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#1
Okay, give me advice, dont be lame and tell me to just leave.

^That's why I always post out here in the open.


Alright, a few months ago, I guess starting in December. I was kinda in this hypochondriac phase. Like anytime I thought something was wrong, I would go to the ER.

i.e.:
like if I got an upset stomach, or indigestion, I would go to the ER thinking I had an ulcer or soemthing like that.

so yeah, it ran up the insurance like crazy, but that's another story.

Also, I'm over this stuff. I quit acting hypochondriac around 3 or 4 months ago. So, I'm not crazy (least not this type stuff anyway.)

anyway, since I was still 18 at the time (19 now), I could get a reduced payment/charge if I went to a pediatric hospital. (it takes too long to explain the insurance and hospital's policy, etc. so never mind).

Anyway, one time when I went there, there was this cute girl there. She was/is a Life Quality Specialist (or some odd title like that). Her job is to make sure the kids know whats going on, try to help them relax, and just reassure them, etc.

Obviously since I was older, she was just like "well, you know what to expect, you know whats goin on right?" I was like "yeah". So we start talking (just random chit-chat, you know? how long you work per shift? is it stressfull? etc.)

So I thought about asking her out but nothing ever came of it, I kinda just said never mind.

So a few months go by, and lately for some odd reason, I start thinking about her. So I look her up, sure enough she's on here.

Apparently she graduated in 05. I knew when I first met her that she was older than me, but not that much older. Not that its bad, but you know what I mean.

So if she started college fresh out of highschool at 18, then graduated in 05, that would make her around 20-25, right?

I'm thinking about adding her as a friend. But on second thought, I dont know if I should. She most likely has a BF or she could be engaged or even married, who knows?

I want to add her, but if her BF/fiance/husband what-have-you finds out, he may try to hunt me down or soemthing.

And yes, I've known a few friends whose BF's were like that.

So what should I do?

See, I only meet older women, why cant I find someone more my age? UGH!

Also what's the oldest that I should even consider? like maybe 18-21 or is that still too old?
#5
Ask her out boyfriend or not.

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Quote by We'realltoBlame
Older chicks rawk.


^ agreed.


I'm just scared that if I even talk to her, that some crazy guy will come after me and try to kill me. < and I knew a few people that that happened to.
#10
1. Bumping your own thread is a warnable offence

2. Add her as a friend if a crazy killer comes after you move to Mexico

3. Go see a therapist

4. Leave

IN THAT ORDER!
#11
Neptune, leave. Quit bumping. You'll get banned.

You come back with the same damn problems every time, and you wonder why you get such bad reception? You have shown that you are in no way capable of taking care of your own issues. Quit annoying us.

Get yourself together.
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#12
Wait she has an account on here like UG?
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#13
Grow a pair.
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Wait she has an account on here like UG?


I want to know this as well...
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#16
on my 21st birthday i hooked up with a 29 or 30 year old... her boyfriend was in a different part of the bar
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#17
You were looking for a chick you met at a hospital and you searched UG?


And you actually found her?
thats pretty awesome actually
#18
Quote by Santiago300
You were looking for a chick you met at a hospital and you searched UG?


And you actually found her?
thats pretty awesome actually

I assumed he meant myspace.
#19
Ask her out... the worst that'll happen is a no. BTW If she has a bf I doubt he'll go all bounty hunter on your ass.
"I'm sick of following my dreams man. I'm just ask where they're going, and hook up with them later."
#20
just ****ing add her. It's not like you're proposing. And if you ask her out and she has a boyfriend all she's gonna do is say, "sorry, I have a boyfriend." What's the big deal?
#21
Quote by master
just ****ing add her. It's not like you're proposing. And if you ask her out and she has a boyfriend all she's gonna do is say, "sorry, I have a boyfriend." What's the big deal?

This.
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Quote by neptune1988
So a few months go by, and lately for some odd reason, I start thinking about her. So I look her up, sure enough she's on here.

Wat, she's on UG?!
#23
I've never gone out with someone younger than me.... except for 3 times!

older chiks ftw
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#26
I can honestly say this, don't bother, It will save you some embarrassment. I'm not trying to sound harsh, but trust me
#29
dude...who gives a ****...just ask her out dont think about it so much
whats the worse that can happen...i mean if you have coronary heart failure or something just go to a different hospital
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#30
Quote by mrwaffles
That's some bad advice. Even if it goes horribly, you can learn from it and do better next time.


I suppose I agree. It's just that in this situation, he will no doubt get rejected and it's just an inappropriate thing to do. It's like asking a psychiatrist out or something
#32
Quote by Scissortooth
I suppose I agree. It's just that in this situation, he will no doubt get rejected and it's just an inappropriate thing to do. It's like asking a psychiatrist out or something

Why, is it impossible for medical professionals to be in love or something..?
#33
Yeah, just do it bro. You'll feel a lot better after regardless the answer. Then you won't think back on it and think you were a dumbass.
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this man is right. everything he says is right. so, stop killing people and get therapy ffs
#34
It's worth a try. Ask her out.
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#35
Well, I understood that he was seeing her and she was treating him talking to him and giving him advice because he thinks he's sick all the time. Reading again I realize it's not the case.

Now that I read correctly I can say this. For one, don't worry about a BF being involved. If a BF is there, chances are he's not going to flip out because you add her as a friend on a social networking device. At this point, it seems like the only way you can see if she has one, and if you realize she does, you can simply back off.

You really have nothing to lose, add her and see where it goes
#36
I mean, the only kind of trouble I can foresee is the awkwardness of your meeting. I mean, there is the whole Florence Nightengale effect (thank you, Back to the Future!), but still, it'd be probably a tad weird.
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Quote by Pauldapro
this man is right. everything he says is right. so, stop killing people and get therapy ffs
#37
idk
just be ready to explain why the hell you were at a pediatrics when you were 19
which could in turn lead up to the whole hypochondriac situation
which chicks dont dig
also
relationship thread is there for a reason
#38
Quote by prunaman
idk
just be ready to explain why the hell you were at a pediatrics when you were 19
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