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#1
Hey guys, i am a shy guy (yes RockMania i know it doesn't seem like it)

but my dad is forcing me and my sis to go to our mum's frineds party.

I feel really awkward front of teens who i don't know.

I feel really sweaty,

my heart is beating really fast,

my palms are getting sweaty,

my stomache/heart feels like a stone,

i am not a social dude, i have a few friends.

I REALLY DON'T WANNA GO BECASUSE I DOUBT THAT THERE WOULD BE MANY GUITARISTS in there (trust me) or any Rock/Metal/Blues fan.

all rap fans.


i know i am going to be really bored.
Please guys give me tips to be more confidetn.

Thanks y'all.
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#2
Start a conversation about "Phat rhymes" and "weed and bitches", you'll fit in fine.

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#3
Just be your self. I'm sure there is someone who like your music. just try to have some fun
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#4
may i add he is comming in twenty minuites, my hands are trembeling.
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#6
Lighten up, don't judge people on what they look like or what music they listen to, talk to everybody and have fun.
#7
^ LOL. (to zero)

See if you can use their computer while your there instead.
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#9
do what I do at any party that plays rap. "Trip" over the power cord to the stereo and your bound to have someone come up to you after words that hates rap to. Works every time.
#10
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Eat them.


lol i guess i could, they would taste better with Ketchup and salt and pepper.
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#11
The fact is, that if you act really mopey and down and as if you don't want to be there; you're going to attract ALOT more attention (and it'll be negative) than by just going and seeking out a good time and chatting to people
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#13
Try not to label the night before you've gone there. Just watch your body language (try to avoid folding your arms) cos that way you're more likely to make friends and have a good time
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#14
Get drunk and hit on your mum's friend.

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Stay sober and hit on your mum's friend.
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lol +2
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#16
^ Yep, body language is key, if you had time i'd suggest going over like some articles (this is for people whose true resource is the net) on places (askmen is pretty good) about how to hold your self so that people'll come up to you or invite you to join in

Just lighten up about it though, it's a party=alcohol, women, music, flashing lights and some rap is actually badass (NWA, Public enemy, Wu-tang clan) just stick that on if you can
#17
i tend toscrew up at these situations. i tend to end up talking to adults about some really strange topics.
#18
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^ Yep, body language is key, if you had time i'd suggest going over like some articles (this is for people whose true resource is the net) on places (askmen is pretty good) about how to hold your self so that people'll come up to you or invite you to join in

Just lighten up about it though, it's a party=alcohol, women, music, flashing lights and some rap is actually badass (NWA, Public enemy, Wu-tang clan) just stick that on if you can


well there is no alchol there. lol

+ i do not drink.
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#19
Why can't you hang out with people who like a different type of music? Go, you'll be very thankful later, these are the kind of things that help you with your social skills.
#20
Just Talk To People Fool.
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I don't know what to talk about?

I have no other thing in life than guitar.
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#23
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I don't know what to talk about?

I have no other thing in life than guitar.

Just say hello, make sure you have good posture and smile. Before you know it you'll be talking away. People like talking about themselves, so listen.
#24
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Just say hello, make sure you have good posture and smile. Before you know it you'll be talking away.


i'll try but what do i say after that?
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#25
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i'll try but what do i say after that?

Just let them talk about themselves, people love that. Make a joke or two, you'll get the gist.
#26
umm i have the same problem, i just sit bymyself when i have to go somewhere and basically dont let people talk to me....im a creep
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#27
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I don't know what to talk about?

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Then I'd recommend therapy, and I'm not kidding.
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#28
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+1

Or just grow a pair and stop worrying about tiny issue like these. There are starving children in China! Remember them!! Or think of Nuns!! or think of Nuns eating starving children in China!! You think this whole social thing is tough?! Think about the disgusting after-taste those nuns have after committing canibalisim! fie' ah foe..
#29
socialising won't kill. neither will lieing about your musical tastes to people you don't know.
#30
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umm i have the same problem, i just sit bymyself when i have to go somewhere and basically dont let people talk to me....im a creep



you and me both brother.
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#32
TS, How did it go?
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#34
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I don't know what to talk about?

I have no other thing in life than guitar.


#35
If it really sux pull a Dane Cook and shit in the coats, then come out of the room with the coats and go

"oh my god someone shit on the coats!"

edit: damn, it was yesterday.

I hope you shit on some coats anyway
#36
Yeah there is no reason to be afraid of other people. If you actually tried to talking to more people you will realize they are a lot like you. So what if they don't like the same kind of music as you, if you made more friends that have different tastes you actually learn a lot more. I used to be all shy a couple years ago but now i go out and meet new people and have fun. No need to be nervous they are people just like you are.
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#39
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TS, How did it go?



i guess alright, i ended up playing the psd2

thanks guys.
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i guess alright, i ended up playing the psd2


Dude, don't rub my face in your crazy social life.
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