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If your girlfriend was pregnant and was going to get an abortion no matter what you said or wanted because of some reason. Would you NOT want to know she got one, or would you rather her tell you even though you had no say?
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i dunno
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If your girlfriend was pregnant and was going to get an abortion no matter what you said or wanted because of some reason. Would you want to know she got one, or would you rather her tell you even though you had no say?

Aren't those two things the same option?

I guess I choose the first...
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Don't understand the question. Rephrase!
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Aren't those two things the same option?

I guess I choose the first...


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I would probably notice within time if she had an abortion or not.
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#9
How could a person not find out?

If there's no baby and she's not preggo any more, she probably aborted it.


I think it should always be the female's decision, BTW.
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#10
rephrase, would you want to know or not?

(no i havent had an abortion)

EDIT: she doesnt have to tell you she is pregnant before hand and you proble wouldnt ever know
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How could a person not find out?

If there's no baby and she's not preggo any more, she probably aborted it.


I think it should always be the female's decision, BTW.

**** no.... 2 people to make it... so its a wo person desision,,, if the didnt want to take care of it i would leave her ass and raise him/her/ heshe myself haha
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I would probably notice within time if she had an abortion or not.


+1, it's kinda hard not to miss...
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you never know..... it could have been the next einstein or jimmy page for that matter.....
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+1, it's kinda hard not to miss...


Not in the first trimester or so, physically, a pregnancy can be well hidden for a fair while.

On topic, I'd rather know, and I'd hope to be part of the decision. I'd be mortified if I found out I was going to be a dad, then told immediately that the child had been aborted.
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I would want to know. Then again, I would honestly want her to get an abortion. I'm 17 and a kid right now would pretty much ruin my entire life.
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you never know..... it could have been the next einstein or jimmy page for that matter.....

Or the next mass murderer...

Of course I'd want her to tell me.
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I would want to know. Then again, I would honestly want her to get an abortion. I'm 17 and a kid right now would pretty much ruin my entire life.

there is such a thing called adoption.... yo ****ers piss me off
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there is such a thing called adoption.... yo ****ers piss me off

And risk the life of a teenage girl(depending on how old you are) and make her drop out of school etc.
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I'd want to know. But I wouldn't want the girl to get an abortion, even though I'm only 18.


Btw, what's up with the thread title? "This is one for the guys" - yeah, because all the other threads in the pit are so girl-friendly
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I would know. I'd be the one to abort the baby myself... gladly. There's nothing I like more than bloody fetuses.

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And risk the life of a teenage girl(depending on how old you are) and make her drop out of school etc.

Imagine how many of those you kill everytime you touch yourself

she dosent have to drop out.... plenty of girls have kids in high school.. and not only that raise them also... and as for risking there life... there is plenty of young girls who pop a kid out and still are fine....your instantly killing one by abortion...
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there is such a thing called adoption.... yo ****ers piss me off

Until you can find homes for all those adoptive kids, it isn't a practical solution.
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Until you can find homes for all those adoptive kids, it isn't a practical solution.

okay so just offing them is?
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I'd want to know. But I wouldn't want the girl to get an abortion, even though I'm only 18.


Btw, what's up with the thread title? "This is one for the guys" - yeah, because all the other threads in the pit are so girl-friendly



well girls cant really answer, they would kinda have to know.

and i made this because i found out not to long ago that my mom got an abortion about a year before she had my sister, and no matter what my dad said she didnt think they were ready and it haunts him. He says he would rather have not known at all. i wanted to know if other people thought the same. cause i myself(if i were a guy) would want to know.
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I would let it have it done, but I certainly wouldn't let her tell me if she was or not.
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she dosent have to drop out.... plenty of girls have kids in high school.. and not only that raise them also... and as for risking there life... there is plenty of young girls who pop a kid out and still are fine....your instantly killing one by abortion...


Let's not bring up the abortion debate. The fact is that women who want it will get abortions regardless of any legislation made. Personally, I would rather the women of the U.S. be able to have abortions in safe conditions in hospitals under government jurisdiction, as opposed to in back alleys at monumental risk to the woman's life.

And don't bring religion into this either, saying "we're interfering with God's plan." If God has a plan, and the baby in this plan is aborted, then this proves the fallibility of God, hence it is impossible based on your beliefs.
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okay so just offing them is?

Yes.
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How could a person not find out?

If there's no baby and she's not preggo any more, she probably aborted it.


I think it should always be the female's decision, BTW.
1 - If she never told you she was preggers in the first place, then you would never know.

2 - In many countries it is the female's decision, but that doesn't mean she can't take the male's thoughts about it into consideration while making her decision.

3 - The original question is a tough one. Would you want to know about a decision you have no choice in? I really don't know.
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Let's not bring up the abortion debate. The fact is that women who want it will get abortions regardless of any legislation made. Personally, I would rather the women of the U.S. be able to have abortions in safe conditions in hospitals under government jurisdiction, as opposed to in back alleys at monumental risk to the woman's life.

And don't bring religion into this either, saying "we're interfering with God's plan." If God has a plan, and the baby in this plan is aborted, then this proves the fallibility of God, hence it is impossible based on your beliefs.


yes, thank you this is really just a question of would you want to know, not do you think its right. to have it done at all.
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okay so just offing them is?


I have a friend whose mother was on crack cocaine and all sorts of other drugs when she was born. She has had issues her entire life, and now she has to take all sorts of drugs because of various medical issues she has now. She will probably lose all use from her arms within the next 10-15 years, and this is quite hampering on her aspired career as an artist/interior designer... Would you rather raise a child to suffer their entire life because of your mistakes?
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Let's not bring up the abortion debate. The fact is that women who want it will get abortions regardless of any legislation made. Personally, I would rather the women of the U.S. be able to have abortions in safe conditions in hospitals under government jurisdiction, as opposed to in back alleys at monumental risk to the woman's life.

And don't bring religion into this either, saying "we're interfering with God's plan." If God has a plan, and the baby in this plan is aborted, then this proves the fallibility of God, hence it is impossible based on your beliefs.

i never said **** about religion you said that...... well someone who was adopted saved my life so i wouldnt be here if he would have been aborted.... but im done arguin your right wrong thread for that
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i never said **** about religion you said that...... well someone who was adopted saved my life so i wouldnt be here if he would have been aborted.... but im done arguin your right wrong thread for that


I know that. I was being proactive, as every person I know who is pro-life uses nothing but religion in their debate, which I absolutely despise.
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2 - In many countries it is the female's decision, but that doesn't mean she can't take the male's thoughts about it into consideration while making her decision.

3 - The original question is a tough one. Would you want to know about a decision you have no choice in? I really don't know.

2 - Where does the man have a say in the decision??

3 - I'd want to know because I'm given the option to discuss it in this thread. If I was never told, and never found out - well, ignorance is bliss.


Abortion isn't even legal in Ireland, girls go over to the UK for that.
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To answer the original question, I'd probably want her to be truthful. Even though I wouldn't agree with her decision, I'd still want her to be truthful.
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