#1
If you have a phrase like this

-8p5-------------
-------8p5-------
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What I usually do is almost barre both top strings and then just use my pinky to do the pulls off. I don't know if this is proper technique though. Are you supposed to actually move your index finger or does it stay stationary and you let the pinky do all the work?
#2
i think either way would be fine. but if your letting your pinky do all the work, then make sure you dont let the strings ring out (thats the problem i always have when doing it that way.)
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