#1
I have been friends with this guy for 3 years and I want to be more than his friend....But i am afraid to tell him because I dont want to lose him as a friend......What should I do........I need your advice PIT!!!!!

Please be kind.....no cruel advice.

What he is like: HE is caring, loyal, respectful overall a pretty awesome guy!
Last edited by Ramos05 at Apr 12, 2008,
#2
Why would you lose him as a friend?

The easiest way is to gradually let him know that you like him. Drop hints for a while...eventually tell him you kinda' like him. See where it goes. He won't pick up on the hints, by the way..it's a subconscious thing. That's a pretty standard method.

It'll be easier to answer if we know what he's like...
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#3
Holy balls. The tables have turned for once. A girl.... asking for advice about a guy?

Just do it. He will say yes.
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#5
i say go for it and flat out tell him. you'll regret it forever if you don't, or if you waste too much time trying to get him to realize it.


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#8
flirt!!!
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#9
Step 1: Dont ask the pit.

Step 2: Tell him.

Step 3: Internet won.
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#11
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What he is like: HE is caring, loyal, respectful overall a pretty awesome guy!


Nice guy then? I agree with the others...go for it. It's not like he's going to be mad.

Just make sure you act like yourself...even if that means you're so nervous you can barely talk.

Good luck!
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Last edited by Mutant Corn at Apr 12, 2008,
#12
Are you hot? If so, there's at least an 80% that he's into you. So just tell him how you feel. Even if you aren't super foxy, he's still probably into you. Guys are really simple. I've never had a female friend who (even though I really value their friendship) I wouldn't date if they wanted to.
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#13
^ you know...some guys aren't like that. The stereotype exists because the ones that care about boobs are also the ones that stand out. If this guy is as nice as she makes him out to be, he won't really care.
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^ you know...some guys aren't like that. The stereotype exists because the ones that care about boobs are also the ones that stand out. If this guy is as nice as she makes him out to be, he won't really care.


3 things

A. I don't remember saying anything about boobs
2. I was halfway joking
C. I seem to recall saying that there's a very good chance he likes her no matter what she looks like.
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#16
friendzoned.

god, are even the girls on UG socially awkward? we truly are a scruffy bunch here guys.
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#17
^ true dat

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3 things

A. I don't remember saying anything about boobs
2. I was halfway joking
C. I seem to recall saying that there's a very good chance he likes her no matter what she looks like.


ah...alrighty then
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friendzoned.

god, are even the girls on UG socially awkward? we truly are a scruffy bunch here guys.


More like friendzowned. Bahaha I couldn't help myself.
#19
Ah ahaha aha..oh man at first i thought this was a Homosexual question. Couldn't tell wether TS was a boy or girl after seeing so many desperate male guitarists . But anyway, yeah work it in, like hints and stuff, maybe be alittle more playful than usual.

After all this time he probably wants to see you naked quite bad inside so i don't think he'd decline and you would already know everything about each other etc.

Just don't let it happen then screw up and ruin the friendship all together!!!!!!!!!! For the love of Satan.
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#21
Most girls I have been friends with I would say yes if they asked me out.
#22
^true for most guys

I've known my girlfriend(of 3.5 years) since we were in elementary school....we're both 18 now.
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#23
wow, can't believe it, one whole page and everyone fails to mention there is a thread dedicated to stuff like this...

dw, friend zones aren't too hard to break out of for girls.
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#24
Relationship thread I guess, gogo :P

But yeah just tell him, forget the mindless flirting, if he's as cool as you think he won't get mad (as someone else said) and you might regret it if you don't say anything...

So just be upfront about it and see what happens

good luck!
#25
Tell him, seriously. Guys hate it when girls piss about with 'dropping hints' and crap like that.
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#27
It's best if you be very blunt with him. I've dropped hints with guys and it just doesn't work that well. Be straight up and things will work out.
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Pics, TS?
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haha i was going to do the same thing...
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#32
TS, don't worry about the fact of you being friends, it could be more if he cares for you a lot.

When in doubt, just let him know anyway, and if he's a good friend but doesn't feel that way then he'll just accept it and keep things how they were.

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#33
Are you serious? Geez, just drop your pants.

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