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WALL OF TEXT!! SUMMARY AT BOTTOM FOR LAZY GUYS.

To some of you this will sound silly and childish and you may picture as a 14 year emo kid who writes poetry and constantly seeks attention. Well I'm not. I'm 17, I like classic rock and I write the occasional rock n' roll song. And I think I'm obsessed with a girl.

I met her (Sarah) a year and a half ago. A day has not gone by without me thinking of her at some point. We spent a weekend together when we met but we lived 100 miles apart so I haven't seen her since except for photos she sent. We were writing letters to eachother, texting and chatting online for a year. It was just as friends cus we never saw eachother.

We lost contact after a year when she made it clear she didn't want to meet me at an Aerosmith concert. She just said we ought to go our seperate ways. So I was heartbroken. I realised I loved her more than I had previously thought. Weird, right? We never saw eachother, but that's just the way it felt.

I have had a couple of girlfriends since that one weekend but I never fell in love again.

I don't think this is a childish thing because I've seen and heard enough ****, I've work constantly in a very professional situation and I've had he crap beat out of me enough times to make me a mature person (I'm not a square, mind you, just mature).

I'm worried that I might be obsessed with this girl. I suppose I may have just needed to get it off my chest, it's pretty depressing, as some of you may know already. What do you think?

This is the Pit so I do expect a few silly responses.

SUMMARY:
Met a girl year and a half ago. Wrote to her and stayed in contact for a year.
She said we "should go our seperate ways" 6 months ago.
Me = heartbroken
Have thought about her everyday day since I met her.
Think I may have mental problem.
Discuss.
#4
Nope your just associated with bitch that lives down the street called LOVE
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#5
Move on
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#7
That's not a wall of text, took me like 15 seconds to go through!
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#9
it's natural for you to feel more attached when she distances herself


basically i got over the love of my life by getting ****ed out of my head every weekend and pulling as many random birds as possible ( i sound a shallow dick but it's how i dealt with it okay)

EDIT: also by showing total distain and loathing toard her she decided she did like me after all, yep chicks love being treated like crap
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#10
Relationship Thread, but I'd say your best bet is to write her a letter telling her how you feel. It'll get it off your chest, and who knows where it'll go?
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it's natural for you to feel more attached when she distances herself


basically i got over the love of my life by getting ****ed out of my head every weekend and pulling as many random birds as possible ( i sound a shallow dick but it's how i dealt with it okay)


I thought that was how you're meant to do it
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Relationship Thread, but I'd say your best bet is to write her a letter telling her how you feel. It'll get it off your chest, and who knows where it'll go?


I think i speak for a lot of people when i say easier said than done.
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I thought that was how you're meant to do it



lol okay well i wasn't at the man meeting where that was decided but it's just how i did it


it worked, i also tried to focus on all her bad qualities to make me think less of her, which helped
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Relationship Thread, but I'd say your best bet is to write her a letter telling her how you feel. It'll get it off your chest, and who knows where it'll go?

Actually I did tell her in our last conversation. I didn't expect it to change her mind.
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I don't think this is a childish thing because I've seen and heard enough ****, I've work constantly in a very professional situation and I've had he crap beat out of me enough times to make me a mature person (I'm not a square, mind you, just mature).

Last time I checked...
it was Hip to be Square
#19
Hurry up and post this in the Relationship thread so I can answer properly! This'll get closed pretty soon and you won't have had as much advice as you're looking for.
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yep chicks love being treated like crap


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#21
Its happened to me before kinda. Dated a girl for 3 years on and off. Mostly off tbh. But shes said she loves me, and i have also said that too. But shes obviously moved on. Just tell her how you feel. I think distancing yourself from her and taking up a new, time-consuming hobby might be best. But its different for different people.
#22
you said you've never met her, but then before, you said you spent a weekend together!!

que?
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Actually I did tell her in our last conversation. I didn't expect it to change her mind.

Considering you're here, I'd say it went badly. Your only choice is to get over her.

Easy way: Don't think about her. Just completely stop. Make sure you're always thinking about something else. It works every time for me.
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You don't have a mental problem, you had created a self emotional bond with her that you wanted to be more time with her, but couldn't, so obviously the lack of not progressing that bond would make you depressed and feel sad.
You obviously fell in love, even if you talked through letters your still creating emotions, any contact from anywhere or anything will create a bond with someone that is why love can exist through anywhere as long as you create a bond with the person.
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#26
if i wasnt banned id say something like.......... even ug has a restraining order on me....... then id be like......... im a pretty good musician tho.......... the, hell im 40 maybe its time to start looking at guys....... then ummm, well that sucked, maybe all the greatest musicians were really truly married to the music and we just need the fat mound of joke that is love to make sure we stay true to the blues...... thats it. but i know ill hit the porn button sometime within the next week. i hate that. i need to practice more and different instruments and ****. god i love to look at pretty girls.
#27
well...I say just tell her you like her and ask her out. (I wouldn't confess undying love, you'll just freak her out )


If she wants to meet, great. I she doesn't, delete her number and forget aobut her.

I know it's easier said than done, but you'll get over it. trust me, you're just wasting your time obsessing about her.
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you said you've never met her, but then before, you said you spent a weekend together!!

que?

I did spend that weekend with her, in the first paragraoh I said "I haven't seen her SINCE", that may have confused you.
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How'd that go? i.e. response etc.

She said "you're killing me here" and I said "unless there's anything else you want to say I'm gonna go now" cus I was upset and there was no point continuing when she just didn't want to meet me again.

This is in Relationship Thread now.
#29
get over her dude. seriously i've been in your shoes. it will cause all sorts of nasty things like depression. kick her out of your life and move on. its unhealthy and nothing good will come of it.

seriously i've been in your shoes, big time. move on, get over her and start talking to new chicks.
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I realised I loved her more than I had previously thought. Weird, right? We never saw eachother, but that's just the way it felt.


no mate, this is the bit that confused me
#31
Firstly. Getting beaten up doesn't make you mature

Anyway.
I've been in a similar situation. Very recently in fact.
Long story short.. I fell in love with a girl, and I most definitely became obsessed with her. She liked me alot as well, but circumstances worked against us.
Have I gotten over her? Not completely that's for sure. I really really liked everything about her and I had never gotten along as well with anyone else before. But for the most part I have gotten over her and accepted it after she pulled the same **** off and cut off contact with me and some other crap.. though she eventually got back in contact and we still talk now sometimes, I've never seen her in the same way again.
But part of me forgives her because the situation is alot more complicated... but from what you've said it sounds like the girl just stopped talking to you for little to no reason after talking for so long and that's just cruel.

One thing that can help is... don't hold her in such high regard. I DEFINITELY romanticized the girl I talked about, and put her way too high up.
Anger also helps. Getting angry with her and disliking her is way better than being obsessed with someone who treats you like dirt.
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I had the same type of problem. This girl and I are family friends, and I only see her for about 4 days once a year, and I never talk to her outside of that. It was pretty obvious to everyone that I was crazy about her, but nothing really happened. We're just 2 different people. You'll fall for someone else harder than you did for this girl. I did.
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#35
Distance makes the hearts grow fonder


just to let you know,i share the same feeling
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So basically, you have an online girlfriend right?

Watch this, it is the cold hard truth and it'll slap you back to reality:
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