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#1
I feel guilty now.

Basically what happened was that I came back to my flat that I share with some other students, went into the kitchen to find one of my flatmates there.

Now I'd had to dash out in a hurry from lunch that day and I'd accidently left an empty bottle on the table, which had fallen onto the floor. ]

Anyway, this girl launches into a massive strop and begins yelling at me about how I was always throwing things on the floor and how I'd left stuff out in the kitchen (there was a cup and some stuff but they weren't even MINE).

She also berated me for not having helped clean up the day before in the kitchen, despite her never asking anyone to help out or even telling anyone. This girl is a complete control freak and she refused to listen to a word I was saying, and what she did decide to listen to she said I was 'making excuses' and stuff like this.


PS She also in her anger THREW the bottle at me.

Any idea what I should do,bearing in mind that she is an international student (from China), hardly speaks intelligible English and uses me as a scapegoat?
#2
Move out? haha

or let her get on with it? I'm sure she can't stay angry for that long.
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#3
rape her

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#4
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Move out? haha

or let her get on with it? I'm sure she can't stay angry for that long.



Like I said, she hated me right from the moment she met me, and picks any reason to have a go at me.


Theres also no point in trying to move out cause I'm on a fixed contract.
#7
cut her hair in her sleep.

EDIT: then spread it all over your kitchen. when she wakes up yell at her and be like "WTF you always leave messes in the kitchen there's hair everywhere. and ask her to clean it up".
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#8
Dude, you don't wanna mess with the chinese. Just look at tibet.
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#9
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Leave her to it, do your other flatmates agree with you or her?



I really don't know. I have possibly two allies, one of whom was there when I had the argument.
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Dude, you don't wanna mess with the chinese. Just look at tibet.



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#12
Kick her in teh dick
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#13
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#14
Why do you feel guilty? What exactly have you done to feel guilty about?

Simply don't engage in arguments with her. Just walk away.

Don't apologise, or feel guilty, unless you have actually done something wrong.
#15
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Just ignore her. That's the best way to deal with bitchy control-freakish girls.



Difficult considering I have to live with her.
#17
Do nothing - it's not a big deal and you won't remember what you were so bugged about in a few days.
#18
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Do nothing - it's not a big deal and you won't remember what you were so bugged about in a few days.


...unless she decides to have another go at me.
#21
When I said just ignore her, I meant just don't get offended by anything she says. If she yells at you, DON'T yell back. That inspires her to be more of a bitch. Just pretend to not care (or better yet, just don't care) and she'll probably lose interest. Basically, if she sees that you easily get offended, she will try to do it more often.

I don't mean you should be one of those people who's constantly grinning like an idiot, just don't let her push you into a negative state of mind. Try to be friendly.
#24
She's Chinese?
And you left a cup out?
Intresting..I think I have a plan.


Someone had to make a reference

But seriously, move out, don't be bullied by a woman.
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#27
Why do you feel guilty? what did you say to her?, anyway you haven't really done anything wrong, just let her get over it.
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When she goes on these rants just walk away, it'll annoy her far more than any words possibly can. Just leave her alone and go do something else, it's probably her time of the month.


Truth. Don't stew in her negativity. I have a fundie Christian uncle who hates me for being a non-Christian. He finds any excuse to try and control the house and shout at everyone. It isn't his house either. My tactics, I ignore him. He's not worth it. Neither is she.

If you don't let her affect you, then her negativity only affects her.
#29
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Why do you feel guilty? what did you say to her?, anyway you haven't really done anything wrong, just let her get over it.



Thing was, I couldn't get a word in edgeways..........although I told her that the bottle was accidently there and the kitchen stuff wasn't mine.


She just didn't listen.
#30
Punch her in the mouth, Its the only sensible answer.


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#32
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Punch her in the mouth, Its the only sensible answer.



I would also like to finish university without a criminal record....
#33
Wait.... SHE's telling YOU to help out in the KITCHEN??!?!?!?


Someone needs to put her in place.
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Sometimes you just gotta punch a chinese girl in the mouth. Future employers will understand this.
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#35
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Sometimes you just gotta punch a chinese girl in the mouth. Future employers will understand this.



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#36
Oh right, i wonder why she thinks you keep messing everything up, maybe you should just try avoiding her, i mean she's not going to listen to you anyway, so until she realises on her own that you're not at fault, you should just stay way.
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#38
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I feel guilty now.

Basically what happened was that I came back to my flat that I share with some other students, went into the kitchen to find one of my flatmates there.

Now I'd had to dash out in a hurry from lunch that day and I'd accidently left an empty bottle on the table, which had fallen onto the floor. ]

Anyway, this girl launches into a massive strop and begins yelling at me about how I was always throwing things on the floor and how I'd left stuff out in the kitchen (there was a cup and some stuff but they weren't even MINE).

She also berated me for not having helped clean up the day before in the kitchen, despite her never asking anyone to help out or even telling anyone. This girl is a complete control freak and she refused to listen to a word I was saying, and what she did decide to listen to she said I was 'making excuses' and stuff like this.


PS She also in her anger THREW the bottle at me.

Any idea what I should do,bearing in mind that she is an international student (from China), hardly speaks intelligible English and uses me as a scapegoat?


Sounds like a job for the lego A team

#39
Help her out as much as possible. Pick up anything thats laying around even if it isn't yours. Sounds like that will probably help her chill out.
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#40
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Sometimes you just gotta punch a chinese girl in the mouth. Future employers will understand this.



I somehow doubt this...
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