#1
Alright, so I have this guy i know, who, when I first met him, though was funny, and liked the same things i liked (back then, at 15, it was DBZ and computer games). I, however, moved on with my life, learned guitar and drums, and did things. he sat around in his mom's basement all day long, playing games and eating. He weighs 180 kg now, is 19 and has never so much as kissed a girl. He was very depressive because of this and was really into cutting, and i always felt I was one of the few things keeping him from doing something really bad.
He's a nice guy and everything, but he is socially very underdeveloped for his age. He does pretty much nothing except play games and watch TV, hasn't developed any of his talents and can't get his arse to the gym to lose weight (i even tried helping him with this, but he just started eating more after doing sports)
Anyway, he's lost pretty much all of his friends except me, but he is seriously grinding my nerves. I just can't take hearing his BS about how much a sad soul he is, how girls aren't able to look behind his weight and "see the wonderful person he is". I can't invite him to parties because he gets on other people's nerves.

I don't know anymore, UG... do I put up with him for the next couple of months till graduation? or should i just ignore him or say that i don't feel like talking with him about House or DBZ or FF for the gazillionth time over ICQ?

what do you think?
#2
I like your avy and title.

I'd just tell him that I'm not interested in talking about it. Personally, I'd still try to be his friend, though.
#9
**** man bad situation. I know people like that, you wanna hang out with them coz you feel sorry for them, but then they are just crap to be around. if you have more balls than i do, talk to him about it. try seeing him but not too often so it doesnt really get to you. i dunno what else to suggest good luck man!
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Quote by CoreysMonster
He has about 300 gigs worth

Well then I don't see how he has problems.
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#13
Serious talk with him, now.
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break him in half or rape him with a shovel
(the only two options)


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#15
weed. get him high and hell be too funny to care. get you high and ull be too high to care. both of you high....is probably too expensive. it would take a lot to get a 190KG guy high.
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#16
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Serious talk with him, now.



Dude, I've TRIED that. I've told him all he needs to do to make his life better is get his ass off of the couch and lose weight, join a club or summat to meet new people. he's so incredibly negative and expects someone to hold his hand through every step, not realising that people have their own crap to deal with.
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Quote by CoreysMonster
He has about 300 gigs worth


then why the F*** is he depressed? porn makes you happy, not suicidal.

be straight up with him. tell him that he has got to grow some f***ing balls and be a f***ing man. take the cheuvenistic route. tell him he can't run this world from his basement, and if he doesn't do his job, a woman will, and since we all know women are incompentent and turn everything they touch (except penises) into a massive cluster f***, his world, as bad as it is, will go to complete s*** unless he gets to the gym, gets a high-powered job and starts f***ing *****s.

this is the best advice anyone on this website will ever give you.
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then why the F*** is he depressed? porn makes you happy, not suicidal.

be straight up with him. tell him that he has got to grow some f***ing balls and be a f***ing man. take the cheuvenistic route. tell him he can't run this world from his basement, and if he doesn't do his job, a woman will, and since we all know women are incompentent and turn everything they touch (except penises) into a massive cluster f***, his world, as bad as it is, will go to complete s*** unless he gets to the gym, gets a high-powered job and starts f***ing *****s.

this is the best advice anyone on this website will ever give you.

No.

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Dude, I've TRIED that. I've told him all he needs to do to make his life better is get his ass off of the couch and lose weight, join a club or summat to meet new people. he's so incredibly negative and expects someone to hold his hand through every step, not realising that people have their own crap to deal with.

Hmm.. I don't know.
Have you been totally straight with him? Or would it make him more depressed?
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#20
start a band with him, he can play the cowbell every song needs more cowbell
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Hmm.. I don't know.
Have you been totally straight with him? Or would it make him more depressed?



I've told him that people are ALL superficial and that he needs to lose weight, especially if he wants a girl. And even moreso that he just needs to go out and DO something, but he never does and always makes stupid excuses ( my foot hurts, i'm sick, my toenails hurt etc..)
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I've told him that people are ALL superficial and that he needs to lose weight, especially if he wants a girl. And even moreso that he just needs to go out and DO something, but he never does and always makes stupid excuses ( my foot hurts, i'm sick, my toenails hurt etc..)

Do you think he chooses to be like this?
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