Poll: is it ok to masturbate when you have a girlfriend
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View poll results: is it ok to masturbate when you have a girlfriend
yes
151 95%
no
8 5%
Voters: 159.
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#1
is it ethical to masturbate if you have a girlfriend?
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#4
Yes, way to steal my caption idea too =p. It's cool though. Seriously it is fine though. She can't always be putting out for you so, if you want go ahead!
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#5
of course. but you should just get a bj instead...ahh much better no?
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#7
she s probly still masturbating
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#9
just wank
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#12
Are you really gonna take into consideration what anyone in the pit says? I didn't think so.
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#13
girl or guy... masturbation is the one friend that will never turn its back on you
#15
if she isnt constantly there to fulfill your sexual desires something has to be right?


your hand just happens to be attached to your body... therefore always there.
#16
i see no issue with it, there are times it just needs to be done and your g\f either is not there or not in the mood. so enjoy, it keeps you "in touch" with yourself.
#17
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HAH!! good point +1

but wank away, my friend.......wank away.
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#19
just think how many times u masturbate when u dont have a gf. then minus the times u have sex from that (including hjs and bjs), and make up for the lost amount when she isnt around. if she doesnt want u doing it, time to find a new gf (cause its a natural thing) or tell her to step it up lol.
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#20
From a moral analysis standpoint, she would probably (and this varies from case to case) be hurt is she found out you were fantasizing about other women. On the plus side, you get a small amount of pleasure. Granted, what she won't know won't hurt, but if she found out...

From a strictly moral standpoint, yeah its kind of wrong (the negative ends outweigh the positive ends) but that's not to say its uncommon. sorry... I'm an ethics major.

that notwithstanding, I did vote the "yes its ethical" on the poll.
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#21
My girlfriend and I arent capable of having sex every day as we would like. She has told me to satisfy myself looking at porn haha
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#22
There are really few cases where fapping would be unethical. And having a girlfriend is not one of those cases.
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#23
Of course it is. It means that person has a healthy sex drive.
#24
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My girlfriend and I arent capable of having sex every day as we would like. She has told me to satisfy myself looking at porn haha


WTF? I feel really crude posting this but why didn't she ask you to think of her?...

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#27
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Fapping instead of visiting your grandmom's funeral = unethical.
Fapping in church = unethical.
Fapping on the thoughts of other people's misfortune = unethical (and disturbing).
Fapping because you don't see your girlfriend enough = perfectly fine.

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#28
Why would it be?

EDIT: Fixed. I didn't mean "wouldn't"
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#31
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From a moral analysis standpoint, she would probably (and this varies from case to case) be hurt is she found out you were fantasizing about other women. On the plus side, you get a small amount of pleasure. Granted, what she won't know won't hurt, but if she found out...

From a strictly moral standpoint, yeah its kind of wrong (the negative ends outweigh the positive ends) but that's not to say its uncommon. sorry... I'm an ethics major.

that notwithstanding, I did vote the "yes its ethical" on the poll.



What if he thinks about his girlfriend though?
#32
It's totally fine.

Any woman who is offended by you fantasizing about other women is **** out of luck. It's normal and I can guarantee she will never find a guy that doesn't do it.
#34
Quote by ultradogfromhel
so all you guys wouldn't care if your girlfriends watched or thought about other guys while she pleasures herself? you'd be like, thats cool, think about other people pleasing you visually.

I don't care. I've dated girls that have done it.

If anything it's a turn-on to have a girl who does that stuff. For me anyways.

The fact of the matter is that fantasizing about someone other than your significant other is not dirty or wrong, it's a fantasy. There is nothing wrong with it and I think any sex therapist in the world would tell you it's 100% normal and healthy.
#35
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I don't care. I've dated girls that have done it.

If anything it's a turn-on to have a girl who does that stuff. For me anyways.

The fact of the matter is that fantasizing about someone other than your significant other is not dirty or wrong, it's a fantasy. There is nothing wrong with it and I think any sex therapist in the world would tell you it's 100% normal and healthy.


i guess some people just have more self control than others.

and don't give BS statistics. you just pulled "any sex therapist in the world would tell you it's 100% normal and healthy". thats not an argument, thats just made up nonsense.
#36
How do ethics even come into it?...
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#37
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so all you guys wouldn't care if your girlfriends watched or thought about other guys while she pleasures herself? you'd be like, thats cool, think about other people pleasing you visually.

So long as she didn't act on it then that's fine.
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#38
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i guess some people just have more self control than others.

and don't give BS statistics. you just pulled "any sex therapist in the world would tell you it's 100% normal and healthy". thats not an argument, thats just made up nonsense.
I never claimed it was cold, hard fact. Just all of the information I've heard about that sort of thing is that it's totally normal.
#40
I used to masturbate mostly about my girlfriend.

So, meh...
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