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A few weeks ago, I was dating a girl named Zoe. We broke it off because she moved to PA, 3 hours away. She'd been having some trouble with her parents and she was feeling worthless for a few weeks, but I thought she'd bounced back.

Then this came in the mail:

"Andy,

I am so, so sorry to have dragged you into this. I'm sorry my mother called you. I'm sorry to have affected you with my mistakes. That is the last think I would ever want to do to my friends, and I hate myself for selfishly overlooking the outcomes of my poor decisions.
I won't complicate anyone else's life anymore. No one deserves to deal with the burden I was, least of all you. I'm done.

I'm so sorry,
Zoe.

This life holds nothing for me anymore."

I've tried calling, no one's picked up. I've messaged all her friends to try to get into contact with her, but I think it's too late. This was written three days ago, and mailed to me manually. I don't think I'd be notified either, her parents hate me.

I don't know how to handle this.
Dickless.
#2
She just wants your attention. Ignore her.

EDIT: How old is she?
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#5
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She just wants your attention. Ignore her.

EDIT: How old is she?



+1

you hope..

p.s. you'll probably get a better answer on the relationship thread mate
#7
Chances are, she'd bull****ting. If it's real I feel bad for you, but she is a coward even thinking about it.
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She just wants your attention. Ignore her.

EDIT: How old is she?

+1. also to the question stated.

If you're so worried, call her mother.
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#11
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+1. also to the question stated.

If you're so worried, call her mother.


Exactly. If you're sooooo worried about it, get the fuck off UG and go see what's wrong with her, mate!
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#12
Can you not visit? 3 hours isn't the end of the world to travel to find out if she's alive or not.
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#14
Exactly. If you're sooooo worried about it, get the fuck off UG and go see what's wrong with her, mate!

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#15
Exactly. If you're sooooo worried about it, get the fuck off UG and go see what's wrong with her, mate!

This man speaks the truth.
#16
bull**** she wants attention. Bunny boilers to be avoided at all costs unless they are exceptionally nice looking and give daily blow jobs
#17
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Chances are, she'd bull****ting. If it's real I feel bad for you, but she is a coward even thinking about it.

Don't start this again ://
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Chances are, she'd bull****ting. If it's real I feel bad for you, but she is a coward even thinking about it.


haha, thats kind of funny coming from someone who's name is "Cobain is King"
#19
But if she did kill herself, none of the blame's on you. She can't expect a suicide note to make someone stop their life and come to her rescue. I still think she's bull****ting you.
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#20
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haha, thats kind of funny coming from someone who's name is "Cobain is King"


Hahahaha
#21
She's not lying. She's been sent away twice for trying to kill herself. She's had problems with clinical depression, I'd know if it wasn't real.
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#22
Call the A-Team! Or if you're too late, call Ghostbusters!

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She's not lying. She's been sent away twice for trying to kill herself. She's had problems with clinical depression, I'd know if it wasn't real.



unless you are a social worker cease contact.
#25
She misses you....or something....and wants to see you. Maybe as a protest to her parents.

Ya know...

"Ha! We moved three hours away and I am STILL able to see him."

Kind of a "in-your-face" thing. Know what I mean?

I've had girls do this to me and I would call them and tell them to expect an empty funeral. They're still alive. Don't stress it. Nothing's gonna happen. I give you my word. If not...i'll ride up there to hold your hand....
Why look a man in the eye when you can shoot him in the back?

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#26
she is being totally hypocritical in this note, if she has in fact killed herself.
"I'm sorry to have affected you with my mistakes"
"selfishly overlooking the outcomes of my poor decisions"

she, after noticing the problem, decided to tell you (and im guessing many other people) shes killing herself, and then actually commiting suicide.

she didnt think about the outcomes of her poor decision, and is now affecting everyone with her mistake.
#29
Like I say, call the police. If she's dead, she's dead. If not, she gets her door broken down for sending you the stupid letter, and serve her right.
#31
Call the f***ing police man, now! You do know that you are obligated by law to notify the police when you know someone might intentionally cause themselves harm, especially if they have a history of it, like she does. If she has tried to kill herself before, she should be on a government program called Suicide Watch, and you, as a close friend, are legally obligated to intervene.

I guarantee you, if you do nothing and she does end up dying, you will feel extremely bad about it, and who knows what you might do. You might blame yourself, or someone else, and this could haunt you for years. Do the right thing.
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#32
If you KNOW she's had problems with depression, then that note is definitely going to be authentic. The fact is, you have to some extent a responsibility to at least contact someone to make sure she gets some help, call her parents.
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Like I say, call the police. If she's dead, she's dead. If not, she gets her door broken down for sending you the stupid letter, and serve her right.


+1
#36
I was suicidal for years attempted ect ect. The note could be legit but one line still might give you hope this was just an attempt or her hopes you could fix everything.


This life holds nothing for me anymore."

usually that kinda of stuff means your not entirely sure about it. as weird as that sounds. Probably the note would have been a little more to the point as well it would have just said sorry, not mentioning stuff like the mother and stuff.
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#38
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Her friend Josh just e-mailed me back. She did do it, on tuesday.

I'm sorry man.
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#39
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Her friend Josh just e-mailed me back. She did do it, on tuesday.

Shit

I'm really sorry to hear that.
I suppose at least now she doesn't have to suffer anymore
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