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#1
when you go out for dinner or a movie, who pays? is it still the guy who is expected to pay? i know it's common courtesy for the girl to show she wants to pay but is she really expected to? or do you just go dutch?
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#3
I thought this would be about escort services...


Anyway, you'd better pay. Otherwise you lose all of your man- cards.
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The guy. The girl is supposed to offer, but you never let her. You pay! YOU!!!


This guy's right.
#6
Depends on your age, income, who asked who, etc. If you're way too good for her, make her pay everything. It's fun.
#7
i wasnt gonna pay,but i ended up paying by accident. i gave money and got no change back and when i said wtf i need money i just shut up and ended up paying for her.
#8
why pay?tell her to wait oustide then hop out the bathroom window
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#9
If a guy is serious about dating a girl, he will have to pay. Everything else is just stylistically incorrect. Gotta treat the ladies right, my friend.
#10
the guy should do it. besides it being common courtesy, it scores extra "gentleman" points with her too.
#11
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TS the guy usually pays. it is the polite thing to do. girlfriends cost a lot.
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why pay?tell her to wait oustide then hop out the bathroom window


smooth, man. smooth. :p
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#13
Just get a girl who only eats salads (most do). That way you can go to a really nice place, pay for it, not go broke, and score some "dessert" when you get home.
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The guy. The girl is supposed to offer, but you never let her. You pay! YOU!!!

This one.
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#15
smooth, man. smooth


why thank you.as you can tell im a hit with the ladies
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#16
Well usually if i dont really now her, she pays half. Usually she asks, if she asks ill let her do it.
#17
This thread is full of dumb. Men paid in the 50's when women were believed to be "beneath" them. Now that genders are more equal, both parties pay for their respective dinner/movie/whatever. If your date doesn't like it, tell her you'll pay for her if she works in the kitchen all day making you whatever you want to eat. COME ON, if you let females gain status in society they have to expect to lose something as well. You guys make me sick.
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#18
Well if the guy doesn't pay then he a stingey shit. It's just ettiqute.
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Well if the guy doesn't pay then he a stingey shit. It's just ettiqute.


No he's not. He's standing up for gender equality.
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#20
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#21
I usually pay, however, we dont go out that often. There have been times where she has treated me to a meal or a movie, but most of the time its me.
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#22
Heres wat u do. If shes expected to pay then u pay for her, but if she expects you to pay then shes a total B!tch and you should make her pay.
#23
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This thread is full of dumb. Men paid in the 50's when women were believed to be "beneath" them. Now that genders are more equal, both parties pay for their respective dinner/movie/whatever. If your date doesn't like it, tell her you'll pay for her if she works in the kitchen all day making you whatever you want to eat. COME ON, if you let females gain status in society they have to expect to lose something as well. You guys make me sick.



so hang on: your trying to get to know someone. you like them. so you wish to do as nice gesture. so you pay for their dinner. its on you. its a free meal. you are BEING NICE, using your money so they dont waste theirs.

HOW IS THAT SICK!

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Just get a girl who only eats salads (most do). That way you can go to a really nice place, pay for it, not go broke, and score some "dessert" when you get home.



does desert include cream?
#24
pays the one who "made the invitation"
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No he's not. He's standing up for gender equality.

What's wrong with treating a woman? Be quiet.
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#26
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so hang on: your trying to get to know someone. you like them. so you wish to do as nice gesture. so you pay for their dinner. its on you. its a free meal. you are BEING NICE, using your money so they dont waste theirs.

HOW IS THAT SICK!
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Because you fool, in an egalitarian society both parties pay for their separate dinners. Otherwise you're moving backwards in time. I mean its fine if you pay as a nice gesture, but if you pay because you're adhering to gender roles and stereotypes then you're preventing progress on the gender equality front.
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What's wrong with treating a woman? Be quiet.


Why should you treat her? Why shouldn't she treat you? Again, you're adhering to negative gender stereotypes. It's fine if you don't care, but as someone who is well aware of the feminist impact on society I would like to see women recognize that they have to make sacrifices for gender equality just like men do.
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#28
I think the guy should pay if he can.

[EDIT]: and pumpkins_rule should calm down. No one's oppressing women by paying for their meal/movie ticket/etc.
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#30
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Why should you treat her? Why shouldn't she treat you? Again, you're adhering to negative gender stereotypes. It's fine if you don't care, but as someone who is well aware of the feminist impact on society I would like to see women recognize that they have to make sacrifices for gender equality just like men do.

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#31
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Because you fool, in an egalitarian society both parties pay for their separate dinners. Otherwise you're moving backwards in time. I mean its fine if you pay as a nice gesture, but if you pay because you're adhering to gender roles and stereotypes then you're preventing progress on the gender equality front.


hey mr T

sorry i just had to feed my dog, but im back now.

right, what did i miss.

im meant to be replying? oh right, ok, here it goes...

im glad you can see its fine if its a nice gesture. But some stereotypes still work. and im not saying that womens lives should be like they were in the victorians times, because that was wrong, but how many people here like romance? the act of being romantic, getting to know someone. go to the movies, go to meals, the awkward first kiss. and paying for the meal is part of that.

but saying that, even if im meeting her, or even him, for lunch, ill pay for it if i invited them. not because of stereotypes, but becasue i want to and its being a good and decent person.
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This thread is full of dumb. Men paid in the 50's when women were believed to be "beneath" them. Now that genders are more equal, both parties pay for their respective dinner/movie/whatever. If your date doesn't like it, tell her you'll pay for her if she works in the kitchen all day making you whatever you want to eat. COME ON, if you let females gain status in society they have to expect to lose something as well. You guys make me sick.


I completely agree with you. Seriously.
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#33
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hey mr T

sorry i just had to feed my dog, but im back now.

right, what did i miss.

im meant to be replying? oh right, ok, here it goes...

im glad you can see its fine if its a nice gesture. But some stereotypes still work. and im not saying that womens lives should be like they were in the victorians times, because that was wrong, but how many people here like romance? the act of being romantic, getting to know someone. go to the movies, go to meals, the awkward first kiss. and paying for the meal is part of that.

but saying that, even if im meeting her, or even him, for lunch, ill pay for it if i invited them. not because of stereotypes, but becasue i want to and its being a good and decent person.


What does being good and decent have to do with it? If she was good and decent she wouldn't make you pay for her meal. Again, if it's a nice gesture because you want to get laid quicker that's fine. But gender stereotypes are not positive, and as for being romantic I could write a poem or a song one hundred times more romantic than the gesture of paying for my date's dinner. It wouldn't cost me anything either. Look, the only reason I'm upset is because I'm pro-gender equality and the fact that the attitude about always paying for your date still exists is a little bit infuriating. Again, I'm not arguing with the fact that you're paying for your date. I'm arguing with the idea that it's absolutely necessary to do so because you're the man and she's the woman. I mean this idea also shows weakness from a feminist perspective, because the woman is expecting the man to pay and is thus showing weakness and dependance upon the male. I hope you can understand my position, I don't think it's an unreasonable one considering the times wel ive in.
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#34
pumpkins_rule what the **** are you on about ? Reread all your posts and tell me you dont sound like a complete stingy douche! Paying for one measly little meal is gonna throw off equality? Its a ****ing common courtesy!! give me a break..I bet you think holding the door open is an abomination too.
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#35
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Why?
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#36
This made me think of a question that I had for a long time. What about going to the movies or dinner with a girl who's just a friend? Do you still pay for her then?
#38
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Why should you treat her? Why shouldn't she treat you?

Because men naturally try to impress the opposite gender and has been like that since the begining of time.

Maybe men want to impress woman more than woman want to impress men.
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pumpkins_rule what the **** are you on about ? Reread all your posts and tell me you dont sound like a complete stingy douche! Paying for one measly little meal is gonna throw off equality? Its a ****ing common courtesy!! give me a break..I bet you think holding the door open is an abomination too.


Did you read my post? Paying for a meal out of courtesy, I have no problem with. I have a problem with adhering to fixed gender stereotypes as I elaborated upon above. How dense can this board be?
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pumpkins_rule what the **** are you on about ? Reread all your posts and tell me you dont sound like a complete stingy douche! Paying for one measly little meal is gonna throw off equality? Its a ****ing common courtesy!! give me a break..I bet you think holding the door open is an abomination too.

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Mr T:

it sounds like your trying to rebel for the hell of it. you sound like your 14. and its not a dependance. its not: we r going out and your paying. or 'i have no money'. in some cases, its because she wants to test males.

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or how arrogant/ignorant can you be?
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