#1
Two things;

Can I permanently tighten my whammy bar so it doesn't come loose after a while?

And what did Dimebag used to put on his pickups to stop the strings from sticking?
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#2
A bit of threadlocker on the nut behind the arm holder should do it. Do you mean the arm wobbles in the holder? As in you can move it a small amount without the pitch changing?

And strings shouldn't be sticking to pickups...
#3
He stuck electrical tape on each side of the bridge pickup. This stopped the strings being caught under the pickups when divebombing.
#5
A bit of threadlocker on the nut behind the arm holder should do it. Do you mean the arm wobbles in the holder? As in you can move it a small amount without the pitch changing?

No, the actual bar becomes really loose and swings around too much for my liking.

And strings shouldn't be sticking to pickups...

Why not? it's metal near a magnet. Of course, this only happens when I dump the bar right down, but it's awkward for playing Mattias Eklundh-esque harmonics when I only want the B string to ring out, and the low E does as well.
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