Poll: Which one?
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View poll results: Which one?
Sex
13 31%
Feelings... no sex
3 7%
Just love... no sex
26 62%
Voters: 42.
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#1
In a relationship, does sex mean it all to you? I believe that there is more to a relationship that just sex. I also believe that if you are going to ask a girl out, don't do it just because of her looks. There's more to it than just the physical part. Although, that is how it starts, with the looks, cause you can't see a girl's personality. I vote for love. TOTALLY
#3
I agree with you, completely. I haven't been in too many relationships (small school, not much choice) but sex has never been a priority. In fact just listening to people bragging about how they made out with so and so girl just makes me think how pathetic they are. Actually, I think once you get to know someone, if they've got a beautiful personality, you'll start to find them physically more beautiful as well.
#4
Quote by dark&broken
I agree with you, completely. I haven't been in too many relationships (small school, not much choice) but sex has never been a priority. In fact just listening to people bragging about how they made out with so and so girl just makes me think how pathetic they are. Actually, I think once you get to know someone, if they've got a beautiful personality, you'll start to find them physically more beautiful as well.


Virgin.

Where did peacefrogs post go, i thought that was funny
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#5
The poll questions are abit unfair aren't they? Sex or no sex? I think its a mixture of the 3 to be honest.
#6
Quote by dark&broken
I agree with you, completely. I haven't been in too many relationships (small school, not much choice) but sex has never been a priority. In fact just listening to people bragging about how they made out with so and so girl just makes me think how pathetic they are. Actually, I think once you get to know someone, if they've got a beautiful personality, you'll start to find them physically more beautiful as well.


+1
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#7
Honestly, for me, I rank just cuddling with a girl up there. Sex would be nice, but im not too concerned about it.
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I voted 9, cause I would only let my mum give me a handjob...

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#9
I hate when people ask out women before they even know them. Why not hang out with them first? Maybe you won't even have to ask them out, sometimes things just smoothly go your way.

Also I hate Freshman drama/bull****. I'm sick of overheard slutty bitches talking about who has ****ed who or who has gave who a blowjob. Who the **** cares? Can't bitches mind their own business.
#11
Quote by dark&broken
I agree with you, completely. I haven't been in too many relationships (small school, not much choice) but sex has never been a priority. In fact just listening to people bragging about how they made out with so and so girl just makes me think how pathetic they are. Actually, I think once you get to know someone, if they've got a beautiful personality, you'll start to find them physically more beautiful as well.

totally +1
#12
Quote by rigiddigits
Lol at your poll options. Why aren't we allowed sex and feelings at the same time?!


Because apparently sex and emotion have absolutely nothing to do with each other.
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#13
Quote by SathiaSun
Honestly, for me, I rank just cuddling with a girl up there. Sex would be nice, but im not too concerned about it.

+1
#16
Quote by aaron6890
no sex, you should really get to know someone before getting physically involved, hell if you meet the right girl, i could see never doing it. well thats an over statement, but you get what i mean, you shouldnt make a relation ship off of it, im waiting till marriage.


Christian.

Sex brings you closer to a person emotionally and physically more than most other activities. It should be part of getting to know someone, not something you do after.
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#17
Quote by aaron6890
no sex, you should really get to know someone before getting physically involved, hell if you meet the right girl, i could see never doing it. well thats an over statement, but you get what i mean, you shouldnt make a relation ship off of it, im waiting till marriage.

WHOA! DUDE +1 that is totally what I'll do
#19
Quote by dark&broken
I agree with you, completely. I haven't been in too many relationships (small school, not much choice) but sex has never been a priority. In fact just listening to people bragging about how they made out with so and so girl just makes me think how pathetic they are. Actually, I think once you get to know someone, if they've got a beautiful personality, you'll start to find them physically more beautiful as well.


I completely agree with you dude. I always thought this girl I know was hot, but I've hung out with her a bit lately and I don't even know how to explain this feeling I have. I feel like I can never be attracted to another girl other then her. Or rather, I feel like I've never been attracted to a girl before I met her. It's so weird but since I got this feeling I haven't even though about watching porno or anything. The only thing I want is her. I just need to grow the balls to tell her how much I love her...
#20
Quote by SathiaSun
Honestly, for me, I rank just cuddling with a girl up there. Sex would be nice, but im not too concerned about it.


+ mobius strip. I could cuddle for at least an hour without even having to talk and be as happy as ever.
#21
Quote by BrutalCabbage
Christian.

Sex brings you closer to a person emotionally and physically more than most other activities. It should be part of getting to know someone, not something you do after.

Christian? So what? I don't consider myself a full Christian because even though I believe, sometimes I curse. BTW I will do the same: wait till marriage
#22
Quote by PTfan
I completely agree with you dude. I always thought this girl I know was hot, but I've hung out with her a bit lately and I don't even know how to explain this feeling I have. I feel like I can never be attracted to another girl other then her. Or rather, I feel like I've never been attracted to a girl before I met her. It's so weird but since I got this feeling I haven't even though about watching porno or anything. The only thing I want is her. I just need to grow the balls to tell her how much I love her...


Ya... getting it out is always the fun part... I really hope you get the right meaning out of that...
#23
I believe that love is of the utmost importance in a relationship.

That being said, if you love your partner, let there be wonderful sex.
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#24
I've had relationships with all sex and no love and relationships with all love and no sex. Which do you think was more fun?
#25
Quote by BrutalCabbage
Sex brings you closer to a person emotionally and physically more than most other activities. It should be part of getting to know someone, not something you do after.


Yes.

I think age has a lot to do with your opinions on this. The sooner people stop seeing sex as a purely physical act the sooner they will have more fulfilling and balanced relationships.
#26
Quote by dark&broken
Ya... getting it out is always the fun part... I really hope you get the right meaning out of that...


^^ Haha well i don't think it should be that hard, The only problem is she has a boyfriend so I can't start a real relationship with her until they break up.
#27
Quote by streetlegal08
Christian? So what? I don't consider myself a full Christian because even though I believe, sometimes I curse. BTW I will do the same: wait till marriage


But why wait till marriage?
If you love someone enough, why does some silly ritual have to be performed before you can have sex?
You're putting sex on this tall pedestal that it doesn't need to be on.
All it is is sex, its not some amazing godly experience.

Like I said, if your going to spend the rest of your life with someone, you should know them in all ways. Even sexually.
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#29
^ I agree with you man. I myself am actually not really planning on ever getting married. Well maybe I'll get married, but as of right now I have no intention of having children. I actually think not having children would be doing this world a huge favor. If people keep having so many, there will soon be a limit on child bearing all over the world...
#30
Quote by PTfan
^^ Haha well i don't think it should be that hard, The only problem is she has a boyfriend so I can't start a real relationship with her until they break up.


This may be venturing into relationship thread territory, but in that case, I'd suggest avoiding trying to influence a break up, and even then, wait a little after. You don't want to seem like you've just been waiting for them to split so you can jump in.
#31
Quote by PTfan
^^ Haha well i don't think it should be that hard, The only problem is she has a boyfriend so I can't start a real relationship with her until they break up.

:/
been there
more power to ya
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#32
It depends if her family has adequate land to be transferred to me through marriage. If her knitting is of fine quality and texture.
Last edited by ThePeacefrog at Apr 14, 2008,
#33
Quote by BrutalCabbage
But why wait till marriage?
If you love someone enough, why does some silly ritual have to be performed before you can have sex?
You're putting sex on this tall pedestal that it doesn't need to be on.
All it is is sex, its not some amazing godly experience.


^^ Exactly. If you wait til after you're married it means you don't fully know the person you are committing to spending the rest of your life with, so you're missing the point of doing it.

Correct me if I'm wrong but excluding me I think this is an all-male thread. Would be nice to get some girls' opinions on what is obviously a contentious issue?
#34
Quote by ThePeacefrog
Fine. It depends if her family has adequate land to be transferred to me through marriage. If her knitting is of fine quality and texture.


not as funny anymore
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#35
Quote by BrutalCabbage
not as funny anymore

Thats why I took it out. I said to myself ehhhh. But you said my name. So.
#36
Quote by ThePeacefrog
Thats why I took it out. I said to myself ehhhh. But you said my name. So.


well i laughed when you first said it
but now it sounds like you were forced to say it
and it wasn't as funny
it was funnier when it was the first post
go back and put it there
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brutal cabbage you sire are, in all sense of the word, a LEGEND no abbreviation can portray the hilarity of what u hav bequeathed to us, i love you for this


I am loved!
#39
Quote by rigiddigits

Correct me if I'm wrong but excluding me I think this is an all-male thread. Would be nice to get some girls' opinions on what is obviously a contentious issue?


This is the Pit... Not too many girls to begin with. At least not compared to the amount of guys.
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