how do you do a harmonic note and bend it at the same time?
You cant, unless you do maybe a pinch harmonic. can u give us a particular tab/example?
cant you use your wammy bar
if u have a whammy bar u can, if not try a behind the nut bend, that might work
You could bend the neck...but don't break it.
just like the other poster mentioned. pinch harmonic is the only way to do that.