#1
my friend i jam with all the time lately has been making more and more excuses not to jam, and im pretty sure the only reason he ever wants to hang out with me is because I always have weed.

now, i used to put cheech and chong to shame with the amount i smoked, but now its just more of an after work type thing

but all he wants to do is smoke, and not jam

so today, he said he needed a ride to come over and jam, and i found him one, then he said he found his own ride, then an hour after he was supposed to arrive he called and said he's not coming over and i know hes just at the stupid party house smoking like an idiot

everytime were gonna jam, its like that day is a ****in holiday-

dude, its friday!
dude, its saturday!
dude, its the weekend!
dude, its valentines day!
etc etc and of course when i say we should jam, he says 'yea and lets throw down on a sack!"

i love jamming with him, not many people in my area are into old school metal, even fewer can play it, and even fewer can keep up with me (not saying im a virtuoso or anything, i just been playing awhile and like playing FAST)

so should i just look for new people to jam with, or keep letting him piss me off?
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#2
Sounds lame. I'm having trouble finding people to jam with. They either can't keep time AT ALL, or they just don't jam.

I can't care if I just play E D G chord progression all afternoon, it sucks so many people don't jam.
#3
Both. Dont smoke weed anymore?
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#6
Sorry man. Yeah, most of the people I jam with are a little bit flaky.
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#7
Nothing is more annoying that unreliable bandmates/jam partners. Find someone else.
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#8
smoking being bad or not aside, i just think its lame that someone with so much potential would just get high all the time. i used to, and i dont think i progressed at all as a guitarist when i did, cuz i was always getting high, high, trying to find weed, waiting to buy weed, working and using my money to buy weed

lately ive been thinking of quitting altogether
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#9
Quit.
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#11
Dude, it happens. My band were like this ALL the time.

The way I solved it, was to book a gig in 2 weeks time. I told them about it, and so they didn't look like complete tools, they were actually bugging ME to practise more.

Since then, we've recorded 3 EPs, 17 left over tracks, gone on 3 mini tours, played about 50 gigs, and are about to go on a country wide tour.

I suggest it
#12
maybe he's pissed that you don't smoke enough anymore and so he's branching out to make up for it. i suggest you start a band with him or something to make your bond a bit stronger. then you'll jam during the week and stuff, and you can still just smoke pot and whatever on the weekends when you jam. you need to hang out with him more than when you just smoke pot, or that'll be the only thing he values you for. but you can't tell him you don't wanna smoke so much pot until you do other stuff a lot, or he'll just stop hanging out with you.
#13
Roll him up and smoke him. See how he likes it.
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#14
atleast you guys actually jam. my jam friends (singer is a girl, other guitar is a guy) make out the whole time while i sit there jamming with myself.
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