Poll: Should I do her, or not?
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Yes
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Voters: 46.
#1
I know this probably belongs in the relationship thread. But, it also branches into other threads, so i just figured it could have its own. If the mods disagree, I can take it down np.

So, essentially, I met this girl last weekend. We talked a bit through email, and decided to go out a bit. So, today, we went to a movie, and it was our first date together. Now, let me point out a few things. For one, this isn't the first girl I've been with. However, I'm the first guy she has ever been with. So, we get to the movie, and were the only ones there. After about 15 min of previews, she leans over and kisses me. This isn't my first kiss, but its the first time a girl has kissed me before I kissed her first. So whatever. So we make out a bit, for like a half hour, and then she takes my hand, and puts it down her shirt, and places it onto her breasts. Now, obviously, Im loving it. The rest of the movie is pretty uneventful, and thats the farthest we went. So, then, we kinda stayed in the theater until the cleaners kicked us out. She then basically implied that she wants to have sex. We are both virgins. Now, I really want too, but there are some slight issues...

1. We are both 14. I am almost 15 (2 months), but she isn't even close.
2. Here parents don't know I exist, let alone that I am dating their daughter.

So, basically, can UG help me?

Should we do it?
What about her parents?

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Last edited by silhouettica at Apr 25, 2008,
#2
Quote by silhouettica
I know this probably belongs in the relationship thread.

i know, ill go take it there!
fixed.
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I have no opinion on this matter.
#3
no one worth being with is that easy. something must be wrong with her. remember - if its too good to be true, then it probably is.

and 14 is probably a little early anyways
#4
Should probably go in the sex thread if anything.

I'd say it's way too soon. You're not sure of it, so you probably shouldn't.
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#5
don't cause you will regret it. wait until you're in a serious relationship. it's more rewarding and you'll enjoy it more because you love that person.
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#6
if you feel like its not wrong, then do it. i dont mean its wrong, but its quite early though.
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#7
Quote by valentinezxifax
don't cause you will regret it. wait until you're in a serious relationship. it's more rewarding and you'll enjoy it more because you love that person.


truer words never spoken
#9
Quote by RevaM1ssP1ss
Should probably go in the sex thread if anything.

I'd say it's way too soon. You're not sure of it, so you probably shouldn't.

^ this. If you have to ask the pit you're not that bothered.
#11
d00d just d00 her. no i agree if shes that easy then there is a problem esp. at 14

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Quote by InvaderTSN
Better yet. "My arm is tired, could I put it in between your legs so I can sexually violate you during the movie?"
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lets watch this thread die like i should have on page 1
#13
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And now I'm wondering why my life can't be like this.


to be fair, its not normally like this
My Old Progressive Metal Band:
Acrasia
For fans of Between The Buried and Me, Dream Theater, Cynic.

My New Progressive Rock/Djent Band:
Wings Denied
For fans of Deftones, Tesseract, Periphery, Karnivool, Cynic.
#14
Quote by valentinezxifax
don't cause you will regret it. wait until you're in a serious relationship. it's more rewarding and you'll enjoy it more because you love that person.
Sex in a serious relationship is better only because the person knows you better and has more invested in the relationship so is more concerned about your wants and needs.
#15
Quote by smb
Sex in a serious relationship is better only because the person knows you better and has more invested in the relationship so is more concerned about your wants and needs.


so is that a yes or no?...
My Old Progressive Metal Band:
Acrasia
For fans of Between The Buried and Me, Dream Theater, Cynic.

My New Progressive Rock/Djent Band:
Wings Denied
For fans of Deftones, Tesseract, Periphery, Karnivool, Cynic.
#17
Quote by synopsize
She probably has AIDS.


Shes a virgin
I said it in the first post...
My Old Progressive Metal Band:
Acrasia
For fans of Between The Buried and Me, Dream Theater, Cynic.

My New Progressive Rock/Djent Band:
Wings Denied
For fans of Deftones, Tesseract, Periphery, Karnivool, Cynic.
#18
pics or it didn't happen.

no srsly, go for it if you think its okay.
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#20
Do her.
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#21
Quote by silhouettica
Shes a virgin
I said it in the first post...


You can be a virgin and have AIDS

1) parents
2) blood contact

I swear AIDS joke can be pretty funny but sometime I think people have no idea what the hell it actually is. You aren't given AIDS. You're given HIV. Your immune system dies.

Sorry rant.
#23
Im 15 and my g/f and i started having sex and im not sure that i would reccomend it unless u know its emotionally fulfulling to be with her cause now all we do is have sex and she never wants to talk which is nice for a month or two but it gets boring. Do what you feel is right but keep that in mind, it can work out fine or it can show you that the relationship isnt gonna work and youll feel more committed to her feel less like leaving because of it.
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#24
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Shes a virgin
I said it in the first post...

she still could have aids

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Better yet. "My arm is tired, could I put it in between your legs so I can sexually violate you during the movie?"
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lets watch this thread die like i should have on page 1
#25
What Issues?
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#26
Due to the fact that you're asking the Pit, don't do it.

Your obviously not ready, or that old. I mean c'mon, if you wanted to have sex with her, would you be really be asking US?
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#27
i say just fool around , i mean you dont want to get her pregnant, and even if you do have a condom, it doesn't gurantee anything
#28
Quote by silhouettica
so is that a yes or no?...


Was the quote in your sig directed towards Claudio Sanchez, by any chance?


And no, you should wait. Oral if anything.
#29
Quote by Tire Me.
Was the quote in your sig directed towards Claudio Sanchez, by any chance?


And no, you should wait. Oral if anything.

oral CAN be better than sex neways

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Better yet. "My arm is tired, could I put it in between your legs so I can sexually violate you during the movie?"
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lets watch this thread die like i should have on page 1
#30
i was excited until you said you were both 14

Forget it man, come back in 2 years time when she has developed a 16 year old, uh, "personality"
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#31
14 year old kids meeting for the first time less than a week ago then suddenly are "dating" when one asks the other out. Then you take her to the movies (worst possible place for a first date) and she suddenly wants sex after a bit of groping, and she's never been with a guy before???

Holy shit, kids are stupid today. You have offended me to be part of your generation.