEdit: Why do I get the feeling that you say you wanna spend your life with her now, yet when it gets tough (you may not want to acknowledge it, but it will, very much so) you'll run to the hills? That's the typical horny teenager mentality as far as I see it.
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#6
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Sounds like your girlfriend has watched a bit too much Juno...

haha yeah i just saw that movie and was like "this is the story of the past 3 months of my life"
I'm here to help

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ok, as usual pit is being very unhelpful except andychalmers, so im gonna go post this someplace else


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andychalmers102, that story is awesome.
#7
Not defy her parents and show them that you are both mature enought to handle the situation. Try and talk to her parents maturely and try and get them to allow you to see her in their house under their terms.

I dont see any other solution because they are not going to trust you or their daughter to be alone away from them.

If you defy her parents or she defies them, kiss goodbye to seeing her again until she is 18... Thats if she wants to see you again after all that time.
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#8
ahhhhh my best friend ****ed this guy last week, his condom failed.
she got the morning after pill.
but something inside me really wishes she still gets pregnant.
dunno why. i guess i ate evil bananas or something.
#9
Quote by IncubusMan999
Three words.

YOU ****ED UP

Congratulations. Now suck it up and accept the consequences of her actions. How would you react if some punk kid got your future daughter pregnant at the ripe age of 16? I think you would be ****ting bricks. Not bitching about how her parents are "overprotective".


+1.
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#10
You may aswell ask a 4 year old these questions. He would give a better answer than people on here.
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#12
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Kill her parents.


Hmmm, after reading all the replies people have given you
this seems to be the most logical
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#13
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Sounds like your girlfriend has watched a bit too much Juno...


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#14
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ahhhhh my best friend ****ed this guy last week, his condom failed.
she got the morning after pill.
but something inside me really wishes she still gets pregnant.
dunno why. i guess i ate evil bananas or something.


What
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ahhhhh my best friend ****ed this guy last week, his condom failed.
she got the morning after pill.
but something inside me really wishes she still gets pregnant.
dunno why. i guess i ate evil bananas or something.


haha ur a good friend
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#17
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that oughta do it
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#18
What are you asking UG for? Our options are limited to violence, more violence, and then some picards. Ask someone real. Talk to her parents. Be mature, responsible. Yeah. K.
#19
Why the hell aren't you thinking about your future child instead of this juvenile crap?
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#20
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#21
friji, that is the best answer to any question i have ever seen ever! my sig is in your hands
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That could be the single most logical, helpful response ive ever gotten from UG.
Thank you very much.

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#23
I can only suggest doing what Romeo and Juliet did, but don't mess it up like they did.
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#24
Lets' face it pal, for 1, you're in a ****ing awkward situation, which nobody needs telling you about, but its' there. And for 2: Well done for taking this to the most inappropriate place the civillised world knows! Consider this a friendly warning about pit-seeking.
Serious talking though... Just ride it out for a while, as its' all pretty recent, so everyone on her side will be currently using your picture for effigies, dart-boards, etc... See what happens, use things like texts, internets etc., to try n keep in touch.
So far as the prospective child is concerned,whichever desicion she takes is going to absolutely kill her from the inside - adoption does at least give someone else the chance - which seems to be the angle she's taking on this.
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#25
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Sounds like your girlfriend has watched a bit too much Juno...


I havn't watched that movie but I swear it is the biggest rip off of a movie ever, from what I've seen of the trailor anyway. But there is a Korean movie called Jeni Juno, and its about a girl getting pregnant to her boyfriend at a really really young age. I see enough similarities for it to be a rip off just by seeing the Trailor. Anyway as for TS, I have no idea what you should do.

I am sorry for wasting your time.
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I havn't watched that movie but I swear it is the biggest rip off of a movie ever, from what I've seen of the trailor anyway. But there is a Korean movie called Jeni Juno, and its about a girl getting pregnant to her boyfriend at a really really young age. I see enough similarities for it to be a rip off just by seeing the Trailor. Anyway as for TS, I have no idea what you should do.

I am sorry for wasting your time.

No, it's not. And it's not like Juno had a very original topic idea anyway.
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#28
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I guess I'll have to watch Juno, but if it ends up a major rip off I will be awards bragging rights. Btw TS if you do plan to kill her parents, this form of self defense may help when trying to kill aswell.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=2REG3-Wb5gM
It's very possible they did base Juno off that movie. They just re-did it, and released it in America so that it's famous world wide.
#29
I'm not sure what you should do. but I'm absolutely sure you won't find the answer in the pit.
#30
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Three words.

YOU ****ED UP

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actually he could have ****ed down or mabey sideways but thats a little awkward
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#31
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#32
Quote by IncubusMan999
Three words.

YOU ****ED UP

Congratulations. Now suck it up and accept the consequences of your/her actions. How would you react if some punk kid got your future daughter pregnant at the ripe age of 16? I think you would be ****ting bricks. Not bitching about how her parents are "overprotective".

IncuEdit: Why do I get the feeling that you say you wanna spend your life with her now, yet when it gets tough (you may not want to acknowledge it, but it will, very much so) you'll run to the hills? That's the typical horny teenager mentality as far as I see it.

And you totally just made a complete ass out of yourself. I'm guessing you've never been laid, right?

Face it, teens have sex. Nothing new here. He was responsible enough to use a condom, but it failed. And the both of them are responsible enough to go through with the pregnancy and give the child up for adoption rather than using abortion as a method of birth control. He still loves her and wants to see her.

I don't see how you guys can make him out to be a bad guy. Sounds like you're just jealous that someone's getting laid at a young age and you aren't.
#33
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What are you asking UG for? Our options are limited to violence, more violence, and then some picards. Ask someone real. Talk to her parents. Be mature, responsible. Yeah. K.


This guy is right.
UG is only capable of telling you to kill her parents.
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#35
they don't trust you because you knocked her up at 16 dumb sh*t
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#37
Grow a pair.

....well you clearly have a pair but you know what I mean.
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#38
so she wants to give the baby up for adoption??

did she consult you on this??

do u care what happens about YOUR baby?
how would u feel if 20 years from now u get a knock on the door from a really hot chick who you want bang straight away, but turns out to be your daughter??
if if was me i would feel great about it. but only if she wanted bang me.
#39
Learn to use a condom properly. It only fails if you do.
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#40
Put on two condoms next time x)

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