#1
Hi all, so my bands first real show is on friday and on 3 am saturday i get a txt from my singer saying she's quitting, giving me a bunch of bullsh*t excuses. I get angry because first she woke me up at 3 am, second because she promised me and gave me her word countless times she wouldn't bail and now is, and third ignored my txts asking for a real reason why. so i tell her to f*ck herself and that i dont need her anyway and call her a scared little girl for running away. The funny part is the bitch still has some of my gear and wont return calls, txts, or emails. I've got a small practice amp and some other gear like tuners and cables and my favorite capo. How do i go about getting my stuff back, its currently in her dorm. I'd hate to get cops involved or take her to court but i want my stuff back, anybody ever find themselves in the same situation? What do I do??
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#3
honest answer: go to her place when you know she's there and get your stuff


good answer: rub icy hot on it


best answer: rape her
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#4
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break down the door, walk in, take your stuff, bitch slap her and leave.



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honest answer: go to her place when you know she's there and get your stuff


good answer: rub icy hot on it


best answer: rape her


+1
#6
Why do people insist on sending 20 text messages back and forth when one phone call will take a fraction of the time?

And if she didn't answer it means you get to say horrible things that she can't retaliate too until later.

edit: I see you did actually call, good on you son. I hope you gave her hell.
#8
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Sounds like you lurvvve her.


No, quite the opposite, she bailed a week before our first show and just expected me to be okay with it. I want to get my stuff back and never see her again. I can't get into her building because we go to different schools and you need a key to get into the dorm.
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#9
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No, quite the opposite, she bailed a week before our first show and just expected me to be okay with it. I want to get my stuff back and never see her again. I can't get into her building because we go to different schools and you need a key to get into the dorm.

Go up to a random girl, tell her the story and try to make her pity you, then BAM!
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quick bat man, to the bandleadingmobile





can any of the other band members get in touch with her and take your stuff?

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#12
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can any of the other band members get in touch with her and take your stuff?

other than that,

depending on how important that stuff is to you, you could wait until the situation cools off, then try to get it back.

it sounds like she's just being an angry woman, not that she really wants anything to do with your stuff.
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other than that,

depending on how important that stuff is to you, you could wait until the situation cools off, then try to get it back.

it sounds like she's just being an angry woman, not that she really wants anything to do with your stuff.


Exactly! remember she's a woman, and their either complicated, or they are men so...

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#17
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Shoot the drummer.

Or confront her and demand your stuff back.

at the drummer part
#18
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Shoot the drummer.

Or confront her and demand your stuff back.

haha

And go to her college(I'm assuming you're in college since you have dorms) and talk to her. Try to find her in a building if you can't get in the dorms.
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#19
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Go up to a random girl, tell her the story and try to make her pity you, then BAM!



And I hope "BAM!" means, "have sex with that girl in the bitch singer's dorm!"
#20
i've already sent her two or three emails asking for my stuff back and she ignores them, so she is stealing them, what do i do if i can't get her to respond, i guess i could confront her at her job that would make her really mad, but would it be effective???
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#21
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Go up to a random girl, tell her the story and try to make her pity you, then BAM!


Instant sex.
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Shoot the drummer.

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#24
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might want to check ebay for your gear....lol


thats seriously what I'm afraid of, i don't trust her. I'm going to give her a few more days to respond to my emails. I talked to the cops in my town and they said they could help me out by doing what they call a civil standby, they come with me to her dorm and act like moderators and hopefully i get my stuff back, i really don't want to get the cops involved but I'm afraid thats what its gonna take.
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#25
shouldn't of called her a bitch before you got your stuff

EDIT-shouldn't of told her to **** herself before you got your stuff
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#26
yeah, moral of the story (1) don't trust girls (2) make damn sure you have all your stuff back before telling them off lol
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