I am a freshman in high school and there is this girl also in my grade who I really like. We are both really good friends and she has tried to commit suicide but she is not depressed anymore. When I asked her out she said she wasn't ready to be in a relationship yet because her last bf treated her badly. I have tried to stop thinking about her but I can't. I write songs about her. What should I do? Is this just infatuation? I don't think it is.
Just let her sort out her issues. If you apply pressure, she might just turn her back on you. And in NO WAY should her tell her you write songs about her (or play them to her, for that matter), as I think that could freak her out a little.

EDIT: And because I'm a dick: This belongs in the relationship thread.