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#1
Ok, so one of your best mates is a girl (just imagine that...) you've been mates for a while. Now would you go out with her or would it be too awkward? The one time I did it twas wayyy too awkward! much better to go out with a girl and get to know her that way IMO
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#3
No no no no no. If she became my best friend on a strictly friend level, then the possibility of a relationship is out the window. It's the friend level- relationship doesn't translate.
#4
I would, only because she is closer to me than any of my other friends, and we're damn near to that anyway.

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#5
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What if your best mate is a guy?


I did say ONE of your best mates... but if you were gay then this could apply to you... or if you were a girl
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#6
My best girl mate...

I probably would tbf.

She's really quite pretty if im honest. But it'd be too weird cuz we're good mates. lol
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#8
you would not date your "best mate."

she would be more fit for a marriage proposal when you are old enough. that's the way it works.
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#10
no.
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#12
I've been in that friend zone for years, and to top it all off, she has a girlfriend.
But yes, I would in a heartbeat.
#13
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you would not date your "best mate."

she would be more fit for a marriage proposal when you are old enough. that's the way it works.


Yeah. Thats basically what my friend told me. She told me that if anything ever happened between her and her boyfriend, she would go with me, because I'm the only other person she could seriously see staying with for the rest of her life.


When she told me that, I felt incredible.......I don't know though, she's quite happy with her boyfriend, so as long as she's happy I'm fine.

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No.

Once your in a girl's "friend zone", there is no going back.

Trust me.


I know dude. I know.

now give me a man hug!

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I would.....


if I had any friends.


Go out with me!


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I've been in that friend zone for years, and to top it all off, she has a girlfriend.
But yes, I would in a heartbeat.


SHE has a girlfriend?

So, she's bi?


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#20
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When she told me that, I felt incredible.......I don't know though, she's quite happy with her boyfriend, so as long as she's happy I'm fine.


In the same boat as you bro

Oh, and the "as long as she's happy I'm fine" thing, nice touch. I think the same way
#21
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#22
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What if your best friend is a dog?


Then dating anyone would be more advisable.. but you know, whatever "floats your boat"
(Or sinks your boat, if you dig fat chicks)
#23
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What if your best friend is a dog?


THen you need to get out more. SERIOUSLY Dartmaster, just go out more
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#24
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Yeah. Thats basically what my friend told me. She told me that if anything ever happened between her and her boyfriend, she would go with me, because I'm the only other person she could seriously see staying with for the rest of her life.


When she told me that, I felt incredible.......I don't know though, she's quite happy with her boyfriend, so as long as she's happy I'm fine.


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In the same boat as you bro

Oh, and the "as long as she's happy I'm fine" thing, nice touch. I think the same way



how can you guys be happy being "2nd best" or "plan B"?

maybe i just have issues or something but i wouldnt be happy about something like that
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#26
Girls make ****e best friends anyway. Best friends regardless of gender is a bad idea IMHO.


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#27
I guess it's a possibility down the road but right now I wouldn't because I really have no sexual feelings or anything like that towards her at all. She's really attractive and everything, but I call her "pretty" while everyone else calls her "hot", if that makes any sense. I do plan on being friends with her for a long time though, and who knows, maybe a few years down the road (after college and after we've both been around the block a few more times) I wouldn't put it out of the question that we end up settling down into a calmer, more long-term type relationship.
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#28
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how can you guys be happy being "2nd best" or "plan B"?

maybe i just have issues or something but i wouldnt be happy about something like that


That's a damn right in my opinion, although I would like to, I just can't feel that way, it's the little demon in the back of my head that says "don't cheat yourself, you aren't really happy, you lie to yourself! grab a fork, go out and kill her boyfriend". And I know something about that
#29
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THen you need to get out more. SERIOUSLY Dartmaster, just go out more


lol chill man, just kidding with you

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#30
I have two best friends a guy and a girl so yead I think I would go out with her but maybe not so much now cause shes cheated on some of her bf in the past. But I have tried to have sex with her. And other things.

Sex:If I recall correctly I think she said no and thought I was kidding.
Makeout:Maybe but she has a bf
Send naked pictures to me:She said before she leaves to college she leaves on Tuesday and I"m still waiting.
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#31
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how can you guys be happy being "2nd best" or "plan B"?

maybe i just have issues or something but i wouldnt be happy about something like that


Lol, I'm not really, but I have a feeling if you just went out and killed her boyfriend with a fork she wouldn't even be a friend anymore
All I was saying is that I accept that I don't have that chance, so I'm glad she's happy. I'm not waiting around for her boyfriend to drop dead
#32
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how can you guys be happy being "2nd best" or "plan B"?

maybe i just have issues or something but i wouldnt be happy about something like that



No, you're missing my point. I'm not happy I'm second best; I was happy that she felt that way about me. And what I meant was that as long as she's happy, I dont want to mess it up. I cant stand the sight of her sad....its just.....depressing.

Dammit......now i'm confused......

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#33
Well me and my good friend (girl) that have been for a really long time, both got drunk admitted we loved each other, then we both admitted it the next day sober, then both decided it would be best if we left it at that and were still just good friends.
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#34
Nah I couldn't. But with me it seems to be, Become a couple within a few weeks or stay friends for alot longer. It's too much of a risk once you're good friends to try anything on I think.
#35
ok dudes, just makin sure you guys werent wasting your lives away waiting on some girl.
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#38
casual sex-yes
dating- no, too much of a chance of having a nasty breakup and ruining the friendship.
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#39
My best female friend became one of my best friends because I liked her. I never would've gotten to know her as well as I do if I had never liked her.

Of course I'd go out with her. Unfortunately, that's not gonna happen.
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#40
I normally ask a girl out within the first month of me knowing her. I dated a close friend of mine once, and things havn't been the same since we broke up.
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