Poll: Do Her Or Dont Do Her?
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Sex it up.
544 57%
Wait.
410 43%
Voters: 954.
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#1
So, over spring break my girlfriends grandparents invited both of us to their house up in Vermont. They have a small-ish house so me and her are going to sleep in the same bed She has basically already come out and told me she is ready for sex. I want to do it too (of course).
But... i was just reading some thread in the pit about condoms and it sounds like people have had some bad experiences with them. We would both be pretty much dead if she got pregnant and theres no way shes going to take birth control. And... we are both 14.
so i need help. Do her or wait?
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#6
Go for it, most likely it won't split. Make sure your grandparents don't walk in on you, though. That would be freaky...
#9
The answer is always do her.

Edit: Seriously though, you're 14, I'd say no.
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#11
condoms are like 98%, I've never (to my knowledge) gotten a girl pregnant with using condoms alone.

I don't condone under age sex. But since you're both 14 neither of you can get done for being a pedo.
#12
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So, over spring break my girlfriends grandparents invited both of us to their house up in Vermont. They have a small-ish house so me and her are going to sleep in the same bed She has basically already come out and told me she is ready for sex. I want to do it too (of course).
But... i was just reading some thread in the pit about condoms and it sounds like people have had some bad experiences with them. We would both be pretty much dead if she got pregnant and theres no way shes going to take birth control. And... we are both 14.
so i need help. Do her or wait?


If you're ready, and she is, why wait? Condoms are basically 98% reliable, and it's unlikely that you'll have a problem.
#13
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Does her grandfather have a gun?


Thats the real question!

Yall are 14?! Gnah!
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#15
Do her only if you both feel psychologically prepared for it. Once you do it, there's no coming back.
Bring them condoms. More than one. And just take one, get a hard on, and put it to try them before going with her to that place. You want to know how to wear one.

Also just a tip, foreplay. You want her to be wet if it's the 1st time of both of you.
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#16
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just do it, and if she gets pregnant, it wont affect me.

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#20
are her grandparents stupid? what the hell are they thinking??? horny 14 year old boy + girlfriend + only one bed + old people = teh sex always. if i were in your position, i would do it, but cuz I'm not, i say don't, you're too young. also if you knock her up, you're ****ed...
try go for some head. it's the same difference for you...
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#21
I really can't help you with this decision if you do not show us a picture of her...

EDIT: Ah, I saw her picture in that picture thread. Don't do it, son.
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#24
do her without a condom, who uses condoms in this day and age anyways? TUBE SOCKS!
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#26
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are her grandparents stupid? what the hell are they thinking??? horny 14 year old boy + girlfriend + only one bed + old people = teh sex always. if i were in your position, i would do it, but cuz I'm not, i say don't, you're too young. also if you knock her up, you're ****ed...
try go for some head. it's the same difference for you...

Weird oxymoron is weird.


Anyways, wait. You could just cuddle, or oral if anything.
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#28
Go for it, just be sure to wear more than 1 condom for extra protection.
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#29
Feck it, go for it mate.
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#30
Tbh id wait for sex


Nothing about a little 2nd base though :P *nudge nudge*
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#31
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Does her grandfather have a gun?


haha

but seriously, ur too young
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#32
If you do it, it'll be great that night but you'll spend the rest of your life regretting it, even if she doesn't get pregnant. I can't think or anyone who has lost their virginity at that age who doesn't regret it when they are 17+
#33
ur 14 DUDE U DO THIS AND U WILL BE THE ****ING MAN AT SCHOOL the downside ur girlfriend will be labeld a ***** but who ****ing cares
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#34
all of you who are saying dont do it. what the hell are you thinking? If all of you were 14 and you had this oporotunity with a girl (assuming shes not fat or german), youd **** the ****ing bitch.

let him have his fun, but WEAR A CONDOM. or slit her throat after the sex... necrophilia is the best kind of philia
#35
14 is kinda young IMO, but if she's a looker, then, uh... yeah. hit that


EDIT: Dude, you look like youre 12. on second thought, wait. you're gonna nut in like 10 seconds flat
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#36
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Does her grandfather have a gun?

+2
This is a major factor as he will shoot you if he catches you. I know I would.
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#38
You sound like you simply aren't ready. Do it when you aren't such a sex n00b. You don't have much to worry about with condoms, but the fact you're so worried etc. makes me think you just aren't ready for it.

That said... DO IT YOU PUSSY. Are you a dude, or are you a fucking dude?!?!
#40
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all of you who are saying dont do it. what the hell are you thinking? If all of you were 14 and you had this oporotunity with a girl (assuming shes not fat or german), youd **** the ****ing bitch.

let him have his fun, but WEAR A CONDOM. or slit her throat after the sex... necrophilia is the best kind of philia

Yes, but read bequickorbedead's post. All decisions (read: practically none ) made while horny are good.
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