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#1
I am a freshman in high school and I am going to ask this girl out soon. My parents are christians and so am I but they don't beleive in teenage dating.(I have no idea how any uncrazy person can think that but they do). I have talked to them and told them I am mature and know what I am doing but they are to damn stubborn. How can i make them change?
#5
how would i be able to go to the movies with a girl and go to dinner with her and say she's not my girlfriend?
not being mean i just wanna know if there is a serious way
#6
If you're really that bothered, and your parents are that bad, just go for it. Just because they are religious, its no reason for them to force their beliefs upon you.
#9
Ask her out, tell your parents you guys are friends, technically you are so you are not lying...

I like to think of it as cleverly skating on the edges of truth
#10
Just express your views, im sure they will understand
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#11
If you want to have a girlfriend, you'll have to kill your parents. She'd want you to do it.


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#12
also i will add this this girl really makes me happy and i have told her how i feel and she says she likes me to
she is hanging out with some bad kids though and i want to make her happy
#13
There isn't really a way. I your parents found out, they'd flip, I'd imagine, because not only did you do something they asked you not to, but you did it behind their backs.

If your a Christian, then I just want to remind you that (btw, I'm a Christian too!) we should be obeying our parents and respecting their wishes. Trust me, I understand how frustrating this is, I wasn't allowed to date til I was 16 (18 months later and still no Bf but that's another story) and there was a guy I really liked when I was around 14-15. Just try and remember that they have your best interests at heart, they're not trying to make your life a misery.

Maybe prove your maturity in some way to convince them?
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#14
just date her anyways legally they can't do anything to you
#16
tell them you're gay.
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Ur in a bit of a pickle my friend. Just date the girl. Atleast ur not gay.



Hahah lmao

But anyways... do a group date with some people... then take her out alone a few times after. that..

Question.. why cant u just ask your parents you use the car and pick her up.. how would they know?

Besides what would jesus do.. he would just go and grab that ****
#19
ok, i have almost the same problem as u.
just my parents arent christian and i havent talked to them about it.
basically what i did was do it behind my parents back, i always tell them im out with guy mates.
oh, and my parents h8 it wen i talk to girls in general, doesnt have to be a girlfriend so it needs to be guy mates for me.
There is more than one thing i have to say...
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Ur in a bit of a pickle my friend. Just date the girl. Atleast ur not gay.


hehe

lol dude it's ur life, in 50 years time r u gonna be happily married with that girl for 45 years, or look back at that time and think "now I've lost everyone, including her, my dead parents, and all my friends"? I'd go for her. In some time when you live away, it ain't gonna matter what your parents said. If teenage dating was really that bad, Earth would've been a literal piece of crap (not denying the fact that it is, but just saying.....)
anyway, GO FOR IT in my opinion.
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#21
like i said. tell them your gay.
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#22
Just date her.
Piss your parents off, they deserve it for being so damn restrictive.
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#23
My brother's 14, Christian, and has a girlfriend. I see no problem.
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#24
Just go for it, if they try stopping you, shoot the place up, highschool style.
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#25
Ask her out, but tell your parents your just really good friends.
If they say you can't have friends who are girls, tell them your going to be gay.
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how would i be able to go to the movies with a girl and go to dinner with her and say she's not my girlfriend?
not being mean i just wanna know if there is a serious way



well im pretty sure that when youd go to the movies with her, you wouldnt have your parent go with you guys, just don't hang out with her when youre with your parents.
And dont tell your parents that you have a gf.
and if ur with her and ur parents ask u who are you with just say ur with your friend.

and about rides to places, just ask one of your friends,
youre in high school
im pretty sure sumone you know drives
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If your a Christian, then I just want to remind you that (btw, I'm a Christian too!) we should be obeying our parents and respecting their wishes. Trust me, I understand how frustrating this is, I wasn't allowed to date til I was 16 (18 months later and still no Bf but that's another story) and there was a guy I really liked when I was around 14-15. Just try and remember that they have your best interests at heart, they're not trying to make your life a misery.

Maybe prove your maturity in some way to convince them?


**** that! Rebel! You like this girl, she likes you, so why aren't you taking her to the cinema already?
#28
Tell them that if they try to interfere that you'll kill the girl and yourself.


...Or read them the Songs of Solomon (the most explicit book in the bible!). That should convince them.
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#29
Go out with her bro, and if your parents catch you guys doing anything bad(paticulary blowjobs)just say she was on her knees for jesus.
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Go out with her bro, and if your parents catch you guys doing anything bad(paticulary blowjobs)just say she was on her knees for jesus.

I read that as "Go out with her bro" as in her brother, man I'm tired.
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go for it.

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#33
Ok, here's what you do. Record at least 4 hours of you praying on an audio format. Then, when supper time roles around, offer to say grace. When they've bowed their heads and closed their eyes you press play and sneak out. Now you're free to enjoy some time with your lady friend.


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#34
Cconvince them that UG is god. Then get us to say we approve of you going out wit her.

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#35
Or say God doesn't exist and run out of the house Napolean Dynamite style...

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#36
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Just go for it, if they try stopping you, shoot the place up, highschool style.



LOL @ that......that is soooo wrong.
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lol dude it's ur life, in 50 years time r u gonna be happily married with that girl for 45 years, or look back at that time and think "now I've lost everyone, including her, my dead parents, and all my friends"? I'd go for her. In some time when you live away, it ain't gonna matter what your parents said. If teenage dating was really that bad, Earth would've been a literal piece of crap (not denying the fact that it is, but just saying.....)
anyway, GO FOR IT in my opinion.


WTF? In 50 years time, heck in 10 years time the TS is probably going to be looking back and thinking 'man, I was a punk, I should have been more appreciative of my parents. After all, they truly loved me way more than some 16 year old girl.'

Don't start **** with your parents. You'll be able to be your own man when you move out, and get a better perspective on life.
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#38
have you asked why they don't approve?
try to come up with a comprimise like ask them to meet her or something. if they trust her it might help.
at the end of the day it's your life.
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