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#1
According to research, boys are more open to welcoming someone new into their circle of friends compared to girls.

What's your thought on that?

Does it have something to do with the emotional needs of males and females or are girls just really hard to trust?


I, for one, am not so fond of making friends with girls. I have girl friends but I'm closer to guys simply because I feel more assured that they won't talk about me behind my back and what I see is what I get. I hate to generalize but, sadly, most girls can be so insecure that it's mean.
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#2
Yep makes sense.
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#3
probably because females bond over emotionalmatters while men bondover hard work. therefore its possible for males to have many friendsin a work place, while a women may rarely see work mates outside working hours.
#4
i guess, girls are usually only d1cks to other girls. i dont like hanging out with girls as friends though because all they do is complain or talk about how vulgar and perverted boys are. it's really annoying.
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#5
To be friends with a guy you must...
1. have boobs or
2. be cool

To be friends with a girl you must...

Like the same clothes
Like the same celebrities
Listen to the same music
Go to the same parties
Hate the same people
Know certain people
Like certain guys
etc.

They're just really complicated as we all already know. Another reason why girls suck but are awesome.
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#7
Girls are bitches. They just can't seem to get along with each other unless it's their like best friend or something.
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#8
ya i've seen some girls be really mean for no reason to other less popular girls. they way they stare, they judge u so much.

Girls can be really mean by pretending to be nice also.

if fact i would say some girls are meaner then guys. i mean guys just beat the crap out of each other, girls make sure u suffer emotionally over extended periods. plus they do it in a passive aggressive way
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#9
I disagree with you guys, I feel you've got the typical preppy girl in all your minds. I'm friends with tons of girls and Im nothing like them at all
#10
Man so many of the girls i went to high school with were all conniving bitches that were just plain bitches to each other.
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ya i've seen some girls be really mean for no reason to other less popular girls. they way they stare, they judge u so much.


but that's exactly how Guys act as well and its worst because they ARE straight up about it and would go outta their ways to make your day awful. When i was picked on, you don't think the guys in the back of the room, pickin an eraser apart for throwing ammo arent smirking and talking about how worthless a person they find you to be ?
#12
but that's exactly how Guys act as well and its worst because they ARE straight up about it and would go outta their ways to make your day awful. When i was picked on, you don't think the guys in the back of the room, pickin an eraser apart for throwing ammo arent smirking and talking about how worthless a person they find you to be ?


Well if you're a girl then you're wrong. Guys just do that **** because 1) it's fun 2) we're bored. We don't really say anything like "let's throw eraser bits at that hoe over there cuz she's a worthless piece of meat" or anything. Not even close. Guys will just say, "let's throw eraser bits around for fun."
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#13
These are the same girls that are "mature faster than guys" right?
#14
Well, if you have a 'circle' o friends, then in order for everyone to accept them they have to be liked by everyone in the 'circle'

Admittedly I do have a circle of friends. Infact I have more than 1.
But I also have lots of other friends outside the 'circles' I love meeting new people, when I make new friends they get added onto to an 'extended circle' if you like. Yes some groups of friends are less welcoming to new people than others but we give everyone a chance.

Its just the way things are, I admit I can be a bitch and its not a good thing to be so cliquey. It's not like its going to change. My performance studies class are terrible clique-y and the sniping comments that go around are group are horrible, some don't even try and be nice for the sake of just getting things done.
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Well if you're a girl then you're wrong. Guys just do that **** because 1) it's fun 2) we're bored. We don't really say anything like "let's throw eraser bits at that hoe over there cuz she's a worthless piece of meat" or anything. Not even close. Guys will just say, "let's throw eraser bits around for fun."

Im a guy. and yeah it was for fun, but not the good kind of fun, this is the bully kind of fun.

I have about exactly an equal amount of girl AND guy friends, im just stickin up for them with what I know from experience
#18
Its a well known fact that girls are mean to each other. they gugde alot and they hurt you badly if you hurt them emotionally . I know this one woman ( she is my sisters friend ) who tried to kill her husband coz he comes home late, but thanks God they took him to the hospital very fast.
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ya i've seen some girls be really mean for no reason to other less popular girls. they way they stare, they judge u so much.

Girls can be really mean by pretending to be nice also.

if fact i would say some girls are meaner then guys. i mean guys just beat the crap out of each other, girls make sure u suffer emotionally over extended periods. plus they do it in a passive aggressive way


That's what pisses me off. With guys, you settle something in a straightforward way. With girls you get the backstabbing, the "leaving you out", and all the psycho way they attack you.

I'm sure not all girls are like that but there's that age when they [we] depend too much on friends that it's not healthy anymore because it closes their minds to other people.
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Its a well known fact that girls are mean to each other. they gugde alot and they hurt you badly if you hurt them emotionally . I know this one woman ( she is my sisters friend ) who tried to kill her husband coz he comes home late, but thanks God they took him to the hospital very fast.

who what the hell happened ?
#22
Dunno about you guys, but when i moved the first people to talk to me were women... many, and most pretty good looking as well .

Edit:

When I first went to highschool, there were two schools teaching grades 1-7 then the highschool which was 8-12, the first people from the other school I met were also women. In grade 8 I was good friends with many of the girls from the other school but not so many guys. In grade 9 though I became really good friends with the guys as well.
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#23
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but that's exactly how Guys act as well and its worst because they ARE straight up about it and would go outta their ways to make your day awful. When i was picked on, you don't think the guys in the back of the room, pickin an eraser apart for throwing ammo arent smirking and talking about how worthless a person they find you to be ?


nah, guys will give a new guy(or girl) a chance after they meet him. if he's a fag and blows it then we might make fun of him a bit or alot. we rarely dis people we don't like to there face. if were dissin each other half the time were jokin around. usually if we really have a problem we'll settle it physically.

btw this refers to most guys. same with the girls. there are always exeptions

and ya guys throw stuff at each other all the time. its fun as hell.
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#24
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Dunno about you guys, but when i moved the first people to talk to me were women... many, and most pretty good looking as well .

Well yeah, they can either be the nicest or the meanest. It depends on what time of the month you catch them on.
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but that's exactly how Guys act as well and its worst because they ARE straight up about it and would go outta their ways to make your day awful. When i was picked on, you don't think the guys in the back of the room, pickin an eraser apart for throwing ammo arent smirking and talking about how worthless a person they find you to be ?


It's an eraser, suck it up. Nobody's talking about how worthless you are, it's just fun to see the reaction. We throw **** at our friends, too.
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#27
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To be friends with a guy you must...
1. have boobs or
2. be cool

To be friends with a girl you must...

Like the same clothes
Like the same celebrities
Listen to the same music
Go to the same parties
Hate the same people
Know certain people
Like certain guys
etc.

They're just really complicated as we all already know. Another reason why girls suck but are awesome.

ummm. not really. I'm a girl, and I have friends that I have NOTHING in common with (besides the fact that we are both girls). I do see what you're saying though, and some girls can definetly be like that, but don't sterotype and put all of us in that category.
#28
I'm a girl, I don't have a clique. I sit with smart people, i sit with geeky people, i sit with nerdy people, i sit with musos. pretty much i sit with the brains and outcasts of the school. There are 5 groups i alternate between 2 all girl group, 2 mixed and one male. and i don't see many problems with bitching among these groups. of course there are some personality clashes, but thats to be expected
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#29
I'm a girl and switched "clique" not too long ago. No one cared. Everyone in school mills about with whoever they feel like. There's the groups but it's not OMG IM NOT TALKING TO HER! or anything.

It was all like that in junior school but every one has wised up since then.
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It's an eraser, suck it up. Nobody's talking about how worthless you are, it's just fun to see the reaction. We throw **** at our friends, too.

Why does everyone assume im a chick for arguing in favor of them ?


but for the record, insults and projectiles are the least (or maybe most) you can do inside the classroom where direct physical bullying is a bad idea. I had to fight my way out of the first two years of highschool PRETTY bad usually against more than one opponent untill I started working out so much I was able to easily hold my ground.

i throw things at my friends too, but when I do we BOTH know im kidding around, these guys never did anything without malice. So understand where Im coming from when i look back and think

''times ive had male enemies and bullies when i was small and unpopular : ALOT

vs

times ive had female enemies : none, ever in my life''
#31
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who what the hell happened ?


She tried to poison him.

another woman in Egypt killed her husband ant cocked him then she ate him, but I dont think that woman was normal. I mean after all girls are sweet, they dont do that **** normaly. or do they!!
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Why does everyone assume im a chick for arguing in favor of them ?


but for the record, insults and projectiles are the least (or maybe most) you can do inside the classroom where direct physical bullying is a bad idea. I had to fight my way out of the first two years of highschool PRETTY bad usually against more than one opponent untill I started working out so much I was able to easily hold my ground.

i throw things at my friends too, but when I do we BOTH know im kidding around, these guys never did anything without malice. So understand where Im coming from when i look back and think

''times ive had male enemies and bullies when i was small and unpopular : ALOT

vs

times ive had female enemies : none, ever in my life''

What makes you think I assumed you were a girl? Nothing in my post lends to that at all, and when I made it, I was thinking you were a guy.
Edit: I get it now, but by "we" I meant the guys who throw stuff from the back of the room.
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#33
Nobody really knows why, but female social etiquette seems to involve being a complete two-faced bitch. Seriously, the average "mainstream" girl has a social life like an episode of Eastenders.

This is why we have subcultures. Metal chicks are far more down to earth
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What makes you think I assumed you were a girl? Nothing in my post lends to that at all, and when I made it, I was thinking you were a guy.

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#35
I've just come to accept that however nice or quiet a girl is, they will allways talk about people behind their backs.

There's nothing wrong with that- I do it too, but it is less common in guys that I know.
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#36
Yeh girls can be Difficult sometimes like that. I Hang out with like 4 different groups of people, and all of them have at least a few girls in them. And Most of the guys get along

but the girls...Well, thats why there is 4 different groups.

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#37
I think people on here overuse stereotypes...
but cliques are usually quite strong with both boys and girls.. and i mix between all the boy cliques
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"You Ugly git!" - That girl in the restaurant

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#38
yeah another thing is that while we accuse girls of talking behind peoples back, and they SURE do it alright, we do it too... as much and to that degree ? I can't be sure... otherwise it wouldn't be ''backtalk'' now would it :P
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yeah another thing is that while we accuse girls of talking behind peoples back, and they SURE do it alright, we do it too... as much and to that degree ? I can't be sure... otherwise it wouldn't be ''backtalk'' now would it :P

We talk about what they said behind our backs, behind their backs.
#40
I would have to agree. I'm a girl and though I do have a lot of friends who are girls, I prefer to hang out with my guy friends. I think the guys are more down to earth then the girls and they are easier for me to get along with too. The girls seem to complain non stop and always have a problem, where the boys just blow everything over and have a good time whatever the situation. Plus, the girls don't have any appreciation for music when my guy friends do. Everyone is different though, but I prefer to be on the peaceful side of life and joking around 24/7 then hear someone complain how rodney broke up with susan.
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